Singles & Dating - 18 December 2006

I gave him an x-mas gift and he offered to hug me,so of coarse I hugged him back. (He's my crush/ friend) well...we've known each other since september...so about 3months. But anyways, I thought it was wanderfull, but I didn't think of it as a super big deal but when I told a few of my friends they completly got shocked

and said HE HARDLY HUGS ANYONE! Does that mean he likes me too? Could it mean that? Also, if that's true...is it normal that (he's very social) in first hour he doesn't actually come up to me and say hi...he's usually off in his own world..(just like I am most of the time.) is that normal if he did like me?

2006-12-18 10:49:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

This boy who has a locker next to mine (and I kinda like) used to start conversations w/ me at our lockers (we don't have any classes together). His eyes would always get bigger, he'd always smile, he'd try to make me smile, and he'd say 'see ya' before he left (when he talked to me). He stopped talking to me, and I wrote a note asking if he was mad, and the next day he was like 'hey' when I got to my locker. We haven't talked much since then, but we did lock eyes when I passed him today...
So what's going on, and how can I get him talking?
Thanks!!

2006-12-18 10:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

An average encounter brought Joseph into my life, we connect more deeply than I have ever experienced. I anticipate his conversation and we flow freely through stream of conciousness discussions.
After we fell weak to the physical attraction I began developing feelings. Although he had been forward about the fact that he is involved with someone.
My infatuation runs so strongly that I offered to remain on the side so that if and when his relationship ended, I would be readily available. I feel for him, he is so torn and although he continues to tell me how much I mean to him, he cannot just walk out of his relationship that easily. Thank God no children are involved.
I now regret what I have said. And I need to remove myself from the situation immediately. I care for him deeply but want the relationship to run its course naturally. If they are not meant to be it will end, and he will always be able to call me. But I can't knock the crush. I dream of him, and feel his absense. Help m

2006-12-18 10:48:07 · 11 answers · asked by Crystal_Blu 1

Women seem self-protective (and self-serving) when it comes to relationships and marriage, shouldn't men be allowed to protect themselves as well?

2006-12-18 10:47:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfreind gets mad at things i dont know about. when we play this online game together he gets mad at me a lot, not beileiving me and using sarcasm. i ask him why he's mad and he says its just because he doesnt see me for 2 weeks because of our christmas vacation off of school. just 2 days before on a feildtrip we went to at the grove he eheld my hand at the movie theaters and stayed by me the whole feild trip. i dont really beleive that he is mad just because he cant see me for 2 weeks. every time i confront him with it he says stuff like his heart would break into a million peices if i broke up with him. i think that he thinks im gonna break up with him because im am getting mad he is taking his anger out on me. what should i do in this situation? plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-18 10:45:45 · 10 answers · asked by Tasha 2

So this kid asks me out and the next day at the very end of school I say yes even though my friend told me that he said all this stuff to her quote "i dont give a **** about her" (im her) and that he really likes her, but she doesnt believe him and he kept trying to get her to make out with him. and plus this kid has a really bad reputation. about everything. EVERYONE has told me to dump him, and he said that hes just going out with me to date somebody. but id jsut be going out with him to date somebody too, because I really want a guy and like somebodyt o talk to and a shoulder to cry on and that could be him, plus i feel lik ei have to prove to my ex and everyone else and especially me that im over my ex and this seems like the best way to do it.
should i keep going out with this kid or dump him right away?
oh yeah and i cant tell him that my friend told me that he tried to make out with her and stuff bcuz she wont let me and i care about my friendshi pwith her
plz help!!

2006-12-18 10:44:06 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ 2

I think jeans looks cheap and tacky..VERY unfeminine, too manly..i want to know how many girly girls are really out there...professional dress/office women seem to be most likely...where you all hiding at??

2006-12-18 10:43:49 · 8 answers · asked by rockync7 2

2006-12-18 10:43:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

well my boyfriend tells me there is no such thing as to much sex
but he tries to pull down my pants and then he tells me that there are no such things as to much sex he always tries to take off my size 4 shirt off because i always put a tiny bikini underneath
and i always let him kiss me and looks at my breast.
well anyways do you think there is such thing as too much sex?

2006-12-18 10:42:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, so i've had a huge crush on this guy for like, ever. He finally talked to the only thing in the way of us going out last night. Well, he called me at like 2 o'clock in the morning and told me he talked to her ( a girl he used to like, that likes him). i didn't think too much o it cause i had been asleep and was tired. Well he asked me and i said yes, happily and readily. This morning when i woke up i started thinking about it, since I know they've had sex before and she not really the realiable type, and he said she had been understanding, which she has never been before. I got to thinking about, and i finallyasked him about it, he said that all they did was talk. I thought the coversation was over at that point, but it wasn't. He said "oh, and we hugged and kissed" no big deal,we hadn't been going out yet. "and she sucked on my neck" i know this turns him on a great deal, i kinda thought his next sentance would be along the lines of" so i stopped her", butr no, it was "So i rubbed her, and she rubbed me" I'm about to cry when he said that. the he says " she wanted to have sex, but i thought that was a bad idea" I somewhat have a temper, and its just like WHAT THE ****! You thought SEX was a bad idea, what about foreplay right before asking the girl you "love" out? Am I bad for thinking this? What should I do? Should i break up with him?

2006-12-18 10:42:13 · 7 answers · asked by me,myself&him 2

yes ladies i have been doing horrible with girls. i have learned some stuff through trial and error but i still need a little bit of work. however ladies if you can let me kno of what you like it would be greatly apreciated.

2006-12-18 10:41:28 · 19 answers · asked by Fortew3 1

2006-12-18 10:39:35 · 8 answers · asked by eskee 1

my sis is 18(verry pertty) , she has been going out with mexican guys for 1 year,they look dangerous, but she is 18 ,something is fishey about these guys

2006-12-18 10:38:00 · 8 answers · asked by xoxoLove Hurtsxoxo 2

its about a stranger that is stalking me i need to know if it does happen

first of all he says my boyfriend is so wrong for me, he follows me into the bathroom even in a public place like a big library
i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and told him about what was going on with me i told him this guy keeps coming into the bathroom seven times and its scaring me im too scared to tell anyone but only my boyfriend is this called stalking

2006-12-18 10:37:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think so. Tell me what you want if you dare.

2006-12-18 10:37:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i told her i love her, 3 months ago
she liked me for a period...a few months ago
i passed by her and her boyfriend a few days ago
and she just looks at me for 1 second, then away

does it mean she likes me or no ?
we've been talkin more since i told her i love her... (for a while)

2006-12-18 10:36:04 · 3 answers · asked by Nick723 3

I had this crush on a guy I work with, for over a year now. But I'm a shy girl andI usually wait for the guys to make the first move. My crush is also a shy guy but I really like him. What should I do?

2006-12-18 10:35:57 · 12 answers · asked by Mary 1

Okay, so, I'm kind of a "compulsive flirt." That's just my thing. It's what I do. I'm not even flirting with guys- I guess it just seems like I am. I get all giggly and smile and touch their arm or whatever whenever they're talking to me. I can't really help it. The words "Baby" and "Sweetie" are just a part of how I talk. Thing is, I have a boyfriend and he just doesn't understand. He actually gets mad at me when I "flirt" with other guys. I've told him that it's not really something I can control but he's just like, "Wow. No, I really think you can." Is anybody else like this? Do you know how to "control" it or whatever. I mean, it really is just what I do. GOSH. LoL! Thanks.

Love Always-- Summer Hampton*

2006-12-18 10:35:57 · 72 answers · asked by Summer Hampton 3

I am turned on by my g/f when she brushes against me in the pool with her bikini on. It also turns me on when she steps out of the bathroom with just a towel on. Is this normal??
I just love her gymnastics toned, surfing tanned body. Just holding her in my arms after she competes and is worried about placing is enough for me. Is it wrong to like to hold her after she competes?? I mean come on she's in a leotard. Should I not feel this way?? I love her personality too. It is perfect.
I also was there for her when she took third in state. She came up to me before and was upset cuz she thought she did bad. after she found out she came up and I kissed her and her coach got all mad at me saying that if I wasn't there she could have took first. I was there to support her. Why was he so mad??
We are both 16. Is it wrong for me to be ok with her sleeping in my arms and not expect it to lead to sex??

2006-12-18 10:35:25 · 2 answers · asked by Aric 1

2006-12-18 10:34:41 · 11 answers · asked by clair 1

There is this guy, he said he liked me a while ago but he had a girlfriend (and he still does). I like him a lot! He talkes me on the phone some times and always flirts with me at jazz band. And his girlfriend HATES me....but we pretend to be friends.....
I REALLY like this guy and want him to be happy but what i really is his girlfriend to DIE!!! What do i do? I want him to ask me out.....or like me more. Plz help

2006-12-18 10:33:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love my boyfriend of 2 years beyond words but he is a financial wreck,doesn't plan things beyond the next 10 minutes,can't get himself up in time for anything (including work),rarely has money to pay for things or buy me anything, and has few goals. This is normal for his family so when I get upset about these things it makes me look like a controlling wanna be his mother type. What I love is his personality and being around him. How do I know if he just needs to grow up but will be a great partner in the end, or if he will always be irresponsible and immature and I should just forget it? I don't believe in giving up on relationships without really working on it, but when is enough enough?

2006-12-18 10:33:32 · 6 answers · asked by gmug9 2

anything

2006-12-18 10:32:40 · 10 answers · asked by lizeth_in_love 1

why is that other people get involved with relationships that do not cocern them

2006-12-18 10:32:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i think this guy likes be but hes not doing anything about it! im not sure but i have a strong feeling that he does and that he doesnt HELP PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-18 10:32:12 · 9 answers · asked by Sahar 3

2006-12-18 10:32:11 · 11 answers · asked by christi815 3

Okay, there's this boy I like. He has a locker next to mine, but we don't really have any classes together. At the beginning of the year, he started talking to me a lot.He would try to make me laugh, and his eyes would enlarge (when he talked to me). And he would always say 'see ya' :) All of a sudden, we didn't really talk anymore. I stuck a note in his locker asking if he was mad at me. He didn't reply, but a few days later he said 'hi' at our lockers. A few days ago, we talked for a few seconds at our lockers but it wasn't about anything important .And today as I walked past him, we locked eyes. What do you think, and what should I do to get us talking again?
Thanks!

2006-12-18 10:31:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

She was so angery with me, felt that She was getting no where in our heated argument that She squatted right there in the living room floor and peed all over the place, when I demanded that She clean it up She locked Herself in the bathroom and peed the floor in there too!

2006-12-18 10:30:44 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well my boyfriends best friend is a girl and they've only been friends for 6 months. Well I don't really like her one reason is because shes 20 years old and my boyfriend is 16. She trys to act our age and act like shes younger but she annoys the crap outta me! The biggest problem I have with her is just the fact that she likes my boyfriend alot, and she used to flirt with him til recently. I mean I sorta feel sorry for her because shes never been in a relationship and I feel sorry that she flirts with teenage guys. But i feel happy/mixed emotions because now my boyfriend and her arent talking because they got into a fight yesterday how he never liked her and how her feelings were so strong and he told her she's just using this other guy to flirt with to get over feelings for him. I mean I really don't like her and is it wrong for me to wish that they lose their friendship?

2006-12-18 10:30:16 · 7 answers · asked by Morgan Love 1

She says she likes me and we've given each other Christmas presents. We sit together at lunch every day.

2006-12-18 10:29:17 · 8 answers · asked by Aaron W 1