Singles & Dating - 13 January 2007

I was wondering if girls like nerdy guys. I am 20, in college, and am a really nerdy guy.

2007-01-13 13:47:49 · 13 answers · asked by Steady As She Goes 2

I have been with a guy for 3 years now and hes really great but lately he has been really busy and just treating me like another item on his list of things to do and people to see. Everytime i try to talk to him about how i feel this way we get into a huge arguement and he says that i am too needy and can't stand to be without him or some bullshit like that and when he says that it makes me fell really shitty and as though i have no dignity if that is what he thinks of me. I have been with him for 3 years and really love the guy. i am pretty sure he feels as though nothing is wrong. how else can i bring this up or should i just let him go and do his thing even though he says thats not what he wants??

2007-01-13 13:46:21 · 3 answers · asked by Lynne. 2

2007-01-13 13:45:25 · 26 answers · asked by hottie15 1

So I have a friend who is male and whenever i get close to a girl or he gets a clue that I might start dating her, he tells her how bad of a guy I am and how she shouldnt date me. He has done it twice to me and once to another guy. I try to confront him about it but he won't admit it. What do I do?

2007-01-13 13:44:52 · 5 answers · asked by z o 2

This happen a year ago he knows me since we were classmates one of my subjects 2 years ago. Does this mean she also like me?
Serious answers pls!!!tnx

2007-01-13 13:44:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

And it is long distance. So I can't really be there in person to help him with day to day stuff or to even offer my affection. It sucks.

I know girls and guys express their love in different ways, and have somewhat different expectations from each other. So what can a girl do to make the guy feel loved (the important thing being.....HE sees it as love). Guys, please respond and let me know. Serious answers please.

2007-01-13 13:44:32 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6

Would you see your history as a problem with your currant guy? How would you make sure that sort of thing dosen't bother him especially if the guy has no experience? (And yes, this question would work the other way asked of a guy).

2007-01-13 13:44:02 · 5 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2

weve been together 6 months, first 2-3 we were all over each other and we talked hours every single night and couldnt see enough of each other- but it was summer and school hadnt started. School started and things were same at first then talking and meeting declined. There was a time 2-3 months ago that we had a huge fight about her spending more time with guy friends and etc. (one of her guy 'friends' called her 3 times while she was with me and asked to come over- which he did) Today, yesterday and the day before she spent time with this other guy and who knows how many times i dont know about, and ive seen her 2-3 times in last 4-5 weeks because she stays ''so busy'' I recently gave her a necklace with 2 hearts, our names and birthstones and she wears it regularly. I asked her bout this guy and she says she feels cmfortble with him because he wants ''nothing from her'' and their just friends, does anyone know something i could try to see how much i ''really'' mean to her?

2007-01-13 13:42:30 · 1 answers · asked by Bronco 2

Everyone (friends, family, mostly grls I know) tell me I'm really beautiful, smart, and funny, but I just don't see that! I mean...guys don't seem to notice me at all!! I know having a boyfriend doesn't make you beautiful, but iunno...I mean...I feel defective or something!! argghhhh!! crap-o-la! This is so frustrating! Does anyone know what could be wrong with me?! (I know that's a hard question to answer seeing as none of you guys really know me)

2007-01-13 13:41:53 · 22 answers · asked by KaY 1

okay so theres this boy i like alot i just met like two weeks ago he asked me to go on a date and asked me out and i said yes........then one day i called him and this gurl answered saying stop calling ma man but he told me it was a joke then yesterday he told me that he thinks where moving to fast that we shouldnt go out but he likes me ?should i wait for him or is he cheating on me?

2007-01-13 13:41:36 · 8 answers · asked by Te Amo PaRA SIeMPrE 2

Even if it was sexual? or something you never tried before?

2007-01-13 13:41:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am told i was raped (i still think it was my fault)..around 5 months ago...n now i am having night mares about penis. This is not a joke. wat should i do?

2007-01-13 13:40:24 · 13 answers · asked by kitXcat 2

I`m an average weight, 5`4, 117lbs. Green/blue eyes, clear skin. I`ve been told by many people that I was very pretty. I`ve never had a boyfriend before. Is there really something wrong with me?

P.S. I have a soft, Texas drawl that I`ve been hiding at school for years because I got teased about it, but certain words just slip out and I end up blushing like crazy. I look like a tomato. Does my accent and/or blushing turn guys off?

2007-01-13 13:40:02 · 14 answers · asked by random 2

what is the best way to figure out if a guy you have been dating and has really liked you is now not interested or mad at you for some reason..?? is it best to call him up and ask him.. or text.. or what? and what do you ask.. do you just be blunt and say: are you mad at me? or did i do something wrong? or do you work your way up to it some other way? what are some lines you can say to ask that............????!! thanks for your help!!

2007-01-13 13:37:27 · 6 answers · asked by coolio 4

It would only be physical and short term. I know we'd never work in a relationship but I can't stop thinking about him ina very adult way.

2007-01-13 13:37:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i have this guy friend and he gave me his number out of no where then says call me so i tried and he wont answer so i tried this other guy that i like and hes my other friends best friend..but he wont answer either after he told me to call him...what should i do?

2007-01-13 13:36:07 · 15 answers · asked by amber j 2

2007-01-13 13:35:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

at work this girl is drop-dead, the rest are mess. Anyways I am kinda quiet maybe a bit shy. I've got a bit acne but its going away day by day and its better now. But I got myself to say "hey ____ how you doing!?" she said "fine, how about you". I replied with "Im pretty good!".
I dont think I said anything corny or stupid but I would like to know what the next step would be? Any advice would be appreciated.

2007-01-13 13:35:45 · 4 answers · asked by jm 3

2007-01-13 13:34:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you go on a rollercoaster, go on a freefall ride, or sky dive.

It's not buteerflies in my stomach or stomach upside down. It's something along the lines of:

"My heart in my throat" or "My stomach in my head"

Anyone remember how it goes???

2007-01-13 13:34:40 · 3 answers · asked by Nick32836 1

2007-01-13 13:34:34 · 8 answers · asked by cozzief1 1

i'm in love with my best friend [who's a guy].. i'm 18.. i've loved him ever since i was 13.. we'd hang out.. and we went to see fireworks together and we sat with a blanket in the trunk of his car [he has an SUV].. he used to bang on my window and scare me while i was like watching tv because he was "bored" and thought it was funny.. and he'd wind up staying for a few hours, and we'd just talk the whole time.. was he really bored, or did he want to see me?.. our parents are really close too.. so once, when i was about 14, i was over there for a bbq, and i caught him staringfrom the corner of my eye, and he looked away.. he's pretty shy around girls.. even though he's adorable! idk if he's just not saying he's liked me, or he really doesn't! i feel weird talking to him about it cuz i'll feel like a fool if he really doesn't like me! we're going to different colleges next year, and i don't want to think of "what could've been".. it makes me upset now just thinking about it.. please help

2007-01-13 13:34:22 · 20 answers · asked by beach blondie xox 2

I mean its just cause for a teacher hes SO hot and I mean he doesn't look like hes 37 but he is... and I had a uh "Dream" (like with me and him..alone in a classroom) about him a long time ago and ever since its changed my point of view on him. I think its weird that I have infatuation for a teacher... and I'm just wondering if I'm the only one that finds it weird. And its not like I like him or anything I just have infatuation for him... is that wrong? Cause I'm 16 and hes like 37, is that okay? Please help me... this has really been bothering me.

2007-01-13 13:34:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, we had a break because he said alot of feelings has been lost. we had a date after teh break it was really fun. Now, after a week, he message me back. and yesterday he ask me out and he came over at my house. he stayed over for the night but we didn't talk about us. instead, he said i am different and i changed and i asked him if he likes the new me, he said yes. I don't think i changed for him, i actually became a better person myself. Today, we talked and I ask him if he wanna go eat dinner w/ me later and he said sure and i told him to book a day off work on that day. (before on the first date after break, he said he didn't know if he will go out w/ me when i asked). Also, today i told him that i told my mom about him, and he was excited and asked me what i said. (he was quite not happy before that i hide him from my parents). I am confused, what should i do? should i just let things be and not ask him about our relationship? on a side note, i'm really happy being with him

2007-01-13 13:31:44 · 6 answers · asked by missyc 1

everyone always says guys hate when their girl is clingy and needy.. but what exactly do you guys consider "too clingy" and do you REALLY hate it that badly. and what if the guy himself is really clingy at the beginning and texts/calls every night... but then is it normal for them to just go from being that clingy to not??! because this guy i have been dating was really clingy for like the past 3 weeks and now all the sudden he hardly talks anymore. (for like the past 3 days) i don't know if someone clued him in and made him feel stupid.. or is there perhaps a loss of interest? but he was just all talkative to me like 3 days ago... but then all the sudden.. i don't know what happened.. because i haven't done anything wrong i don't think.. i haven't done anything different.

2007-01-13 13:30:56 · 10 answers · asked by coolio 4

2007-01-13 13:30:29 · 10 answers · asked by metroactus 4

for a long while, i never found a girl I was intersted in, it never bothered me, but then, I met this amazing girl, shes in my school and we talk a fair bit, and the more i talk to her the more i like her, infact i was going to ask her out, and given it a lot of thought, then i found out she has a boyfriend, this was some time ago, and i still like her, i want to move on but i cant (I'd rather just be able to go out with her, but moving on seems like the only logical thing now), i try and try but it the more i do, the more it hits me shes really special, and i would just like to be able to tell her what i think but i can't becuase i don't want to create awkwardness between us, put her off completly, or just be friends, and its totally unreasonble to expect her to just leave a relationship for some guy that tells her he likes her. more than anything i want to stop beating myself up about it. help?

2007-01-13 13:29:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is 20, beautiful and a little naughty. I want to know if she really likes me or is just playin' me for what she might get like gifts or cash. I speak to her once and a while and text almost every day

2007-01-13 13:29:14 · 11 answers · asked by older 1

do girls like to be called
1. cute
2. hot
3. sexy
4. pretty
5. beautiful
6. awsome
7. cool
8. nice
9. others....

....pick one or two

2007-01-13 13:26:55 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

So let's name the guy I like guy number 1 and the best friend number 2. Okay so number 2 asked me out but I like guy number 1. I told him I didn't like him that and that I hoped we could stay friends. Guy number 1, as soon as he heard about it seeing as how they are best friends, asked me " Why did you reject him?" I am close friends with both guys and I don't know. Should I just stop trying to get number 1 to like me altogether or what? I'm confused about this. Please help.

2007-01-13 13:26:19 · 5 answers · asked by COACH LOVE x3 1