i am told i was raped (i still think it was my fault)..around 5 months ago...n now i am having night mares about penis. This is not a joke. wat should i do?
2007-01-13 13:40:24 · 13 answers · asked by kitXcat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is this odd?
2007-01-13 13:43:54 · update #1
You need to talk to someone if you're not sure you had been raped.
There are things you need help with to get out.
Good Luck
2007-01-13 13:47:23 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST of all, no one can tell you you were raped, you know whether you were or were not. the nightmares could be caused by the actual act or all the subsequent hoopla following it. ask YOURSELF: was I really raped? only YOU know the answer. if you decide you were, you dont have to see a counselor, learn from it, dont put yourself in that situation again and dont let it negatively affect your future relationships, bad things happen to people all of the time. it takes time to heal, and you dont need glorified counselors to tell you that at 500 dollars an hour. if you werent raped, you dont really have a problem. my penis gives me nightmares sometimes! LOL!
2007-01-13 21:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by metroactus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were probably raped...i had nightmares that became a reality when i started asking questions...and found out that those dreams were what really happened to me...you have to talk to someone about this ,,,because if you don't the nightmares will never go away....talk to someone whom you have a lot of confidence with....and open yourself to them,,,and that will help you some what....take care...
2007-01-13 21:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by guess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see a psychologist/counselor and discuss your problem and the rape. If you don't you may end up relating peniss with fear and nightmares. Its best to deal with the problem now before it effects future relationships and sexual activity.
2007-01-13 21:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Magician 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you mean told? you didn't know. and you shouldn't just have nightmares about penis only it should of been about everything what happen.
you sound like it a joke
2007-01-13 21:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by darkangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were told? If you dont have it in your memory dont let jerks, put something there that does not belong. Dont let anyone play mindgames with you.
2007-01-13 21:50:06 · answer #6 · answered by JAMI E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not your fault. u should look into talking to a counselor or something. talking to someone should help.
2007-01-13 21:44:58 · answer #7 · answered by lala 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing really you can do but if u wanted to stop try sucking on one so you well feel more comfortable
2007-01-13 21:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by Jai P 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would talk to you mom and dad about it or you really close friended that you trust about
2007-01-13 21:44:37 · answer #9 · answered by asdkksad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh... u think u were raped... wtf... if u told the guy stop, then it was rape. end of story, as for the nightmares, talk to someone about it.
2007-01-13 21:44:47 · answer #10 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋