weve been together 6 months, first 2-3 we were all over each other and we talked hours every single night and couldnt see enough of each other- but it was summer and school hadnt started. School started and things were same at first then talking and meeting declined. There was a time 2-3 months ago that we had a huge fight about her spending more time with guy friends and etc. (one of her guy 'friends' called her 3 times while she was with me and asked to come over- which he did) Today, yesterday and the day before she spent time with this other guy and who knows how many times i dont know about, and ive seen her 2-3 times in last 4-5 weeks because she stays ''so busy'' I recently gave her a necklace with 2 hearts, our names and birthstones and she wears it regularly. I asked her bout this guy and she says she feels cmfortble with him because he wants ''nothing from her'' and their just friends, does anyone know something i could try to see how much i ''really'' mean to her?
2007-01-13 13:42:30 · 1 answers · asked by Bronco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow that is a hard one.. tough situation... well.. just make sure you aren't over-analyzing the situation and just becoming one of those jealous boyfriends. if when you talk to her heart to heart about this and all she does is try and defend herself and not really give you straight answers or seems like she is hiding something then she just might be and she is probably not worth it if she doesn't love you as much as you love her. you sound like a great guy and she is lucky to have you.. but you need to think about your trust issue.. because if you can't trust her then you can't have a good relationship. and if you can't take it anymore then you might want to break up with her. in my opinion.. she should feel most comfortable with you since you are her boyfriend for 6 months instead of just this guy friend who obviously does not want Nothing from her if he calls her All the time.. probably to piss you off and get you in a fight with her so he can take her. i'm sorry this doesn't really help that much.. but i don't really know what advice to give to have her show you how much you really mean to her.. but i think she needs to do Something to show you if she really wants to keep you. you should clue her in to hinting that you could end it.. and see if she makes the effort to try. sorry that's all i can think of! good luck!!!! best wishes to you!!! :)
2007-01-13 13:55:45 · answer #1 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋