Why do most boys only like girls for their apperence? Do they know how shallow that is? I was just wondering because I recently asked a guy out and he was like "No, your not a blonde. I only date blondes." Are all guys like this?
2007-01-08 09:12:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry not all guys are like that,
just the dumb ones!!!
2007-01-08 09:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by have-fun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attraction is usually the first attribute that can be noticed. When boys grow up to men they realize that there is a lot more to a women than her looks. As far as the guy saying that he only dates blondes. He is probably just not interested in you. Sorry to break the bad news. Screw him he is just a boy!
2007-01-08 17:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by Shmesh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all guys just like apperance. The ones who judge by looks alone are the ones you really don't want to date.
2007-01-08 17:15:57 · answer #3 · answered by Rach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not all guys are as shallow as he is although some guys are. most of the guys i know do go for looks, but they mostly go for personality and that usually is the first thing they look for on a girl.
2007-01-08 17:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by beautiful_disaster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not sure how old you are, but im 13, with a 17 and 22 year old brother so you could say ive been around the block?
as far as I know yes alot are, its stupid, like, borderline amazingly stupid. its wrong, but it is out there. thankfully there are some of us good guys left.
remember dont compromise yourself for a guy. or anyone for that matter.
2007-01-08 17:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by burning.beacon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl! I know just what your feeling, trust me guy's are crazy when there young! They like girls for there looks because some guy's don't look for the inside stuff! There are guy's out there that look for looks....But then there are the sweet and amazing ones who look for the inside stuff, hint hint, the stuff that matters! And There's one out there! There all different so just wait for the right one!
2007-01-08 17:16:33 · answer #6 · answered by irishcountrygal07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not at all. i suppose they can be initially attracted to your appearance but generally they want a girl who's fun and a nice person. i'm not the most attractive girl in the world but i know that my boyfriend loves me to pieces and he DOES believe that i'm the most attractive person ever! which is a great feeling. so really i suppose looks don't matter too much.
2007-01-08 17:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys like blondes because most blondes are pretty....and dumb. i think they like dumb girls.... and yea blondes have big boobs... so they probably like them because of that. its so shallow. and rude. u should like someone for in the inside not the out
2007-01-08 17:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im a girl.. but, most guys only like girl for their appearence in the beginning stages of their lives because there not as emotional as us, we like to look at the personality side of a guys more than guys do. usually most guys like girls for their appearance, but personality as well, its not ALL looks...but they need to be physically attracted to the person they like anyway.
2007-01-08 17:16:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys are just shallow they think they can get a ditzy blond that will do anything beause they don't know any better they don't care
2007-01-08 17:16:11 · answer #10 · answered by kelsey b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of us, just the idiots.
Seriously, you should be glad you were able to find out what kind of guy he was that quickly.
You're much better off without him.
Go find someone that appreciates you for you. He's out there.
2007-01-08 17:15:18 · answer #11 · answered by SLASH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋