ok me and my ex where 2gether 4 happy yrs. she left me last mounth. After 2wks she calls me n wants back. I open my heart agian. We have the greatest week ever. We moved back 2 the plan, moving in w/each other. She then leaves 4 her friends house. when she comes back she breaks up w/me agian. I call her the next day n she tells me she felt different. a week we meet up to drop some stuff off. she tells me when she came back she honestly loved n missed me but she felt diff when she came back. I ask if their was some1 ealse n it would help me move on she swares their isnt. We hug n kiss n i walk away. she wants 2b friends but needs time "maybe we can do something in the summer" she said. Two days later she calls me at work 2 ask me if i was willing 2 keep her company for 3hrs while the train come so she can see her friend this weekend. I am confused she knows i still luv her n i want 2 work this out. what is she up2? Help she never played games before know. This whole thing is a shocked.
2006-12-05 05:35:56 · 6 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seriously sounds to me like she has someone on the side. Someone that she has more feelings about then he has for her, and she's trying to keep you on the string, in case this thing with the other guy doesnt work out.
Sounds like she wants to be with you but she would rather be with this other guy instead.
I dont think its a good idea for you to stay with her.. Something doesnt sound right here.
She's just using you... Move on with your life and forget about her. Obviously she cant make up her mind, and is only leading you on and using you.
Good luck
2006-12-05 05:52:38 · answer #1 · answered by multipure417278 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gotta be sincere with you,the woman seems like she has stalking fame. If he has confirmed you that he has made each and every try to make this woman quit calling then the next move would possibly must be a major one,verify your nearby legislation approximately stalking and notice if you'll get a restraining order towards her,she is harrassing and stalking and being a nuisence in your every day lifestyles and dating.Actual phrases you could must use towards her in a police document. Make definite you hold and list all calls and dates and occasions that she makes makes an attempt to return see him or name him.She would even think he maintains that quantity so she will be able to touch him. She without doubt nonetheless cares for him and does not wish to permit move even in any case this time. The reality is that if you do not do some thing as drastic as a restraining order do to her being a nuisance in your every day lifestyles,she's going to hold.She ought to have had deep emotions for the man,love hurts it is an unsightly factor,we alot of the time have drawback letting move even after at all times that passes,the most powerful will is constantly love. Keep in brain that you just each must keep robust and paintings matters out amonst your self and deecide what's the quality factor to do,considering you each more commonly do not see the cause for a restraining order,no longer like she is claiming that she will kill you or something,however nonetheless she is disrupting your every day lifestyles. You can say some thing you wish to her,however she isn't going to listen to any of it,she best hears what her center feels and that's alot louder then something you'll say. Just the truth that he selections up the mobile is unhealthy,even though she is going calling for days,placed a block from her consistent quantity,if she begins calling from different numbers,attempt to make it move to voicemail,she's going to hold to name from different numbers and finally begin calling all from the identical numbers and t bird you realize it's her and do not reply. For a at the same time you are going to must forget about her,if this does not paintings then you definately fairly ought to appreciate she is willful and if worse involves worse and she or he makes a decision she desires to do some thing drastic,and it does occur now adays,then she's going to.So take manipulate of the quandary earlier than it is to overdue.
2016-09-03 12:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll keep this short and sweet as I only read the beginning of your question. Yes she wants you back or she wouldn't be calling at all. If you want her back, she's yours for the taking. I can gaurantee you that without even reading the rest of your post. - Alright I caved and finished reading the whole thing.....your in, I think she was maybe just getting scared, it also depends on your age, if your between 17 and 22 she's probably just freaking out a little cause thats what girls that age do, no real reason, it's just what happens.
2006-12-05 05:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have decided if you want to wait till she figures out how she feels. I wouldn't take her back until a few months have passed, you have to give her time so she can really see how things are without you. Because she might think thats what she want but it may only be because thats what she is use to... and hasn't had time to see what else is out there. If you get in that situation then she is likley to leave again and again....
2006-12-05 05:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she has something hot on the side but feels secure with you.
2006-12-05 05:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by lbuajlw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you have to talk to her and ask her this question . That is the only way you will get answers .
2006-12-05 05:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋