Ok, so my boyfriend is a great guy. He has been through a lot of not so great relationships and he seems to have a big issue with NOT letting things go - specially the things that his exgirlfriends did to him. He talks about it constantly and even gets upset over it. I know that Clinically speaking there are some other issues involved, like his low self esteem, his fear or rejection and not having the approval/acceptance from his dad.
This is the man that I love and would like to someday start a family with, however, I can already see this as beeing an obstacle in our relationship and I would like to help him figure things out, but I just don't know how. Is there anything I can do?
The good thing is that he is not affraid to seek help, because he is seeing a counselor, however, realistically speaking - I'm sure he is discussing any of this issues with her.
2006-12-14
03:04:35
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