I used to like this guy, and he found out that I liked him. Well ever since then (and even before that b.c I think he had suspicions that I liked him before he found out I did) he would always try to flirt with other girls in front of me, he would talk about other girls in front of me, and stuff like that. I guess the reason why I figured he was doing it on purpose, or because I was there, is because he would always look at me to make sure I was watching when he would flirt with and compliment other girls, and he would look at me after he finished talking about some girl to see how I would react. And also because when he wasn't trying to make me jealous, he would always look at me, and I admit I would look at him a lot too. I know it's stupid, but I guess how he was always looking at me sort of made me think that he really did like me. Anyways... at first I thought he was trying to make me jealous, or get my attention, but he's been doing this for a year and a few months- literally. I don't know why. We were never really close to begin with, but I tried to distance myself from him as much as possible so that he would stop, because the things he did started to hurt me. I guess that never worked out because it got to the point where I wouldn't even look at him, let alone speak to him or acknowledge him in any way to get him to stop, but he didn't. I've tried to just ignore him, but I've been doing that for over a year, and it's clearly not working. I would never confront him about this, because I hardly speak to him, so I don't know what to do to make him stop. I don't even know why he's doing this. Like I said before, I used to think that he would do it because he was trying to make me jealous, or get my attention, but it's probably because he's trying to reassure me that he isn't interested, or maybe he's sick and finds enjoyment in it. So why do you think he's being so mean? And how can I get him to stop?
P.S I wouldn't be asking this question if I didn't have the tiniest doubt in me that this guy might like me, even though it might sound a little crazy after what you just read. He's just always looking at me, and well it might be because I look at him too, but I don't know. It sounds stupid and immature, but it's true. Thoughts?
2007-01-08 09:15:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because you react to him he thinks it is funny.
Just ignore him.
And if he does like you.
He will have to find another way to get your attention!
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2007-01-08 09:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm..ok
i think this guy do not like u...
ok
no hard feelings, k?...
well...
first, if u like him and he knows that u like him, ask urself why would he do such a thing to u if he likes u
i mean...to me, he's like...trying to hurt u purposely (and if he's not, he won't look to see u are watching him first b4 he flirts with other girls)
and if this guy does like u...then.....well, he'll have to show it in a different way cuz he doesn't know that he's hurting u
and if this guys don't know that he's hurting u then well..don't worry about him
he's not a guy that is worth hurting over for, cuz..well..he don't know that he's hurting u (or is it that he knows, or it's just that he doesn't care..)
forget about him (i know it might be hard, but come on, there's other great guys in the world 4 u)
o, if he does like u, u gotta tell him about him hurting u cuz then he'll never understand...
well....that's all i can say
goodluck^^
2007-01-08 09:35:14 · answer #2 · answered by Amanista 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't feel like reading it all, but it seems like the only problem is that he flirts with other girls. There could be a possibility that he's just trying to make you jealous so you like him more ooor maybe he just wants you to leave, but most guys when they don't like someone they just don't talk to you or they act like your not there, they don't purposely flirt with other girls, so he may like you. I could be wrong though, but I don't know, hard to say.
2007-01-08 09:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here are a couple of things I can tell from your story. 1. there is some sort of interest on his part, if there weren't he would be paying any attention to you. 2. you need to be more confident. My advice would be if you are interested in this guy approach him and start talking to him, If not ignore him.
2007-01-08 09:23:37 · answer #4 · answered by redrazordg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok it's fine i know it's hard but some times we just have to move on no big dell i know you mite think he loves you but love is not the word your problem better then him and can get better but don't give up he mite change he's wases but if he doesn't live you'll know when the right time is to go e-mail me at brebredq@yahoo.com
2007-01-08 09:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mebre 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart he might be doing this because he nos you like him and sometimes men do not want you to like them because of the confusion that might start.And remember that you can still move on!
2007-01-08 09:20:24 · answer #6 · answered by loveis w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Power trip and ego problem. Imagine what dating him will be like.
It wont stop.
2007-01-08 09:17:31 · answer #7 · answered by Leprechaun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have time to read your essay - how about summarizing your story into a one line question?
2007-01-08 09:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by QnA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes not iinterested in you
2007-01-08 09:17:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋