i want to go out with this guy and I really like him. The only problem is, he's my ex. We're sitting together on the bus tonite...how should i tel him??? Please help i'm so scared.
2006-12-14 03:13:40 · 22 answers · asked by Ashley M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him how u feel. most likely he will understand. if not then maybe u should rethink how u feel maybe he isn't worth it. just tell him and see what happens.
2006-12-14 03:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to get back with your ex? They are an ex for a reason! Think about those reasons and if they still apply then sit some where else no the bus!
2006-12-14 11:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, don't feel like you have to tell him tonight. When you do talk just tell him the truth, the complete truth and things will work out. If he feels differently then hopefully he'll let you know and though it might be hard its a lot easier then not knowing. Just start at the beginning. Also this may sound stupid but sometimes it is easier to refer to the person in the 3rd person while you are telling them how you feel about them, lol, it worked for me.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-14 11:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Smith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres a reason he's your ex, and if thats a good reason, let it stay as an ex. I can say that i've rarely heard of a situation where on-off relationships work out. Most of hte time what turns their relationship 'off' is proof enough it shouldnt be.
2006-12-14 11:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on Earth would you want to go out with an ex there is a reason why he is an ex? But, if you can't live without him tell him you made a mistake and you would really like it if y'all could go out sometime and discuss it.
2006-12-14 11:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by yelleygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how your relationship was with him when you guys were together. Think about why you guys broke up. If you really had feelings for him then go for it, tell him he'll understand, but if you get the feeling that you guys are ment to be friends then enjoy the relationship you guys already have. good luck and best wishes.
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2006-12-14 11:32:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that things haven't been the same since you two broke up, and see how his life is going. If he's not seeing anyone, maybe you two can rekindle the relationship.
2006-12-14 11:16:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there's a reason he's an ex. if it didn't work the first time, chances are very very high it won't work the 2nd time. move on. find someone else. grow up.
2006-12-14 11:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by orangezx2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go for it tell him. It will make you feel better. RIGHT? No need to hold in what you really feel. Good luck I wish you the best.
2006-12-14 11:18:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. Be a man about it! LOL If he doesn't like you then he will let you know. If that happends you will know to stop wasting your time and find someone that does care about you.
2006-12-14 11:16:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why is he an ex?try being good friends for awhile sometimes familiar is easier than starting over.don't repeat same mistakes you will just be hurting yourself
2006-12-14 11:17:42 · answer #11 · answered by marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋