I used to like this guy, and he found out that I liked him. Well ever since then (and even before that b.c I think he had suspicions that I liked him before he found out I did) he would always try to flirt with other girls in front of me, he would talk about other girls in front of me, and stuff like that. I guess the reason why I figured he was doing it on purpose, or because I was there, is because he would always look at me to make sure I was watching when he would flirt with and compliment other girls, and he would look at me after he finished talking about some girl to see how I would react. And also because when he wasn't trying to make me jealous, he would always look at me, and I admit I would look at him a lot too. I know it's stupid, but I guess how he was always looking at me sort of made me think that he really did like me. Anyways... at first I thought he was trying to make me jealous, or get my attention, but he's been doing this for a year and a few months- literally. I don't know why. We were never really close to begin with, but I tried to distance myself from him as much as possible so that he would stop, because the things he did started to hurt me. I guess that never worked out because it got to the point where I wouldn't even look at him, let alone speak to him or acknowledge him in any way to get him to stop, but he didn't. I've tried to just ignore him, but I've been doing that for over a year, and it's clearly not working. I would never confront him about this, because I hardly speak to him, so I don't know what to do to make him stop. I don't even know why he's doing this. Like I said before, I used to think that he would do it because he was trying to make me jealous, or get my attention, but it's probably because he's trying to reassure me that he isn't interested, or maybe he's sick and finds enjoyment in it. So why do you think he's being so mean? And how can I get him to stop?
P.S I wouldn't be asking this question if I didn't have the tiniest doubt in me that this guy might like me, even though it might sound a little crazy after what you just read. He's just always looking at me, and well it might be because I look at him too, but I don't know. It sounds stupid and immature, but it's true. Thoughts?
2007-01-08
09:15:05
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