Singles & Dating - 10 December 2006

Like I am over his house alot and we have been together for 3 years and recently ill say hi to her and she wont say anything ..I gave her a hug and she patted my arm ? And she lied to me about my bf working out so I could serve myself dinner and I saw him in the room just sitting down watching tv. I try hard to cope with her but it is really hard when your nice to someone who just doesnt get that .. I am searching for reasonable advice. And one more thing when Ive talked to her she acted like she didnt hear me when we were sitting on the same couch! and she has started talking to someone else in the middle of our conversation! Help!

2006-12-10 19:44:20 · 11 answers · asked by abella_03 1

I am a guy by the way who is a virgin and was just curious if a girl could tell or not.

2006-12-10 19:44:19 · 16 answers · asked by ? 1

I'm 15, male, getting into shape and I'm looking forward to being in a relationship with a girl. I know, this is perhaps one of the lamest ways to meet a girl, but I don't connect through a chat room, and the good online dating services are for 18 years and older. I know I'm very rough around the edges but I'm not as bad as I appear at first, I'm just a little more different and a little more unique. Any girl who's interested can email me or IM me, but I don't give info freely and I take a while to warm up to.

2006-12-10 19:43:38 · 7 answers · asked by shai brian 2

if u had a crush and didnt know if they liked u back, what would u do to figure them out if ure not ready to come forward to them yet?

2006-12-10 19:42:42 · 4 answers · asked by wizzpack 2

how turned off are you if a guy asking you out doesn't drive? at the moment...

2006-12-10 19:42:36 · 7 answers · asked by Ruffus Mcghee 2

2006-12-10 19:41:43 · 5 answers · asked by motti_82 1

I know there's no one answer, every grl is different, but do most girls go for the Mr Darcy type? the good looking, nice but not sappy type.... ?

2006-12-10 19:40:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here's the background to this unusual question. Through some freaky genetics, I appear about 15 years younger (according to friends) than my actual age of 51 (not claiming handsome, just younger). Even stranger, I've recently started attracting some women who are far too young -- 18 to 25. Once they find out how old I am (I don't lie about it), they are always embarassed and quickly bail out. That's completely understandable, and if they didn't bail, I would, because that's just way too far apart (even Hollywood couldn't figure how to make it work in Lost In Translation).

So, when one of these young women shows casual interest and waits for me to break the ice, should I:

a) Act oblivious and pretend to ignore her until she leaves.

b) Break the ice, complement her on what's hot about her, followed up by telling her my age and that she's too young for me, so we can all just move on.

So ladies -- would you prefer to be ignored or given a quick dose of reality? Thanks!

2006-12-10 19:37:05 · 13 answers · asked by sd_ducksoup 6

.... well not too desperate, but getting there.
I'm fine right now, feeling pretty good... But this is all just sugar coating on the real me. I do well at being positive and sorta happy, but i'm a lonely 20 year old college student (living at home). I got no close friends, i've never been on a date or anything cuz i'm so shy. Whenever i start thinking about all this for a long time, i get depressed.... What to do besides "just changing how I am"?????? I need a different method.

2006-12-10 19:36:37 · 6 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

Or do you feel that you have to be gf/bf after that .
I mean like one time or two not prepared to sex but the second day its only hi or a hug .

2006-12-10 19:35:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel like if I have sex with my boyfriend I will be able to tell if he REALLY likes me..If he stays with me afterwards and doesn't move on then it isn't just about the chase. What are your thoughts??

2006-12-10 19:32:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

some times wheh a relationship is new the love is so good but when sex comes in quickly, every thing becomes meaningless therefore why is it like that?

2006-12-10 19:32:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriends grandad died on friday night, i was due to go away for weekend to Leeds clubbing with mates! I still went, (lots of sexy ladies in Leeds fellas) her family hate me so what was the point in hanging around with her all weekend! I was gonna let her come with me to leeds, but she wanted to be with her family! She wanted me to stay at home with her, her family cant even stand to be in the same room as me! She should of come with me to Leeds her family have won now with her spending the weekend with them! I dont want her to go to the funeral unless i can go too! Thats never gonna happen! How would you feel her brother wants to beat me up, her mother cant even look at me! I dont think ive done anything wrong weve been together for 4 years now! I think its time my girlfriend picked either me or her family! What do you think?

2006-12-10 19:31:41 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met my best friend about 5 months ago at work and at the beginning, i thought he was a really cool, good-looking guy. i gave him my number and that night he called me and informed me he had a girlfriend. i told him that it was fine. i just wanted to get to know him better. so we hung out during 15-minute breaks and lunch breaks mostly. we would also talk on the phones at work and on our cells alot. well, recently, he just broke up with his girlfriend (of 4 years...). i really dont know what to do because i have developed deep feelings for him in the past couple weeks, but with him and his ex, things are going fine. theyre still hanging out and on good terms. also he just turned 22 and im about to turn 19. do you think i should do anything or wait for him to come around?

2006-12-10 19:30:18 · 8 answers · asked by jane 3

i've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now, and about a month ago, i met this really cute guy that attracted a lot of my attention and have been wanting to get to know him.

I dont really know who i like or who i want. should i give up on my current relationship and move to the guy that i'm interested in?

2006-12-10 19:28:33 · 9 answers · asked by appletree 1

26 years old, Asian woman. Met this amazing guy and we hit it off right away. He works 6 1/2 days a week 14+hrs a day. I liked him a lot and he has told me he liked me a lot too but i really needed to chill and relax.I met him just as I was coming out of a 7+ years relationship.At first I thought he was a rebound too, but now I think I got caught in my own net. I became too clingy and aggressive too fast. My only explanation is because I am not experienced in dating, imagine this, I've been with the same guy since I was 18! Anyways, me and the guy, we really liked each other a lot. And yes, I was clingy..My question now, is things salvageable?What should I do? \I like him a lot and now we are not talking.We stopped talking and I thought I was going to move on and then out of nowhere he will text me, "hey what's up?", "happy halloween" or "happy thanksgiving"..What should I do? I like him a lot, but it's hard to win him back when he certified me clingy and crazy!I KNOW HE LIKED me.HELP!

2006-12-10 19:26:45 · 7 answers · asked by Gina C 1

be a virgin when you marry her?

2006-12-10 19:26:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well i'm 14...I'll turn 15 in April.
I realize I'm young and some of you may think I don't know anything about realtionships..but I'm not stupid....
Anyway the other night...I met a boy at a party...he is 17 and I told him I was 16.
That put aside...
we all went to his house..my friends..his friends etc...
and we just talked...
about everything and we realised we had alot in common.
Things we've never had in common with someone else.
On both friday and saturday nights this weekend I lied to my mother and stayed the night at his house...but nothing happened..we just talked It was really neat.
Now I feel like I've screwed up alot because here is this person that I have so much in common with, and nothing can happen because I lied and said I was older.
So should I cut it off and call it a lesson or tell the truth and try to make it work.??
I am so confused!

please don't call me names or be rude, I just really need advise.
I can't talk to my mom...because then she'd know..
HELPPP

2006-12-10 19:26:09 · 26 answers · asked by tiffany_r_bunny 1

I'm sleeping with a guy who I like, and in order for me NOT to develop any more feelings for him, what do you suggest I do?!! Don't say "Stop sleeping wit him" cuz I want to!.

2006-12-10 19:26:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my assumption is about 99% of girls would want a guy to approach them and intitiate the relationship.

But what is your opinion and experiance,

and why would women prefer prefer to be approached?

2006-12-10 19:25:44 · 5 answers · asked by autonomous1980 1

She is so imotional n strieght forward. I dont want to disturb her normal behavior with me by my choosy and egostick character.

2006-12-10 19:24:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Can you tell if theyre a nice or mean person?

2006-12-10 19:24:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-10 19:23:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-10 19:23:17 · 12 answers · asked by mercedesinthehouse 1

i want to know some werstern guys like chinese girls.They like
chinese girls out look or their character or others??

2006-12-10 19:22:35 · 3 answers · asked by lemon 1

my very good friend is in love with me... but i really like her friend... it is a difficult situation because her friend is always hitting on me and such when we go out... yet my friend doesnt seem to mind... but i know if I tried to persue something with her friend she would hate me for it... and her friend... what would you do if you were in this situation?

2006-12-10 19:17:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-10 19:14:06 · 24 answers · asked by Caraudiolover 1

Has anybody ever been stalked? Has anybody ever stalked anyone? (come on, admit it, we can be honest here!) Has anybody ever had to call the cops or get an Order of Protection?

2006-12-10 19:12:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a guy and was wondering would you like it if you where dating a guy, to tell you that he was a virgin when you make love for the first time with each other? It's just I am a virgin and have not yet got a girlfriend but when I do should I tell her or not before the first time we make love together? I mean would it be something you would want to know?

2006-12-10 19:12:50 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1

Here's my question. I noticed this very attractive girl in 2002 while she was dating a guy I worked with when she would come in and visit him. We never talked. Then slowly we started to and got to know each other pretty well. Years later things have changed and I work somewhere else. He and her have split. All year I noticed her around town and we flirted a bit one night while having a few drinks. That night she gave me that unquestioned "come here" look after letting her hair down. But I did nothing. Months later-now she is staying with a friend of mine. I visit on the weekends. We started off just hugging-than moved on to ocassionaly lightly holding-kissing on the cheek-etc. But tonight me, her and our friend were watching a movie. He left and she layed down in my lap-I worked up the nerve to stroke her hair. She said she loved it and fell asleep in my arms.Now-I'm DUMB when it comes to this stuff. I have slept with women but have never had this before. Is she interested? Confused.

2006-12-10 19:10:47 · 19 answers · asked by ryan_lec 1