I'm 16 and i like to sit in my boyfriends lap..is sumthing wrong wit that??
2006-12-23 13:53:02 · 12 answers · asked by Jenni H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not as long as neither of you mind him getting hard.
2006-12-23 13:56:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question is how were you sitting on his lap? Clothed or not? sitting side to side or facing him straddling? What else were you doing besides sitting there? Many of the others have asked or suggested the same things. You really need to have a talk with your parents. They won't disown you. They were kids once too. They love you and always will even if you make a mistake. Try your mom first and if she hasn't already explained about the changes your body will or has gone through have that talk first. During the talk you can ask her questions about how a girl gets pregnant or whatever else you don't understand. At 13 you should be in 8th grade. Very young to start thinking about having sex. Boyfriends but not real serious at your age. You will probably change boyfriends more often than your hair styles. Before you ever get to the stage of a serious relationship you need to learn more about yourself and your body. Where do you want to go with your life? What do you want to be? Remember if you have sex you stand a very good chance of getting pregnant. Even if you use "protection" you can still get pregnant. None of them are 100% sure. One of my freshmen girls got pregnant because the condom broke. She had the baby when she was a sophomore in high school. I taught in a Chicago Public school. A lot of girls got pregnant. They were moms when they were still kids. They didn't get to finish being a child. Don't do it. Wait till you are legal and really get to know the person you decide to have a relationship with. Make sure you want the same things out of life and some of the same beliefs. Don't do things just because you think you are in love. As Dr. Phil would say, "Ask the hard questions".
2016-05-23 02:58:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think its fine to sit in a guys lap...if u like it and if ur boy friend likes it then its fine...but just make sure its not at school or around someone who knows ur parents...its fine if ur alone.most guys love it when a girl sits in ther lap.but just dont freak out if u feel him getting hard or aroused its normal for guys when they like a girl just think he likes u and dont freak out or freak him out.coz its not in anyones control getting erect is just same as a womans clit getting erect it just happens when u feel somet touching you or feel comfort of a person u like...i would say its fine to do it as long as u dont go to far and both enjoy it.if u like the guy and he likes u and he seems to like u sitting in his lap do it more hel be crazy about u in no time and will love u forever...
2006-12-26 22:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by whats up yaw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't see anything wrong with it not unless you and him are groping in from of people. But just sitting is alright.
2006-12-23 13:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no under 2 circumstances
-u dont crush somthing
-u dont make him feel to...so somthing doesnt hit u on the butt!
LOL
2006-12-23 14:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by BOOM, roasted. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all. It helps you both communicate. You just never know what will pop up.
2006-12-23 13:56:17 · answer #6 · answered by mumra_06 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont see anything wrong with that
2006-12-23 13:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont see anything wrong with it
2006-12-23 13:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by tlalteutli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thier is nothing wrong with it.
2006-12-23 13:56:36 · answer #9 · answered by Renee B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all good
2006-12-23 13:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋