Singles & Dating - 23 December 2006

i have this problem where i feel really bad rejecting guys, as a result, I unpurposely end up leading them on.

What do you do if a guy asks for your phoen number, i usually say "i havea bf", but i get the usual response " we can be friends." is it too rude to just say "i dont like you!"

2006-12-23 21:30:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

*Walked me to the bustop at 3:00am.

*When I insisted it was alright, he said, "we have to take care of our employees"

*I've caught him looking at me, and when I did he hesitated, and froze

*Was looking at me from afar, and then turned his head twice.

*Came towards me and smiled, but when I didn't notice him he looked away and dropped the smiled. (my friend noticed him)

*Hesitated when he saw me look at him

2006-12-23 21:29:38 · 15 answers · asked by noches de leons 2

I met this girl, excellent chemistry, magic in the eyes, and she was coming after me. We started talking, exchanging phone numbers and what not. I started to like her alot. Anyway, i have good game, but the most screwed up thing happened: my employee had something against me and sent her a rose and a poem on my behalf. She said thanks at first, and i didnt know how to respond since it wasnt me. So i didnt (bad move, should have been honest). She started to become stand offish towards me, i told her the truth about it, i dont think she believed me. A week later I drunk messeged her. I tried to recover, and she told me she thought I was obsessed. being told im obsessed with any girl is offensive to me. But in this case, I liked her. She never spoke to me again. Never returns any messeges. Its been 4 months. I talk to other girls, but dont feel the same as I did with this girl. I promise myself im going to win a date. But how do I do this. Ive sent her 1 txt a month.and still nothing.

2006-12-23 21:24:32 · 10 answers · asked by Starving Artist 2

2006-12-23 21:24:16 · 12 answers · asked by Nol 1

2006-12-23 21:19:11 · 24 answers · asked by dd 1

There's this guy I know. We've only talked once and he seems like a really cool guy. Everyone says he's gay, but mostly all the guys. None of the guys really like him, but from what I'VE seen he seems pretty cool. I've been told he's conceited and mess of other things, but i don't think so? If he is gay, then that would explain why he's conceited (no offense). But it's weird because he's so hott, & every girl wants him. I feel pretty shity though because I should have never gone by what everyone told me. But then... one of my friends told me he turned to look at me one day, and he smiled, but let it go when he realized I didn't see him. Another time i was with another friend and he was telling me, "yea, he's gay, he even called himself one!" and when i was telling him about this one time we walked together, he was trying to interupt me, when during our whole conversation he never once did. Does anyone have an idea? Without me being too direct?!

2006-12-23 21:17:06 · 23 answers · asked by noches de leons 2

are you having dinner today?

2006-12-23 21:15:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Had a fun night last night and know it seems a little akwaurd between the three of us.

2006-12-23 21:14:32 · 14 answers · asked by KCS 1

Many women just hook onto the guy for the financial security and wealth, while often ignoring the inner qualities of a guy who may not be earning enough for their requirements.

The surest way to be unpopular with women at a party is to say you are unemployed or you have an old beat up ute parked outside

It seems often marriage is a convenient arrangement where the women offers sex in exchange for a nice house and opulant lifestyle-sort of an unofficial prostitute.

Any guys found this to be true?

2006-12-23 21:12:22 · 13 answers · asked by ixlinxs 5

2006-12-23 21:09:18 · 28 answers · asked by manna eater 3

2006-12-23 21:07:57 · 15 answers · asked by ceaser 2

2006-12-23 21:06:04 · 12 answers · asked by CONFUSED_AND_IGNORED 2

Ive found out that the girl that i like does not like me back. We were also work buddies, and shes leaving very soon, overseas, so i'll probably never see her again. Once she found out that i liked her, she acted very cold towards me. What can i do to stop liking her/thinking of her? How do i get over this "crush"?

2006-12-23 21:04:46 · 11 answers · asked by tao_gettos 1

What does it mean if your boyfriend says he loves you, but you are fighting for the first time ever (and alot), he says he doesnt want to be tied down and do whatever/whenever and not feel bad. Then he says while you go away that youre on a break to think & decide what he wants. But we will remain faithful. Is he really just trying to make me dump him?

2006-12-23 21:01:09 · 9 answers · asked by Stacey M 1

Show my keen interest without talking

2006-12-23 20:53:07 · 13 answers · asked by Mohsen J 2

I've seen some of teh personal ads for online Lesbian dating sites and some of these girls are super hot. It's such a pity (as a straight, horny male) that these women are unavailable (of course in the fantasy world that they would be available to me).
Please tell me what makes a female attractive to another female- and do you ever yearn for a male (or at least his sausage?)?
Is it a question of prefer female company, or males are too dissimilar- please enlighten me!

2006-12-23 20:50:23 · 2 answers · asked by Ministry of Camp Revivalism 4

There is this guy, that I really like. But I have heard a lot about him, like I heard that he just hooks up with girls, get some action, and then dump them. He recently told me that he liked me. I got drunk with him one night, and we were cuddling, and I really don't remember if anything else happened. About a week later, he told my friend he likes her, and all he does is make fun of me now.
You think he was just using me? Or is he just an idiot?

2006-12-23 20:48:09 · 22 answers · asked by Adrianna 3

You see the phrase "the wrong kind of attention" come up regarding women dressing in a provocative way. Accompanying this phrase is the 'observation' that women who dress in such a way are 'easy' or 'slutty', and that they somehow deserve any negative consequences they receive.

However, we are now in the 21st century, and supposedly in an enlightened age. Shouldn't we be promoting the idea, as enlightened human beings, that no matter how a woman dresses that the choices about what she agrees or refuses to do are ultimately hers? Or are we still stuck with stereotypes that just women by how they dress and not the measure of their true character?

2006-12-23 20:47:23 · 12 answers · asked by keltarr 3

I haven't opened it yet, but I can guess what my boyfriend has got me for xmas... I know it cost over £100... thing is, I only spent £60 on him... We didn't agree a budget and I wasn't sure how much to spend... it's too late now for me to buy something else as I gave him the present the other day. Should I admit I didn't spend as much and buy him something else... or keep quiet and buy more next year? I feel guilty but I didn't want to go overboard incase he only spent £20 and felt awkward.... help!!!

2006-12-23 20:45:41 · 15 answers · asked by hmmm 1

Women or gals :),I'd like to kno wut you all like the most in a guy.Maybe i can better myself into wut u gals like, thx so much for any info possible.

(. Y . )

2006-12-23 20:45:05 · 10 answers · asked by keysonyanos 2

If so, does it get harder to find the 'right' man and have a lasting relationship because the new one can never measure up to the best bits of those who went before?
(only 3 men in my life, all very different; I want to melt them together and create the perfect man)

2006-12-23 20:40:29 · 17 answers · asked by cate 4

My guy treats me like an absolute princess & always has. We've had sex before, but I've decided its best to wait until we are married, so i'm abstinent now. Especially because of a recent miscarriage, etc. Last night he asked me when will I be ready to have sex again. I love him very much, but I want to wait. He says he misses it. What should I do?

2006-12-23 20:33:14 · 16 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4

2006-12-23 20:32:46 · 8 answers · asked by L 1

My boyfriend and I havent been getting along, we argue a lot lately. Which we never use to do. I had plans since Oct to visit my parents at xmas, and I didnt really want to go for a couple reasons...my boyfriend wasnt sure he wanted a girlfriend because he didnt want to be tied down, he wanted to use my vacation as a break to think and figure out what he wants. And last because i was worried he might not care properly for my dogs.

Dogs he says he does not like. Ones we argue about. I agreed that we needed space & time to think. So Im on vacation. He is barely texting me, which is fine. But I just found out he left my dogs alone since 4pm today and didnt plan to return until the next day. They had no water and he knows they are not suppose to be left alone together, and they were. Plus he could have just asked his brother to watch them, but didnt. He was how I found out, when I asked him to check on them.

Do I have a right to be mad?

2006-12-23 20:25:29 · 9 answers · asked by nkbapbt 3

Since we met she had a problem of going out of control when she has a drink. She becomes the biggest flirt. Since we moved in 6 months ago, she has become worse. Recently she has been getting her boobs out for the lads and at a hen night for my friend’s fiancé, she was seen kissing at least 4 or 5 guys on the dance floor and snapped at anyone who objected at her behaviour. Of course, in the morning she can’t remember anything. I gave her a lifeline by saying that if both of us give up alcohol then maybe we could work through it. I work away a lot so trust is everything. Last time we went out together, she danced with every man near us because she wants to be the centre of attention. I hate it, but when I go out she gets aggressively jealous if I speak with any other woman even an old friend from school. I have withdrawn from her completely as I decide wither or not to leave. All my friends and family say I could do a whole lot better. But I have strong feelings for her and leaving will kill me. What do you think?

2006-12-23 20:20:00 · 19 answers · asked by secret_sangreal 1

I live out west and I have been communicating via emails and through myspace with a guy who lives on the
east coast. We both have mutual friends here in the west, but we have never met personally.
Anyway, we have been flirty in our messages to one another. Not sexual, just flirty.

Then the other day I ran into one of our mutual acquaintances and she told me he was in a relationship (had a girlfriend).
Well, he just sent me another message saying he was coming out west to my city in February, and wanted to know what the weather was like here in February.
Now, I know he could easily ask one of his other friends who live out here what the weather is like.

Here’s the question!
Do you think he was trying to see what I would say when I found out he was coming to my city??
Was he trying to line up a "hook up" while away from his girlfriend?
Or.....is he just curious about the weather?


Opinions, please

2006-12-23 20:17:29 · 9 answers · asked by ♥♥ Nikki ♥♥ 3

So i've been liking this guy for a really long time, but my best friend sent my convos on AIM about hooking up with him. SHe knows i like him, and this isn't the first time its happened to me, not just with this friend.. but ALL my friends. I always tell them its fine when ever they ask if its ok if they 'hook up' with the guy i like. im always ilke, whatever, no worries, im not mad, im fine!! BUT the truth is... it kinda hurts. i feel like im being walked on all the time. People say " oh youre the best friend i could ever have!" but why do i feel so horrible if im being such a good friend?
does anyone else have these problems? if not its fine.. i just hope im not alone!

2006-12-23 20:12:19 · 19 answers · asked by foreverandalways00 1

Well, there's this girl I met last week at this party. She's a friend of my ex-roommate. My roommate had a party at the house because my roommate was moving far away. I talked this girl for a while. I'm getting interested in her. She came to the house for a little while each day after that. She was visiting my roommate each time, but I would talk to her for a few minutes each time. I think she's interested in me.

On the day when my roommate was leaving, that girl came by again. She came to say goodbye to my roommate. I figured this is my last chance to ask her out. Right before she left, I asked her if she wanted to hang out after the holidays. She asked me for my phone number and I saw her put it in her phone, but she didn't give me hers. She said I'll get the number when she calls me.

What does this mean? Is she serious about hanging out with me or what?

2006-12-23 20:11:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

This is a really lame question..i know...So im flirting with my 'crush' and we are having semi-sexual flirty conversation...
THE BOY SAYS: I just love toying with you
I SAY : hehe
THE BOY SAYS: oh wouldnt you like me "toying"
I Say: hehe hmm i dont know...im not too
sure.........
THE BOY says: ya right
what did he mean by saying those words? is he not interested in a relationship with me? he is just "playing" me or with my emotions??or he is just simply flirting with me? im really lost here..my mind is irrational please help. i know i sound so dumb.ahh silly crushes...thank you.

2006-12-23 20:10:47 · 4 answers · asked by Feodora 2

I'm a 22 year old female and my bf of 7 months broke up with me recently and I'm in so much pain right now. I never hurt him or cheated on him, he just walked away from me...and recently i saw him with another girl at the mall and they were walking hand in hand. every relationship i've been to i always end up heartbroken at the end. i dont think i can ever love someone again....

2006-12-23 20:09:22 · 21 answers · asked by SHERYL 1