Singles & Dating - 19 December 2006

Hi all I ended up rd with a guy on a drunken night out had sex etc then he asked to see me again so I gave him my number as he asked but he wanted to come up to my house which I felt thats not what I expected I expected for him to take me out for a drink etc s I told him how about going for a few drinks so he did take me out and it went fine following week he asked to come up to mines again I said no as I felt he was getting to familar too quick so he asked to come up to mines again & I said I would like to go to pictures or sumthing so he said "I'l need to see what the cash flow is like but hes always got money to go out with his mates every Sat and to buy is dope so as u can imagine I feel I'm being used & want to call it off meeting him again anyone any ideas feel hes just wanting to sleep with me and hes tight with his money when it comes to women pls help as sometimes i'm too quick to judge

2006-12-19 04:47:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with this girl for 6 weeks now, things started off great, the intimacy and chemistry was there, and I was very excited. We had one bad date after she heard some news about her sister that she won't talk about (and whom I have not met) and since then she has been very distant, disinterested, and moody. The last 3 dates the kisses have been simple pecs, the hugs have been light, and the compliments and conversation scarce. I try intiating things, but she distances herself, yet when I ask to see her she still wants to see me. I am confused. I am in the middle of my grad school finals and am unsure if she is still interested or if she is planning on breaking up with me once my exams are over. She doesn't always return my calls, in fact, I am the only one calling most of the time. Our last date she was more open intimacy wise, asked if she could give me a massage. Am I worrying over nothing? Her change in behavior since the news has made me nervous, what should I do?

2006-12-19 04:45:38 · 8 answers · asked by MichiganFan 1

Ok, so, I was talking to a friend the other day, and I caught a little sentence which made me think.

Question: why do the nice guys never have the girl?
Answer: because they're boring

I feel like a nice guy, and if boredom is death sentence, how can I work against it? Surprise my mate after we've been living together for a while? The idea would be to have her wonder all the time "what is he up to this time?".

Except I'm not very creative and have no ideas. And little money.

So, how do you keep her on her toes, surprise her, prevent her from getting bored?

2006-12-19 04:45:31 · 6 answers · asked by ruijoel 2

I have a close friend that touches me a lot and kids about me being her boyfriend and other friends of mine being competition. A few weeks ago I made a comment about some dancing girls, and she shot back a snippy comment. Also, she asked me what I thought about relationships, and she has been asking about girls I call and old girlfriends I still talk to. She also asks about how many girls are in my life. And she makes comments all the time about how everyone deserves to get married. Why do ladies do these things?

2006-12-19 04:45:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-19 04:44:15 · 22 answers · asked by Joe 2

So I was taking out this fat chick,who had money to burn,[well her mom does anyway] but no one else asked her out too often.We would go to places that were nice ,and they always had lots of good food.She just kept getting fatter and fatter.It got to the point where I had to shove her into the Prius with unprecedented force.Besides all this, I can only "hit it " from behind,which is okay I guess,it helps me to avoid her sweaty armpits.She also has more chins than a chinese phone book. Where should I go from here"?

2006-12-19 04:41:55 · 33 answers · asked by getnabargain 2

i have this guy and i like him and i dont know if he likes me i am buying him a xmas gift but i dont know if he is going o buy me one!!!! So what do you think i should do??

2006-12-19 04:40:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

i need help in finding out whether this girl who i think likes me is trying to be my friend or more than that. she said hi to me 4 times in the hall when i passed her between classes and she talks to me a lot. she tries to find out more about me n she asked me for a ride home yesterday n i didnt bring my car so she was like u better bring ur car tommorow!! she is a junior n i am a senior. wat do u think...friend or more than a friend n how can i find out? should i ask her?

2006-12-19 04:39:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so I know this guy and he is always staring at me but when I look at him he turns his face really fast. When I talk to him he never looks directly into my eyes or my face when im looking straight at him. And sometimes like when confronted in the middle of class he pretends he doesn't know my name and calls me that girl in the pink shirt or says the wrong name. I know he knows my name because when where in our lab groups of only 4 people he has no problem remebering my name.Why does he do that??

2006-12-19 04:38:59 · 15 answers · asked by Natasha!!!! 3

I really haven't heard from a girl who I met a few weeks ago. The odd text, but nothing much was said. I've just realised that I fancy her but prob won't see her for a few weeks. Should I just text her out of the vlue? and what should I say?

2006-12-19 04:37:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you like a boy and you want to getr him alone at school? If any1 is reading this could you give me an answer quickly, because I'm going to see him soon and I don't know what to do. Please help me. I really like this boy.

2006-12-19 04:36:55 · 19 answers · asked by Daniela15 2

He thinks he's a good liar but he stinks at it. Some he's admitted to, but the real whoppers he still denies even though I know the truth. I love him but even though he says he's changed, as far as his lies, he hasn't. Is there any hope for a future with him or should I just move on?

2006-12-19 04:36:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-19 04:35:36 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-19 04:35:31 · 34 answers · asked by Mr.X 1

Feeling Guitly about cheating??????
Cheating and Guilty behavior?
Boyfriend came to see me today, he not in a long time because i always go to his place. He was VERY affectionate and asked me to "just hold him a while" he then said he had to leave cause he had something to do. He got a haircut that day and was looking really nice. however when he was leaving i noticed that his clothes had become wrinkled from lying on the bed, if he was going to see a girl would he have done this???......what is going on with him, why was he so affectionate, he was then asking me if i would ever cheat on him i guess because i told him about this guy that asked me out the other day. What do you think is going on with him? I asked to see him on certain days and he is like " i will let you know that day" rather than just making plans in advance....

2006-12-19 04:33:18 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-19 04:32:53 · 25 answers · asked by Physiologist 3

ok like my homeboy i was talking about well like the other day i was at his house n like he would leave my ex best friend to check on me n stuff see if i was ok n like i was a bit down that day but it didnt stop my day well like we would be outside n he would flirt with me n like you know how a homeboy would go get you a jacket if your cold well he hugged me n like would just hold me to warm me up well like he told me if i need a place i have his place if i need a car he let me borrow it if i needed money he would give it to me n like after all this time we spend with eachother it just makes me fall for him more n idont know if i should n i dont know if he likes me back but he goes to my house all the time after work n chills there till 11 or 12 then goes home n still talks to me!! do i tell him how i feel bout him?? or do i keep it a secret but i dont know how to tell him??

2006-12-19 04:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by *W3D@* 1

2006-12-19 04:30:55 · 15 answers · asked by ash 1

What does it mean when you dream about someone that you haven't been with for 1 year? plus dreamong about someone you have never met?

2006-12-19 04:29:43 · 10 answers · asked by a2jreed 2

My boyfriend and I have religious and personal beliefs about sex before marriage so we don't do it. I am a virgin and he told he was too but lately I dont know anymore. He mentioned to me on the phone that he still needed to work on "his rythmen"? he said he was joking cause he knows that I am very jelous about other girls and was just messing with me, how do i know if he has had sex or is having it now? what would be the benifit to him if he tells me he is a virgin and knows that i am too??? how can i know if he really is seeing other girls behind my back and/or sleeping with them, and I have already asked him and he said no.

2006-12-19 04:28:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this girl but she broke off with her bf 6 months back. Though i didnt really date her out, we text each other a lot. I bought her gift and her fav food stuff whenever she has the craving. I did hint so much to her and i like her.

Recently the texting gone short. It seem she got some problems. She did told me 3 months ago she got over it and she is alright ( I did help her get over it during her sad period). I got a feeling she is unsure about love now. From her character i know she is a very devoted lover. How long should i wait before i make my move? because if i goes in too early i may suffer a rebound.

2006-12-19 04:28:39 · 17 answers · asked by Eddy W 1

I need some help on how to deal with this situation. Over the Thanksgiving holiday, I brought my boyfriend with me to my family function. Everyone loved him, and I'm glad because we're kinda on "serious" terms. The only thing that bothered me about him was that sometimes he was a real "joke killer." I'm planning on bringing him along with me to my family function (where he'll meet the other side of my family) for Christmas, and I was just wondering what I needed to do with this situation...??? He's a real people person and he gets along with everyone he meets. I kinda want to say something to him about his "jokes" but I dont know if that's a real good idea, because I know that it would hurt his feelings... what can I do...?? Please Help!!
Maybe someone could give me some tips on how to back him up whenever he says something and gets nothing but crickets....

2006-12-19 04:28:15 · 18 answers · asked by Aimee 2

We are high school sweethearts. There is nothing really wrong with our relationship. Its a little boring, and I want us both to see whats out there. If its going okay, should we just work out the kinks, or take a break?

2006-12-19 04:26:11 · 22 answers · asked by Punky B. 1

I am tired of meeting all the wrong types of men. Been set up even, and still not found "Mr. Right." All these fellows want a sexy model type--who can compete? So where are all the unmarried, nice fellows, who like kids (but not "that way") hiding at?

2006-12-19 04:23:29 · 37 answers · asked by shy skye 1

ok so ive been dating this guy on and off for about a year. we recently have agreed to start seeing other people. well ive tried but it seems like none of the guys i meet are what im looking for and i cant be my self around them. well then i get a call from Ben(the guy ide been dating for a year) and he tells me thats hes been dating this girl but shes nothing like me. he calls me when shes not around and tells me he loves me and wants me back. he broke up wih this girl but all my friends say that hes just messin with me but when i talk to his friends....they tell me im all he talks about and he cant go anywhere with out sayin i remember when she... or stuff like that. my parents dont really like this guy but im in love with him...what should i do? stay friends with him or continue dating him?

2006-12-19 04:23:28 · 12 answers · asked by samijo 1

The recipe calls for 2 cups....should it be the equivalent or just a little less seeing it will bond more then milk or water?

2006-12-19 04:23:25 · 8 answers · asked by Paul M 3

what should i include in my conversation in order to find out whether he has a gf or not?

2006-12-19 04:23:15 · 12 answers · asked by Physiologist 3

touching my lolipop?

2006-12-19 04:22:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I went out with my good friends ex, but i broke up with him becuz...
1. My friend (duh)
2. he was shorter then me by like half an inch
3. I didnt really do nething since, well i felt bad cuz of my friend so it didnt even feel like we were going out.

Well NOW he still likes me and my friend i can tell she is not over him! But she is urging me to go out with him again, like and i told her no but she wont stop telling me to! What should I do! SHOULD I GO OUT WITH HIM OR SHOULD I NOT!

(and yes i still do like him)

2006-12-19 04:21:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

or S.L.U.T. for short?

2006-12-19 04:21:29 · 8 answers · asked by cryingrainbow 2