I have been with a guy for 3 years now and hes really great but lately he has been really busy and just treating me like another item on his list of things to do and people to see. Everytime i try to talk to him about how i feel this way we get into a huge arguement and he says that i am too needy and can't stand to be without him or some bullshit like that and when he says that it makes me fell really shitty and as though i have no dignity if that is what he thinks of me. I have been with him for 3 years and really love the guy. i am pretty sure he feels as though nothing is wrong. how else can i bring this up or should i just let him go and do his thing even though he says thats not what he wants??
2007-01-13 13:46:21 · 3 answers · asked by Lynne. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy, it seems as if he's been done with you for a while. Sorry.
2007-01-13 13:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Miotch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he makes me feel really shitty"..."I'm beiing treated like another item on his list"...really read what you just wrote!!! Do you want this to be the rest of your life if you two continue together for life?? Seems as tho he wants you but he doesn't really want a commitment. Talk to him, tell him how you feel...if you don't like the way he treats you and he continues to treat you in a way you don't like even after you tell him so, show him the door!
2007-01-13 21:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by zoe and skylar's mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump him
2007-01-13 21:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by nowiknowmyabc's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋