so i went out with this total stranger, who claims that he liked me for a very long time, but had a girlfriend befor and there for couldn't hit on me....
but whatever, the point is - we went out, i got drunk.......
and than he would on saying : " i dont wanna take advatage of u b/c u r drunk, i respect ur boundaries" and than he would totally kiss me all over my face.
But i would not kiss him back......basically he ended up kissing me on the first date, when he was saying at the same time, what he wont do it b/c i am too drunk
so what do u think it means? he really likes me or just a fling?
2006-12-14 03:15:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Boys will be boys...
Atleast he had the guts to admit it,then still tried his luck.He could like you and want something serious.How do you feel towards him.Try it who knows but next time watch the alcohol as it tends to unbalance our judgement/perceptions on situations...
Goodluck...
2006-12-14 03:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would look at is he usually like this with other girls? He sounds like he needs a good kick in the balls for disrespecting your boundaries on the first date. I think he just wanted a fling. Sorry.
2006-12-14 11:22:34 · answer #2 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just kissing on the first date?....my God, what a sin....lol. Your lucky that's all that happened. I've been out with plenty of women that did more than that on our first date and no alcohol was involved. Seriously, you're lucky he didn't try to do more. how do you think most date rapes occur? Use a little more caution when drinking next time.
2006-12-14 11:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fling. This guy seems like a loser and you need to learn to control your alcohol intake. If you were drunk in front of a guy you didn't know, something bad could have happened to you.
2006-12-14 11:18:02 · answer #4 · answered by R_H_P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is slightly creepy to begin with...
It means this: if you were drunk and he really respected your boundaries, he would have taken you home right away.
I vote loser.
getting drunk on dates is bad medicine, by the way.
2006-12-14 11:21:06 · answer #5 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It appears he was playing a game with you. He was saying one thing an at the same time he was testing you to see if you would give in with your state. I would treat him with a long handle spoon.
2006-12-14 11:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by curious1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this is totally JUST A FLING!
2006-12-14 11:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not a first date and moreover he is a stranger. you have studying him for a while and knowing what he is saying is true. don't jump into it. i don't to hear you are hurt.
2006-12-14 11:20:14 · answer #8 · answered by sweet girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl he messin wit chu is jus a flingy
2006-12-14 11:23:51 · answer #9 · answered by *(¯`ξŔ1₭4´¯) Ł4 (¯`₮Ř4V1ξ§4´¯)* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you alot and respects you too.
2006-12-14 11:20:56 · answer #10 · answered by wizzygirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋