my boyfreind gets mad at things i dont know about. when we play this online game together he gets mad at me a lot, not beileiving me and using sarcasm. i ask him why he's mad and he says its just because he doesnt see me for 2 weeks because of our christmas vacation off of school. just 2 days before on a feildtrip we went to at the grove he eheld my hand at the movie theaters and stayed by me the whole feild trip. i dont really beleive that he is mad just because he cant see me for 2 weeks. every time i confront him with it he says stuff like his heart would break into a million peices if i broke up with him. i think that he thinks im gonna break up with him because im am getting mad he is taking his anger out on me. what should i do in this situation? plz help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 10:45:45 · 10 answers · asked by Tasha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just give it up to him
2006-12-18 10:47:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you guys been together? You still seem pretty young and I say if you feel uncomfortable with the relationship then you should break it off but if you know or have an idea of why he may be acting the way he is then try to help the poor guy.
2006-12-18 10:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of roughly this for a minute - how are you able to adore this guy plenty whilst he of course has so little admire to your thoughts? in spite of the fact which you do, do no longer enable him push you into commencing a relatives until now you're waiting. He says that in case you do no longer % to start a relatives, which you do in comparison to him sufficient. properly, think of roughly this: HE does not love you sufficient if he's make certain to push you into some thing which you're no longer waiting for - incredibly some thing that demands as plenty accountability as having childrens. in case you enable him push you into some thing you're no longer waiting for, you will finally end up resenting him for it and probable resenting the infants you carry into this international. you're a hundred% maximum surprising once you're saying which you (and this implies the two one in each of you) would desire to financially and mentally sturdy. you're saying you haven't any longer executed your degree yet, which i'm assuming additionally ability you're no longer settled right into a profession in basic terms yet. this is plenty tougher (emotionally, bodily and financially) to acquire that degree (i'm no longer saying that's impossible - a lot of people do it) as quickly as you have childrens. you're genuinely maximum surprising once you're saying that your boyfriend is being immature and not be attentive to-the style you. in my opinion, i think of your boyfriend is making an attempt to place a guilt holiday on you for the reason which you're no longer waiting to start a relatives, and he's making an attempt to tension you into it, meaning he's immature (for this reason no longer waiting to have childrens) and has no admire to your thoughts. I somewhat have 2 sons - one is 28 and the different is 11. i admire my 2 sons extra suitable than something, yet have faith me, if I had it to do throughout returned, i could are turning out to be my degree (which i eventually now have) FIRST and been settled in a profession and been financially sturdy until now having my 2 sons; it could have been plenty extra basic that way. besides, wish this helps, and better of success to you!
2016-12-11 11:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's moving to faster then you, if he's saying his heart is breaking, and you think somethings wrong. I think you guys are on different wave links and yo need to find someone your speed.
2006-12-18 10:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like your bf is covering something up and uses your time apart as an excuse maybe he feels guilty about what he does during that two weeks it should be something you should check in to.
2006-12-18 10:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you fill about him.its fine that he loves you and all but i just can't belive he'd rake his anger out on you.tell him you love him and that you won't brake up with him.that is if you really love him.if not well....you know.well ask him why and try your best to comfort him!god bless you and hope it works out!
2006-12-18 10:49:44 · answer #6 · answered by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like he is not right for you!
2006-12-18 10:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by sarabear1194 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remember every relationship has it's ups and downs, but if u feel like u can't handle it do wat u have to do. Tlk to him and tell him how u feel. be honest wit him and to urself
2006-12-18 10:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by Danny 88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u drop even it hurts u if u love him truly.so resolve it speaking coolely to him
remember
"LOVE NEVER DIES"
2006-12-18 10:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would talk to him..tell him how you really feel about this anger he is throwing at you....
2006-12-18 10:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by aw_dw4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋