Singles & Dating - 10 January 2007

Last week I was thinking about attending a dance class (cha cha) that I had taken several months ago. But when I looked at my watch and saw it was too late to go. After class I asked a friend if there would have been a girl for me to partner with. He told me that a girl had been there who was new. When he told me who she was I went crazy because it was a girl I had been wanting to meet. This week I am going to the class. I don't know if I would be going otherwise since I only thought about going last week. I think the fact that she is going to be there is a big pull. I kinda like dance but am not too crazy about it. I was only thinking of going because it is the only exercise I enjoy. But like I said. Exercise might not even be a strong enough motivation to get me to the studio. I think its the girl.

2007-01-10 04:56:08 · 8 answers · asked by lend322 4

is "my little chocoalte shake with sprinkles, whip cream, and a cherry on top" too long of a pet name to call a girl????

or wood you like it??

2007-01-10 04:52:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this boy I'm head-over-heels about at school and I've known him for almost a year. He knows I like him, and he's quite shy/quiet, meaning that I'm the only girl who likes him. In fact, the whole school knows and I think it's making him uncomfortable. I've always wondered if he likes me, too: he looks at me quite often and sometimes smiles at me. He's also REALLY nice to me and has never said anything mean about me or done anything to intentionally hurt my feelings, and sometimes he blushes when I'm around. I asked him out once (just as friends), and he said no so I?m scared to do it again. It might be because I asked him in front of his pals, though... And whenever someone asks him if he likes me, he always says no, but I know for a fact that he doesn?t like anyone else. I love him so much but I don't know what to do! Please help!

2007-01-10 04:52:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a relationship with an amazing guy, who offers everything I could ask for physically & emotionally, but NOT financially.Before we moved in with eachother I started escorting because I was becoming desperate for $ to pay bills.One of my biggest fears,besides marriage,is debt and poverty.My bf eventually found out and forgave me,TWICE.But it has become almost like a HEROIN addiction!You know its BAD, but you can't stop, becuz the money is SO addicting! My bf talks a lot of marriage and kids,he wants it!I am terrified of the idea.First of all I am only 19 and he is 25.Yeah I'm too young,right?I know that, but everyone still thinks of marrying that special someone.Also my mother was married 8x,I dont even know anyone that hasnt been divorced at least once(even my friends that are the same age!).My parents dont have a problem with what I do either,so it makes it even more hard to stop. I want to stop and make him happy, but I don't feel like I can right now!Love doesnt pay the bills?

2007-01-10 04:52:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am downright ugly. Girls don't like me because I am ugly. I have a big nose, a skinny face, a long neck and balding. I am still a virgin at 33. Do I just accept the fact that I am consigned to masturbate for the rest of my life and never ever have sex. I will not pay for sex either.

2007-01-10 04:50:53 · 21 answers · asked by NJboy 3

He says I knew he looked at this stuff but he told me all he was looking at was the dirty cartoons. Now I find he's checking out all the porno stuff and all kinds of naked women. I understand men do these things but when he's been locked in a room looking at this stuff and IMing women then comes to our bed wanting sex I feel dirty. Is this wrong? I love him but I can't feel comfortable and or sexy this way. Is this wrong of me? I feel ugly and useless because I'm not getting any younger. I don't think I'm ugly but I don't look like those sexy hot momas on the net. Someone please give me some advice. I tried talking to him but he doesn't seem to listen.

2007-01-10 04:50:29 · 5 answers · asked by rose v 3

2007-01-10 04:49:05 · 9 answers · asked by sexyblackchic80 1

my mom asked me this and i have no idea how to answer..lol

2007-01-10 04:47:41 · 11 answers · asked by crzymomcm 2

me and this guy met on a cruise. we hung out since day one, but i never really noticed him until the 4th night. the 4th night we hung out the whole entire night just me and him talking about everything. and then he made it a point to make sure we were hanging out the next night. by the end of the 4th night we had layed together, and hooked up as well. he slept over that night, and the next night we hung out again. at one point he was in the casino, and my friend went to the casino and asked him to come hang out with us. sure enough, he came within 10 minutes and we hung out. me and him went to his room to be alone and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening in the moment. it was great, but he didn't talk much. after we had sex we walked to my room, and he was about to come in but his cousin walked past us, and asked if we wanted to go to the casino. so we went to the casino, and then i left to go lay down. he told me he'd come back, and he did to sleepover. the next night he came looking for me but my friend told him i was with another guy (which i wasn't). he supposedly got upset and didn't hang out with me the next two nights. i told him that i wasn't with another guy and everything got cleared up, and we hung out again. the whole entire night, me, him, and my best friend hung out. then my friend left with some guy, and me and this guy ended up hooking up again, and everything led to sex again happening in the moment. this time he talked a lot more, and he told me he wanted to do it with me for a long time. he constantly asked me if i was alright, and we acted like a couple, having a cute relationship. the next night we hung out the whole night and kissed goodbye. after the cruise he messaged me right away on myspace, and we kept messaging eachother back and forth until about october. i had visited him and he acted the same exact way he did on the cruise and he kissed me goodbye on the lips and everything. when i stepped outside for a minute, some guy even asked this guy where his girlfriend went. haha. at one point i thought this guy had been avoiding me because the computer does crazy things, so i messaged him and i was like..if you don't want anything to do with me..please don't write back..but he did write back explaining how of course we're still friends and he doesn't have a girlfriend. i happen to be going to college where he lives in august which was planned before i even met him. but now it's been 5 months after the cruise, and he just got a girlfriend. i have no intentions of breaking them up at all. it's only normal to move on, we live far away and can't be together.

do you think he really liked me a lot? or do you think he was using me?
and if you think he was using me..can you please tell me why

p.s. i know cruises are supposed to be fun and not serious, but this was different, and i didn't ever give him head or anything

2007-01-10 04:47:16 · 21 answers · asked by jess p 1

If your boyfriend who has been acting strangely uses a different email to talk to an old friend and hasnt mentioned me yet in this rekindling of a friendship? He has told her to use his alternate email and talk to him on MSN messenger... (he normally uses AIM) and has said "I've always Liked you, _____"(her name.)
Am i just being paranoid?

2007-01-10 04:47:13 · 11 answers · asked by libertyzera 1

2007-01-10 04:46:32 · 9 answers · asked by Humpy 3

my bloke came home from work , he said he was going to the pub at 5 for a drink, i work from home and finish at 5 so he asked if i wanted to go , when i said i did he looked at me funny, he has gone there withnhis mate.
anyway he popped out to get his mate and said he was coming back to get me, when i just rang him his already in the pub with out me, so i just shouted down the phone charming and he said i'm coming to get you now so i said don't bother . is it me or is that wrong

2007-01-10 04:45:49 · 54 answers · asked by hayley b 1

That is the ultimate question. I know that sometimes people get
jealous, when they see others who have a persona, that they
wish they had. Or if they are not getting the attention, that they
think they deserve. There is this woman, at a bookstore, who
works there. She is beautiful, indeed. A very voluptuos woman,
strong sexual energy, with an attitude. I have been watching
her, and she has been watching me. Catch is, she doe not like
it when I fellowship with other ladies, in the store. She walks
past me, like a child, and gives me that look. Once she even
had, a slight frown on her face. When I am alone, just reading,
she smiles, faintly. And the other day, she looked me square
in the eye, and walked right passed me. A pssionate gaze,
if you will. Now I think she is taken, but what does it matter
to her. Given her body language, she is an animal. So I am
asking specifically the ladies. What is up with her ? And what
is she saying to me ?

2007-01-10 04:45:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why is it that love seems to be the solution to all the problems in the world?

When someone is not in love, problems seem so overwhelming...while when you fall in love, the biggest problem seems very tiny and you seem to be able to deal with everything that life brings along better....

Is this true? And if it is, why is that?

2007-01-10 04:44:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think i really like this guy, weve acknowledged eachother but im not totally sure he also likes me.

2007-01-10 04:44:32 · 11 answers · asked by Eye of the Beholder 4

My two best frineds are both 15, the've had sex loads in the past 2 months. They use condoms but i'm worried that she'll get pregnant some how. But i can't voice this worry to them. THe've been going out a year and a bit. But knows she's gettig stuck up bout it

2007-01-10 04:43:48 · 7 answers · asked by Cute little penguin 2

I have a wonderful girlfriend, but i dont think she tells me the truth all the time. I have a ex who i never trusted, but she never did anything to hurt me like my current gg. i love my gf but my ex still like me. ill tell you something i don't like about either one of them. my ex never gave me her house number and still desn't want me to have it. sound suspicious? and my current gf claims to have only "guy friends" but she has way too many of them for them all to be just friends, even her "bestfriend" sends her pictures of his body and stuff. but i love my gf and in a way i feel like i have cheated on her. ihave flirted with other girls and let them touch my dik and i have grabbed their butts but we have never done anything serious. i never did any of this to my ex and we fought all the time. but she still likes me and i still like her. but i made a vow to never do anything like that to her again. i love her but i have feelings for my ex. what should i do?

2007-01-10 04:43:15 · 15 answers · asked by IisIam 3

I have noticed in responses to other peoples questions and (even in my own) that if you have a bad relationship or a problem in it, that people say go get a degree.
Now degrees are great for many things and I figure a psychology dgree is great if you are going into relationship therapy. But what does a degree have to do with a crazy bf or a crazy baby mama?
Are we assuming if people have problems it is b/c they are uneducated?
I have a degree and I have a strange relationship but it won;t help with issues related to crazy daddy.
What's really going on?

2007-01-10 04:42:58 · 3 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6

For some reason my penis always arches to the left like really far though, like its aiming north-west I mean its really wierd, ive seen pornos but I cant really tell if its normal.

2007-01-10 04:42:46 · 15 answers · asked by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2

2007-01-10 04:42:43 · 3 answers · asked by krish 1

2007-01-10 04:42:00 · 25 answers · asked by nayiya'smyworld 2

my boyfriend was "about" to feel me out down there, then he chickened out, why did he chicken out?

2007-01-10 04:41:43 · 7 answers · asked by US 2

I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 19. That's only a 3 year difference, but he's into way more mature stuff that I am. I'm just starting to get into making out and stuff, and he says he's ready to have sex. I don't feel comfortable around him anymore. I always feel like he's gonna ask me about sex and I don't feel comfortable with that topic. I don't know how to tell him. I'm not a very forward person. I just don't know what to do. I love him very much, but I feel like he's rushing this, I mean we've only been going out for 5 months. I don't know what to do. :'(

2007-01-10 04:39:14 · 11 answers · asked by Juliana P 1

i can not tell lie and hate it, but when i see how easy all guys tell a lie and try to decieve girls , my heart break.
when i see that a guy says he is trustful and act oppisite , i just cry.why?why do you guys feel that you can be succeed by this behavior?
every time i trusted a guy he showed his real inside.I am happy that my God always help me to feel it, but im tired of it and feel alone so much.
im a beautiful girl and secceed in my life and dont feel that im very weak, no i just want to tell you guys that be honest with your life and dont wast your times by being a lier.you guys, just lose the good girls and it is too bad.
when the guy i knew returned to me after i l had left him for his lies, i could not accept him, why , because he had enough time for being trust as he saw my trust to him.
i have some advices to you guys, please be honest and be a man when you promise sth to a girl, please try to support her by your love , then you would see the best life.

2007-01-10 04:38:55 · 4 answers · asked by Elham 2

what would be a sweet thing to say to a girl ? or txt her smthin sweet?

we talk every day n stuff just want smthin new ?
smthin yall consider sweet!

2007-01-10 04:38:27 · 15 answers · asked by LeonZe 2

I was 25 years old when I lost my virginity. It was my intention to wait unti I was married. But now I keep beating myself up over it. How do I forgive myself and start over?

2007-01-10 04:38:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have talked to many people online and my best friend met his fiance online

2007-01-10 04:37:52 · 12 answers · asked by YWWE>BVW>mwwe 6

never had a serious boyfriend, but im not settling for less then I deserve. I dont need to be with a jerk just to say I have someone. I'm having fun so whats the big deal with people constantly asking if i have a boyfriend?

2007-01-10 04:37:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does she want to be with me or not?
She tells me one thing she tells her friend something different...
She told me she needed space after a fight, when I ask her if we are still together she says she doesn't know she needs to make up her mind, but wants to continue to date me once a week and limit other communications. I asked her directly what our status is and she said she didn;t know
She told her best friend that we were together and just starting over taking things really slow.
What is the truth???

2007-01-10 04:37:07 · 4 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4

I tried to kiss my boyfriend during sex and he kept turning his head away. Then the next morning as he was leaving he kissed me on the cheek. What the hell. . . bad breath or a disconnect?

2007-01-10 04:36:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous