Singles & Dating - 5 December 2006

this guy..that i was involvedd with..me and him did stuff together.we even had sex..and he still contacts me and talks sweetly and romantically with me...and even said he was thinking to go long term with me..so i guess he likes me..but i found out he is trying to look for other chicks...in his CASTE..(as we r indian)..for MARRIAGE..he is also trying to get to know others.from his own religion..and flirting around w. them..and possibly marry them..why is he doing that if he likes me..How can he do that.>PLS TELL ME WHAT SHUD I THINK N WHAT SHUD I DO? SHUD I CONFRONT HIM? n be like why da hell r u wasting my time if ur gona look for other chiks?? M i over reacting? or IS HE WRONG?..ths all I want to know..JUST ANSWER THAT N ADVISE ON WHT TO DO PLS!!! isnt he soo wrong?!! n how i know is cuz i like him so much that i made a fake id and tested him to c how he was..n he was really flirty and stuff....:(((( what shud i doo pls advice me..!

2006-12-05 05:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by M 1

Ok. I have asked Q's here, and it looks like it's all led up to this point, to this day, a day of reckoning of sorts. I first dismissed her mixed signals as disinterest. She assured me they weren't and I began to notice that usually mixed signals happen alernately. Her mixed signals have been simultaneous. I really thing there is a behavioral disorder at work now. I have been accused of being obsessive about this, but honestly I think it has been an attempt to find someone who tells me, No, it is something else, but no one has yet. And let's face it; who wouldn't be reluctant to suggest to someone they care very deeply about that they see a REASON to be concerned? I wanted to make ABSOLUTELY SURE it made sense to me. I think it does now.

I am the one w/ the insight into how to best handle this; I know this. I am supposed to see her today. How do you tell someone you love something you know will hurt them now but you see as the only way to get them to realize they need help?

2006-12-05 05:58:03 · 5 answers · asked by randyken 6

ok...so im very much in love with my boyfriend...and we are very happy...however my paranoia (cant spell!!) is gettin in the way...
He's had exes..plenty of them...im apparentley the only girl he's loved, respected and satyed faithful to...i have problems in believing this even though he has proven it to me in many ways (his friends are asking what ive done 2 change him...he's told his fam about me (he's asian im white...VERY big deal in some cases) he's spent a lot of time with me, tells me how much he loves me(he finds it hard 2 open up) anyway...im happy with this and in my heart i believe him.
But my head wont get past the fear...for example...he was with a girl for a year (almost)...he treated her like **** (cheated etc)...yt bought her 'tokens'...i mean im nt materialistic...and i have more of his heart and energy than anyone else did...but i still find myself worrying...thinking that he's lyin 2 me...and that this is all just a line!! please help...im drivin myself mad!!

2006-12-05 05:57:21 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-12-05 05:56:16 · 12 answers · asked by louvandam 1

Say they have been dating a month and have already been intimate, and she is confused about the nature of their relationship and where it's heading. There is nothing wrong with asking him outright if he just wants sex or is interested in more, right?

2006-12-05 05:54:21 · 10 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1

This is what i like about this guy and the way this guy makes me feel when I'm with him...
We make each other laugh till our faces hurt...
We can be eachother when were together...
We love to snuggle with each other...
When I'm with him I dont want ot leave his side...
When I wake up next to him I start my day laughing...
He makes me wanna have a man in my life...
My older brothers love him....
Theres never a dull moment with us...
*** How we started talking again... We were at the club and we started talking and flirting with each other exchanged numbers and we been talkin since and he told me hes liked me since high school and that i've been his lady but i just didnt know... But i dated his older brother 6 years ago and We talked if it bothered him and he tells me no... and when were together we've never broght up the fact that i dated his older brother... I really like him and he really likes me... i just need to know if we should take it to the next level... Should we?***

2006-12-05 05:53:56 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ 5

I'm 20 and the answer is never never and never, sigh.

Include your age if you want...

2006-12-05 05:52:17 · 9 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6

alright I just talked to my boyfriend last night who lives in Idaho-where I used to-and now I live in Arizona I am pregnant with his child but he's being a doosh I love him and when he was supposed to call he was doing things he shouldn't and hanging out with friends I called his cousins phone who was there with him and told her to tell him not to call me when he needs me cause I won't be there for him anymore and I hope he's having fun while I'm pregnant I love him, were so far apart, we've been trying to get him down for christmas break but look how's he is treating me and than I go and call him that same night later on he didn't answer-but not just to me, he never answers his phone to anyone....anyways he told me he would call me that day and didn't he didn't even call me after I talked to his cousin what could I possibly say to snap his *** into shape over the phone? I am too scared being pregnant with his kid not to call him everynight,even like this.

2006-12-05 05:51:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just started this yahoo answers thing. It's a fun way for people to help eachother out with personal issues, or questions they never knew the answer to. Overall, pretty fun! Has anyone met someone here, or on line period? I like meeting people online, gives me an idea of who I would like to meet that has certain things in common with me. Not so much for dating, I like meeting people all together.

Where I live, I do stand out as far as everyone people only into hip hop, smoking weed, street fighting. Yeah, I defenitly don't fit in that crowd, but to each is own!

2006-12-05 05:51:18 · 3 answers · asked by krazy_libra_from_ac 5

What is going through your mind?

2006-12-05 05:49:26 · 12 answers · asked by Win 4

and had been out of a job for a long time and you felt sorry for him though he has never asked for money would you send him some.Would you do it? Would he be offended?

2006-12-05 05:48:44 · 13 answers · asked by beyond paradise 4

My friend is interested in many guys (five at the moment), Last night we went to a party and one of the guys she likes started talking to me... we hit it off right away we had so many things in common jobs, hobbies, food etc. Later on during the night we kissed! Today she called me telling me that I am a bad friend because I knew she liked him & why would I do that? Is it wrong what happened? I know the girls code but does it apply here?

2006-12-05 05:48:04 · 6 answers · asked by maybeline 1

Not including porn/toys or another woman or man...please just something between two people..so it isn't always the same?

2006-12-05 05:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by daisy 4

2006-12-05 05:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by lil' mama 1

how should i act around my guy. just found out that he has a 15 month old baby. i mean, i love babies and all.....but should i want to meet the baby or just wait until he asks me if i want to meet him. should i ask questions about the baby? i dont know if i should get to involved becuase of the babies mother.....i dont want to make her mad. i've never dated anyone with a baby before and i dont think i really mind. should i just go with the flow?? and see what happens next?

2006-12-05 05:44:50 · 11 answers · asked by bombshell brunette 2

I am askin this question because.....I was with a guy for about 8 1/2 months. We broke up because of alot of different things but neither one of us ever cheated on each other. After being apart for about 5 months and still talking on the phone alot he comes back around and asks me to go back with him. I say yes and now i havent heard from him in a day. I know your reading this and saying a day thats not a long time. But i am scared that i may have done the wrong thing. So can someone please give me some good advice????????????

2006-12-05 05:43:29 · 14 answers · asked by Vanessa O 1

k, i'm 15, just got a 16 year old boy friend, i hardly knew him before we met at a gig and got dancing
a week later he asked me out
after 5 days it started to get serious, by which i mean everything but penetrative sex
is this normal for other couples?
i've talked to him about me feeling slightly used, he was really sweet about it, but nothing really changed
argh
i dont really feel used, just a bit confused as...actually i have no idea, he's my first boy friend and my heads all abit mixed up at the moment

so, my question is, how long did it take u to get serious with your partner? and how old are u?

2006-12-05 05:42:28 · 31 answers · asked by queenie 2

he is always arguying that he dont want me hanging out with my guy friends.. he just has an anger management problem and he has a therapist and all bt i dont know wat to to hes worser everyday.. what can i do to show him that his the only one, and that he can trust me? guys plz help me out i really want to make my relationship work.

2006-12-05 05:41:57 · 10 answers · asked by dA bEauTiFul 1! 1

Their things of fat hanging off the body, where's the appeal?

2006-12-05 05:41:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I really am crazy about this guy, and he doesn't live here :( But we talk a lot online and we get a long REALLY well, and we are very close. He's coming back home just for the holidays, and he'd be here for a month and a little more. He hasn't seen me in a year so I don't know if he'd be attracted to me.. Do you think I should do something like as him out when he's here or should I wait, and if he doesn't ask me out it means he's not interested? We've discussed that we are gonna be hanging out, but we always talk about group things, no one-on-one dates.

2006-12-05 05:41:35 · 7 answers · asked by Shoegal 1

I have been dating him for 3 months

2006-12-05 05:39:57 · 15 answers · asked by dancegurl 2

I got to know this fine young lady but I discovered that she was a freak. She loved flirting with men, wearing trampy clothes, and taking naked photographs of herself. She even gave a picture to a co-worker who she was not even screwing.

I got a chance to know her and she has been awesome. I was involved in a accident and she has been there through it all. I really like her but she is a freak. Should I dump her or keep her on the team? I have always been caution of a FREAK!

2006-12-05 05:39:55 · 14 answers · asked by Fundough 2

what should i do i want to talk to him but he acts like he is scared to be with me!!!!

2006-12-05 05:39:08 · 12 answers · asked by lil' mama 1

Be honest

2006-12-05 05:38:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so here is the problem. I have been in a very serious relationship with a woman I can proudly say that I love. We have been together for a couple of years and things are strong and great, however I met this girl who I can't seem to get out of my head. I mean all I do is think about her constantly and what it would be like to date her. Not only that, but I have been spending alot of time with her, and I believe that she feels the same. I am man with morals who believes in doing the right thing, however I dont know what to do when it comes to this. I believe highly in fidelity in relationships and do not want to cheat, but I also dont want to think about the what if's all day long. Please weigh in on this

2006-12-05 05:37:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So My girlfriend dose this more than I think she relizes. She always asks me if I think that such and such is attractive, and I say yeah sure I think she is attractive. Then she asks me if I think that such and such is prettier than her. Now that puts me in a bind. What do i say? If I say NO your way hotter than her she would think I'm just saying that, b/c I have to. and if I say yeah well, No way thats a huge no no and I know that... But why, Why girl girls have to ask that and put guys ina position.

2006-12-05 05:37:55 · 22 answers · asked by jondavidryan 1

i was 13 and i was wondering if it was normal.. or if i was a sl*t.. lol

2006-12-05 05:37:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-05 05:37:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

like in a romantic sense. does it mean like I was a fool to let her go?and if a guy does that I mean what is his reasoning?guys should at least let the girl know if they know they made a big mistake with breaking things off with them.right?

2006-12-05 05:37:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok me and my ex where 2gether 4 happy yrs. she left me last mounth. After 2wks she calls me n wants back. I open my heart agian. We have the greatest week ever. We moved back 2 the plan, moving in w/each other. She then leaves 4 her friends house. when she comes back she breaks up w/me agian. I call her the next day n she tells me she felt different. a week we meet up to drop some stuff off. she tells me when she came back she honestly loved n missed me but she felt diff when she came back. I ask if their was some1 ealse n it would help me move on she swares their isnt. We hug n kiss n i walk away. she wants 2b friends but needs time "maybe we can do something in the summer" she said. Two days later she calls me at work 2 ask me if i was willing 2 keep her company for 3hrs while the train come so she can see her friend this weekend. I am confused she knows i still luv her n i want 2 work this out. what is she up2? Help she never played games before know. This whole thing is a shocked.

2006-12-05 05:35:56 · 6 answers · asked by ken hill 1