For instance, I am a big woman but attractive. I still get approached by men but I have no interest in most of them. They guys I did have interested rejected me because I was not their 'type' (fat).
Now I am losing weight for my soon to be career in Health Reform and b/c I am 26 and want to be fine before my high school reunion in 2 years. It also is an unnecessary obstacle in finding a good man if he thinks you might be unhealthy. I also beleive I have been descriminated against in past searches for employment. Its just unnecessary to have to suffer those due to extra weight so I have begun to shed it. Also I am told that I am a great woman, I would make a great wife & mother one day, or that I was what they were looking for but am too fat. (But I'm still me whether fat or thin).
So with all of that said, does a man have the right (and can he in fairness) ask me out when I get to my athletic size if he once rejected me (the same woman with a great personality) when I was fat?
2006-12-23
13:28:04
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DconS
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