I have been friends with this guy for 15 years now we are in a realtionship. For the first two months it was great it was everything I ever dreamed of. Now we are nagging & fighting over nothing all the time. How do we get back to where we were happy & in love? Will we ever get back there or is that gone?
2006-12-14 03:14:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try going out together more and doing things outside of your usual routine! Communicate and be honest with each other. I have been there and im happy with my relationship now! We went for walks so as we could be out of the house and talk about things while we were walking. Just to clear the air and let each other know where we stood! Make time for you both to spend a few hours a week doing something together just the two of you!
Good luck.
2006-12-14 03:22:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main thing in a relationship is communication -- you need to be able to talk about anything and everything. Stop the nagging and fighting, walk away for a few minutes until your calm and continue the converstaion. . . .Also people need space, it is possible to be together too much
2006-12-14 11:18:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer Lu22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nagging and fighting this early in the game is a bad sign. Now should be the "honeymoon period." If you're already at each others' throats, I say this isn't the right person for you. Best of luck!
2006-12-14 11:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by Adena P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust, honesty, communication and respect....from BOTH of you. Y'all need to sit down and talk...try to figure out where it was y'all started going downhill. Then talk to each other about how you can go forward. If both of you want it to work, then both of you CAN fix it. Communication is the key, though. With it you will get/keep all the rest. But do it without any criticism at all. Guys don't handle any negatives real well. So try to word it so he doesn't think you are criticizing him.
2006-12-14 11:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love or lust or some emotional state in between? Put God first. Only God can fill the place that we try to fill with a person and then get disappointed because they are a person not a God. Only God can make us emotional healthy enough to really love someone in a healthy non selfish way that will be fulfilling and last.
2006-12-14 11:20:30 · answer #5 · answered by tam4givin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess just forgive and forget all the reasons why u were fighting with each other and start a new begining..a new start..new activities together..
2006-12-14 11:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by PreetyPink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you should sit back, have an honest talk, laugh about it, and go your separate ways. chances are you will still be friends, but get rid of the relationship as fast as possible.
2006-12-14 11:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your rly want to be with him..then maybe just take a break...you can sit down and talk to him about it...ummm...i suggest try to hold your tounge and dont nag and ignore when he does somethin stupid...and tell him he should learn to hold his too...
2006-12-14 11:30:10 · answer #8 · answered by [[{Kendra ♥'s Quincy}]] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and understanding, respect each others opinion.
2006-12-14 11:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication and fun
2006-12-14 11:17:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋