this guy..that i was involvedd with..me and him did stuff together.we even had sex..and he still contacts me and talks sweetly and romantically with me...and even said he was thinking to go long term with me..so i guess he likes me..but i found out he is trying to look for other chicks...in his CASTE..(as we r indian)..for MARRIAGE..he is also trying to get to know others.from his own religion..and flirting around w. them..and possibly marry them..why is he doing that if he likes me..How can he do that.>PLS TELL ME WHAT SHUD I THINK N WHAT SHUD I DO? SHUD I CONFRONT HIM? n be like why da hell r u wasting my time if ur gona look for other chiks?? M i over reacting? or IS HE WRONG?..ths all I want to know..JUST ANSWER THAT N ADVISE ON WHT TO DO PLS!!! isnt he soo wrong?!! n how i know is cuz i like him so much that i made a fake id and tested him to c how he was..n he was really flirty and stuff....:(((( what shud i doo pls advice me..!
2006-12-05 05:58:29 · 6 answers · asked by M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the thing is..how shud i confront him without telling him dat i was the one who made the fake id and all..???? and i m so damn stupuid n crazy that i made so many fake ids..pretended too b girls and spoke to him...PlS TELL me how crazy i am to do this??? and how shud i TALK to him abt this..like if he calls next time..wat shud is say...
2006-12-05 05:59:56 · update #1
What a problem, well for you anyway, but for anyone else reading this it isn't a problem at all!
In fact you wont really like my advise at all but here it is:-
I don't pretend to be any sort of expert on Indian culture or 'castes' but it is obvious that you are being taken for a ride!
I'm pretty sure you have worked this out for yourself, if not then you really are dense!
Does that sound harsh and unfeeling?
I do feel for you, and I know that you will read this and start thinking of 100 ways to continue with this relationship, but use your common sense, get some dignity, get him out of your mind, he is gone, forget him, get a new bunch of friends start again.
No need for any confrontation , you know the answers, just get rid, as soon as possible!
2006-12-05 06:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by budding author 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume adult males are in basic terms human so i think of they leave out females lots as properly. in spite of the incontrovertible fact that. If this drug dependancy substitute into bringing you down lots in the 1st place you mustn't sense undesirable approximately it. You have been very courageous to signify a spoil with him because of the fact that's between the main confusing issues to do - extraordinarily in a relationship of in simple terms approximately a year. in simple terms undergo in concepts which you made the fantastic decision of stepping away and not being in touch together with his drug dependancy (much less confusing mentioned than accomplished, i understand). that's now his subject and not yours. If it gets to the element the place he's begging and begging for you to pass lower back then tell him why you went in this spoil in the 1st place, and additionally make him comprehend that if he gets help that's for his own sturdy. better of success with each little thing and don't sense undesirable! x
2016-12-18 07:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say nothing and just move on. He is not the one for you. The relationship with him is making you feel insecure and driving you to doing really silly things, apart from making you feel so depressed that you have lost your zest for life. Come on, you are smarter than this!
2006-12-05 06:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well so what if you really like him ..... that dont make him really like you or even in love with you if you know he is a player and you cant handle playin back then let him go ........ MOTO ...... let him know and then let him go and then next step is for you to move on quickly sticking around is asking for more dogging and hurt you cant make a person love you
2006-12-05 06:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PAIN WELCOMES PAIN. TRUTH WELCOMES FREEDOM. NOW YOU MUST DECIDE WHAT COMPANY DO YOU WANT TO KEEP. ANYONE WHO'S LOOKING FOR LOVE HAVE NOT FOUND LOVE. YOUR JUST A THING TO DO UNTIL HE FINDS WHAT HE WANTS, AND REMEMBER MEN WILL SAY WHAT THEY THINK YOU WANT TO HEAR. MEN ARE ALSO CONTROL FREAKS, IF HE HAD YOU HE DON'T WANT ANYONE ELSE TO HAVE YOU.
2006-12-05 06:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Yahshua F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that sux- go to a counselor you have some serious problems.
2006-12-05 06:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋