He didn't drive me home and he lives like 20 minutes away from me. I did say you can drop me off at the train station but it was like 4 am. Do you think that's rude?Would you go out with him again or not?
2007-01-08 09:12:48 · 39 answers · asked by brown21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
all he said was get home safely.
2007-01-08 09:18:07 · update #1
this was the second date.
2007-01-08 09:31:50 · update #2
I would not. This is a bad sign right off the bat.. You are worth more than that.. He basically left you for dead.. At that time in the morning. hell thats scary. Next time where will he leave you? Look for someone that is more a man than that.. good luck.
P.S. Get home safely? If he truely meant that then he would have driven you home.. or at least.. insisted he give you a ride..
2007-01-08 09:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by GirlWithQuestions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you go on another date with the same guy who did not drive you home? Of course not, because if he did not care for your safety which was very inconsiderate of him, since it was 4 a.m. even though you did mentioned that he could drop you off at the Train Station, regardless if you did or not he should have been a gentleman , and should have taken you home. Do under any circumstances date him again.
2007-01-08 09:20:29 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Why did you even say "you can drop me off here" if you really wanted him to drive you home at 4 am. Don't be too nice, say what you really want. Then there's no confusion or questions. Even so, if he were the right kind of guy he would have protested and said he was taking you home .
2007-01-08 09:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
very rude and disrespectful... no offence but maybe he was trying to get rid of you? 4 am or 4 pm a man should always drive the female home even if its half hour or an hour away. That was not nice of him at all, girl if you go out with him again, then you are crazy!! stay away....
2007-01-08 09:16:19 · answer #4 · answered by luvme4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Screw that idea! I don't think he would expect another date or has he asked you? Thats just rude and then to say get home safely...Whatever! Whats up with that. I'm glad I have a good man that walks me to the door and everything, hes the best!
2007-01-08 09:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Whos your mama? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I consider the drive home to be part of the date. When someones takes me out, I expect to be escorted home; just as I drive my dates home when I do the taking out. It's good manners, it ensures your date arrives safely, and it's a chance to steal another goodnight kiss. So to answer your question, I probably wouldn't date him again.
2007-01-08 09:22:12 · answer #6 · answered by Gallifrey's Gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt ask him to drop me at the train station if I wanted to go all the way home. He did exactly what you asked. Maybe he thought you didnt trust him enough to let him know where you live.
2007-01-08 09:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by jeanimus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends why he didnt do so, (if he had an emergancy)
but if he just didnt feel like it then no. yes that's rude. something could have happened to you at the train station at 4 am.
i mean if he cant do something that is soo simple then imagine what hes not gonna do in the future.. sounds like a loser
2007-01-08 09:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by godisamor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if you guys went to a place that is close to your house. I live about 15 mi away from where I go to school and it is a pain to backtrack. You also have to consider the gas prices. If you live that far away maybe you need to consider driving yourself. Give him another shot.
2007-01-08 09:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirl58558 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very rude. A true gentleman would insist on dropping you off on your door than the train station. If he doesn't care about my safety I would not waste my time.
2007-01-08 09:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋