There is this guy, he said he liked me a while ago but he had a girlfriend (and he still does). I like him a lot! He talkes me on the phone some times and always flirts with me at jazz band. And his girlfriend HATES me....but we pretend to be friends.....
I REALLY like this guy and want him to be happy but what i really is his girlfriend to DIE!!! What do i do? I want him to ask me out.....or like me more. Plz help
2006-12-18 10:33:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
His girlfriend probably hates you because you like her man. I think you should give up on the dude, unless you want to be a homewrecker. If he breaks up with his gf later, you can ease your way into his life pretty easily. Good night!
2006-12-18 10:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll never understand why girls want guys to like them that have girlfriends. Yeah it's tough when you find out he's hitched and it kind of hurts but WHY!!!?!?!?!?
Please sweetheart the best thing to do it leave it alone. i always say what if that was your boyfriend and some girl or girls were scheming and going behind your back to try and get with him. The reason why she probably dislikes you is because she knows that you're are hanging around for anything platonic ( a.k.a. "just friends") she knows you're up to something and most girls can pick up on when theirs a shark in the water after their man.
Don't be so desperate. Find an unattached guy. It's so much easier and so much less drama.
Plus do you want a guy that would easily fall for another girl while he is in a relationship? don't think he wouldn't do it to you. If they do it once, they'll probably do it again.
2006-12-18 10:39:34 · answer #2 · answered by jenna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you then he should get rid of his girlfriend and make you his, but if he doesn't then he just wants you to tag along until she breaks up with him, in other words, he's using you as a back burner. Or his girlfriend might not be giving him all the pleasure he wants and needs and thinks you can do the job. Think about it!
2006-12-18 10:40:51 · answer #3 · answered by Candice C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He flirts with you because he does like you, but only as a back-up to the girl he has. They're going to break up at some point, and he wants you to be available at that time. If you really like him, go ahead and ask him out, but you can't be secretive. He needs to decide between you and her. If it's you, great. If he's not willing to dump her for you, then you need to move on.
2006-12-18 10:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by eric_litwiller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, give up. Some guys just flirt...he may like you but he probably likes his girlfriend better. Call her a *****, slap her, and get on with your life!
2006-12-18 10:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by nothingknower29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it, better yet, flirt with another guy and wait. It will get some kind of reaction out of him if he likes you.
2006-12-18 10:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go for him if he is going for u while he has a girlfriend he would probably do the same thing with another girl if he was going out with u.
2006-12-18 10:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please help, act like your interested in someone else and if he wants you he will show signs of wanting, but if you have noone then he won't be interested. then only then will you get his attention, and wether he wants to be with you
2006-12-18 10:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let fate do the rest girl...if it was meant to be....it will be....if it was not....then hes not the guy that is truly for you
2006-12-18 10:37:31 · answer #9 · answered by *brunettes~r~better* ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋