I had this crush on a guy I work with, for over a year now. But I'm a shy girl andI usually wait for the guys to make the first move. My crush is also a shy guy but I really like him. What should I do?
2006-12-18 10:35:57 · 12 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU need to make the first move. If he's also shy, there's a good chance nothing will ever happen between you two. If you really like him, go up to him and start a conversation, I suggest you to just invite him to dinner or to the movies, straight away. Avoid the fore-play it's not going to lead anywhere if both of you are shy. Good luck!
2006-12-18 11:01:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on a conversation about movies, and when he mentions one, tell him you really wanted to see that movie as well, and ask him if he wants to go with you after work sometime. I used to be really shy, and this was still easy enough for me. Less pressure than a "real" dinner and drinks date, but still gets the two of you alone.
I'm sure other people will say not to date at work-- but I'm sure you know the work-dating situation better than anyone else. Personally, I've dated at work and never had a single problem.
2006-12-18 10:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Revenant 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not date a guy from work, unless you or he, or both of you are willing to leave that job in the event that you break up. I learned this lesson the hard way, and everyone was in my business and it was horrible! There is a very small chance that it could work, but the two of you would have to be very discreet. This will limit the amount and type of drama you may be faced with.
Good Luck
2006-12-18 10:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, and don't be afraid! With all the work that people do these days, where else is anyone supposed to meet new people? Just don't let things get out of hand if it doesn't work out. Good luck!
2006-12-18 10:40:52 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to be shy with it but u should go up to him one day an just say do you want to go to lunch, etc.
2006-12-18 10:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by the use 2 b's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the move! What have you got to lose? You are losing potentially valuable quality time with him as it stands now!
2006-12-18 10:38:17 · answer #6 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him sweetly to make you a cup of coffee. Believe me the rest will follow.
2006-12-18 10:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by teef_au 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing. Work is not the place to have a relationship. You're there to WORK, right? It's too risky to have an office romance.
2006-12-18 10:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
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BEEN THERE DONE THAT I WAS AT THIS PLACE FOR 3YRS AND SHE HAD NOT BEEN THERE FOR NO MORE THAN A YEAR. IT WAS JUST CRAZY IT WAS BETTER WHEN SHE WAS THE LITTEL QUIT ONE IN THE OFFICE SHE BECAME A SUCH A MISTAKE I HAD TO LEAVE
2006-12-18 11:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by you have ? i have a answer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him; for help with something, fixing something, moving something, join you in some volunteer activity.
2006-12-18 10:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by tallbrian1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋