I STARTED GOING OUT WITH MY BOYFRIEND 1 WEEK ND 6 DAYS AGO, AT FIRST IT WAS ALL GOING GOOD , BUT NOW HES DIFFERENT. YESTERDAY HE CALLED ME ND WE HAD A STUPID ARGUMENT SO HE HANGED UP THE PHONE ON ME!!!! IM SO MAD RIGHT NOW ....OH ANOTHER THING WHEN HES ALONE WITH ME HES THE SWEETEST WITH ME.. BUT WHEN HES WITH HIES FRINEDS ND IM THERE HE TREATS ME LIKE IMA PIECE OF SH*IT , I REALLY LIKE HIM BUT HE DOSENT KNOW HOW TO BE A GOOD BOYFRIEND .. PLEASE HELP ME!!??!!?? I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO!! WHAT SHOULD I TELL HIM OR SHOULD I JUST BRAKE UP WITH HIM???
2006-12-23 13:22:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can try to use proper english and stop coming off as a foreigner who is bungling our language!
2006-12-23 13:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its simple: at this age his friends are more important them you. He is not old enough to have a real relationship. And neither are you. Just date the guys you want to when you want. Don't tie yourself down. If he treats you like **** around his friends......don't hang with him and his friends. I know it seems important but 20 years from now you won't remember his name. You can't change people and 1 week and 6 days isn't worth the trouble.
2006-12-23 13:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like an abusive relationship, don't stay in it just because you think that your love can change him. People that are abusive need more than love to change them, they need help from doctors. The first time he hits you in any way or place means that it's time to get out!!!!!!!
He will try to get you back after that by getting you gifts, but this "hearts and flowers" cycle will continue: abuse, gifts, abuse, gifts........
For now see what happens, if he just continues to be an asshole, break up with him!!! The longterm after effects of abuse are not good, they include lowered self-esteem and trust issues.
If this was just a one time thing don't worry about it, ppl have their off days. But from what youve told me, it seems like he treats you different when you guys are alone and treats you nice when u guys are in public alot. If he does do this alot it's time to call qiuts, this behavior will not stop
I hope this has helped you! Take it from me you don't want to stay in this type of relationship.
2006-12-23 13:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by Hopelessromantic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You sound about 10 years old. Yes, you should break (not brake) up with him, learn how to spell, learn how to turn off your caps lock, and grow up. Do all these things before you try your hand at relationships again, and you stand a reasonably good chance at finding happiness.
2006-12-23 13:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CALM DOWN & THINK IT OVER. YOU NEED 2 DEMAND RESPECT & IF A GUY CAN'T RESPECT U, THEN U NEED 2 MOVE ON. 1st OF ALL ? HANGING UP ON U. OH NO. SECONDLY, IF A GUY IS PRINCE CHARMING WHEN UR ALONE & SATAN WHEN HE'S AROUND HIS FRIENDS, THATS EVEN MORE PROOF THAT HE'S IMMATURE & DOES'NT DESERVE U. IF U DECIDE THAT U REALLY WANT OUT, TELL HIM THAT HE'S NOT THE MAN U THOUGHT HE WAS & U DIDN'T SIGN UP 2 B W/ A CHILD IN A MIDDLE SCHOOL RELATIONSHIP!
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-23 13:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by missbronzebeauty09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all girl, don't ever let a dude hang the phone up on you......second most guys are idiots when they are around there friends. They will treat you one way when they are around and act like a b$%#@ when the two of you are alone. But to get him to respect you in front of his friends you will just have to let him know that the way he treats you in front of them isn't cool at all. I know he wouldn't like it if you mad him feel like a @ss in front of your friends.
2006-12-23 13:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh i hate guys!!! tell him he's being an *** and tell him your worth more. make sure he kows you won't put up with his crap because when you are older, and you meet a guy like this it can be alot worse. you need to realize when your young how important it is to be happy in a realtionship don't settle. if you respect yourself, so will he!!! good look!
2006-12-23 13:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls you have to show us what we can get away with and what we cant. This is the beginning of many boyfriend issues so be prepared....Never let any b disrespectful towards you. ever
2006-12-23 13:27:39 · answer #8 · answered by eldiablo0731 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm hes in denial hes acting like the tough guy hes not DONT BREAK UP WITH HIM talk to him
plzz answer my question
2006-12-23 13:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. He is surely trying to impress his buddies and not thinking of you. Move on girl.
2006-12-23 13:25:31 · answer #10 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋