Should I break up with him?

Question

Ok, so i've had a huge crush on this guy for like, ever. He finally talked to the only thing in the way of us going out last night. Well, he called me at like 2 o'clock in the morning and told me he talked to her ( a girl he used to like, that likes him). i didn't think too much o it cause i had been asleep and was tired. Well he asked me and i said yes, happily and readily. This morning when i woke up i started thinking about it, since I know they've had sex before and she not really the realiable type, and he said she had been understanding, which she has never been before. I got to thinking about, and i finallyasked him about it, he said that all they did was talk. I thought the coversation was over at that point, but it wasn't. He said "oh, and we hugged and kissed" no big deal,we hadn't been going out yet. "and she sucked on my neck" i know this turns him on a great deal, i kinda thought his next sentance would be along the lines of" so i stopped her", butr no, it was "So i rubbed her, and she rubbed me" I'm about to cry when he said that. the he says " she wanted to have sex, but i thought that was a bad idea" I somewhat have a temper, and its just like WHAT THE ****! You thought SEX was a bad idea, what about foreplay right before asking the girl you "love" out? Am I bad for thinking this? What should I do? Should i break up with him?

Something like this has happened before, we were dating a few months ago, but broke up cause he still had feelings for this girl.

Answer 1

Wow that is kindof crazy. I say talk to him calmly and tell him that that was completely out of line if he knew he was going to ask you out, but based on that I don't think it's so much lines to brake up as just be ticked off.

Answer 2

to be honest you should really think about the situaiton. how long have you guys been together and has he ever done something like this before. trust me i somewhat have gone through this. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 3 years and he goes away alot back home to Thailand. so when he went back there i guess you can say he cheated on me with another girland they had a child together. needless to say that they dont even communicate. anyways when i found about all of this it was a stay in the heart but i guess you need to learn to FORGIVE BUT NOT FORGET. to make a long story short we are still together and planning on getting married. Best of LUCK to you!!!!

Answer 3

Are you kidding?!?!!!!! This guy says he loves you and makes out with someone else and tells you play by play how they probably did have sex. Are you nuts?!!! Where is your pride, self-esteem, logic? Are you 12 and stupid? You are a fool if you stay with this garbage. If you stay, you deserve what you get. I feel bad for you. It's a no brainer. You'll get over it. Cut him off forever and don't let him in your heart again. There is better out there.

Answer 4

No. you need to understand that everyone has past lives. You probably do to. You are not bad for thinking that! everyone get's a little jealous or over protective. Talk to him and say that we should just forget about it!Good Luck!!

Answer 5

Girl I say u break up with him now!!!! Cause he still has feelings for this other girl and he kissing and huggin all up on her. in two or three weeks u really gone find out he was really cheating on u with that other girl. I just broke up with my boyfriend on12/12/06 because I found out he was cheating on me with this girl name Sasha. U need to e-mail me @ [e-mail]

Answer 6

.You should break up, he's not over this other girl, or he just wants sex and he'll go where he can get it, wither way, dump him

Answer 7

huh what sorry you had oral dihhreah and I fell asleep what is the question