Singles & Dating - 3 December 2006

pouring my heart out for the first time in 6 years about how I feel and why I am having a hard time having sex with him which is because he treats me like **** but all he thinks about is sex and thats fine but I want to work on our relationship I need to get through to him how do i do that

2006-12-03 14:51:04 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 2

My bf is Puerto Rican and i am full American, and my dad doesn't like hispanic people that much (I don't know why) Most of my friends are hispanic, but he doesn't know about them. I wonder if my dad will accept the fact that he is Puerto Rican and his Step-mom is mexican. I want him to meet him so he can get to know him.

2006-12-03 14:50:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

4 months ago my girlfreind was forced to move to south africa with her parents we have been dating for 6 years and were on the verge of getting married since then I have not heard a thing just have recieved one email from her dad telling me to forget about her and move on and since then I have been getting worst everyday I have recently started to drink my problems away but thats not the kind of person I want to be so how to overcome this

2006-12-03 14:48:56 · 5 answers · asked by Derek M 2

2006-12-03 14:47:35 · 7 answers · asked by painkilla 2

So I have always wondered what was so appealing about "backdoor" sex...I know that alot of guys obsess/fantasize about it, but is it really that different? How many guys out there have that fantasy and how many girls woudl be willing to fulfill?

2006-12-03 14:47:29 · 14 answers · asked by Shina Beana 4

and we talked about where things went bad. He didn't say we would get back together, but just him driving an hour and a half makes me think he still cares. Do you think there is hope?

2006-12-03 14:46:19 · 8 answers · asked by :-) 2

I'm in my mid-40s. I recently met a young man of 19. He made the first move and all the passes. I just kind of fell under his spell. However, all my friends, and several other people, all think I'm robbing the cradle. He's a consenting adult, I'm a consenting adult, WHAT is the problem? Some input and insights would be most welcome. Thanks.

2006-12-03 14:45:38 · 6 answers · asked by SKVY 4

or someone who can keep a clean, beautiful house, cook nutritious food, take the best care of the children ? It's simply not possible to do all three well when the woman has to go to work,...

2006-12-03 14:44:29 · 18 answers · asked by Kria 3

i knew this guy from playing online game. He is from middle east.
After we chatting for 1 month, he ask me for phone number and want to come to singapore look for me.
I never gv him the phone number and dun wan him to come.
Just because i feel like the country here wont allow him to come cause its a terrorist country although he is not.

I tink i shd block him from chatting with me, but its had grow a fond feeling toward him.
Wat shd i do?

2006-12-03 14:43:47 · 4 answers · asked by grace 1

are they just trying to be friendly or something?

2006-12-03 14:43:14 · 11 answers · asked by lucy 1

2006-12-03 14:43:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My cousin lives near my BF and introduced us on the net since she and I can't drive and my drunk uncle smashed into BF's car. He's about 20 and I'm 17. We've been so busy this year that we haven't had time to actually meet each other. Next Monday we meet, and I've persuaded him to have sex with me, even though he's been saying to wait til I'm legal. I've fallen in love with him, and a piece of me wants him that way...but there's a feeling to not do it. It's not that I don't trust him, it's just that its the first time I'm meeting him and I want it to be special. Most of my relationships end cause I put out. But I really care about this guy and I think I really should wait now. Some people say that relationships don't last long w/o sex, and although I trust ours will be long I don't know the next time I'll see him so it feels important. The only thing is, how do I tell him that I don't wanna sleep with him? After a LOT of persuasion he got excited, so how do I break it to him?

2006-12-03 14:42:27 · 7 answers · asked by cattys_cats 3

2006-12-03 14:40:28 · 10 answers · asked by bria<3 2

I am. But I wonder if it matters to you guys or not. Does it?? Why??

2006-12-03 14:39:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in love in my teens and have never been in true love in my 20s. I am now reaching the end of my 20s and a bit jaded with society, relationships etc...

Wondering if its possible to get that magical teenage feeling again?

2006-12-03 14:39:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I borke with my girl friend recently, the reason is i never used to give much time for her ... everytime i used to shout at her , use slags at her... last time we fought n this was not the first time we have fought.. bt th last incident has taken big print in her heart... it is my mistake to have taken her for granted thing she would never leave me as she has had sex with me... she used to love me sooo very much n was ready to do anything for me....now she says that she has no feelings for me n she wants to quit... i asked her to think 1ce more n later she decided to take time for a month...i have changed my behaviour n controlled my anger.. i have realised what mistake i have made .. she is the world for me n i love her more than anything on this planet..... i want her back i will really look after her like a gem.. can't live widout her. i asked her what she wants to do in the future , she tells that she wants to be alone n be happy wid her family... rt now she is totally confused.

2006-12-03 14:38:20 · 1 answers · asked by rock 1

At the end of a date, sometimes it is hard to read the signals of my dates. Do you women prefer men who ask you for your permission for a kiss, or a man who just goes for it?

2006-12-03 14:38:18 · 16 answers · asked by D.F.T.R. 1

OK, I keep thinking about my ex-boyfriend & I feel so angry even though it's been over since 8 months ago. He was my first bf and kiss, & even though it never went past kissing (cuz I'm saving myself for marriage), I still got hurt. He made it seem like he could commit & he said all these sweet lies & he didn't mind about the no-sex thing. But after only a month he left saying "he's busy". I get angry sometimes. I know a few girls who are REALLy ugly, I mean dog-ugly & their bfs treat them so well & are committed. I'm not saying that I'm the best but lots of guys hit on me & say I'm beautiful, and yet I can't find a great guy. How can I not get angry, is there anything to help that?
I'm just really mad at the world today. One girl, the really ugly one said that her bf stayed up all night with her to help her w/ her essay & that he buys her gifts all the time. All I got was lies & heartache from my ex.

2006-12-03 14:37:53 · 16 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1

when you want to break up with them? if they call and call but you havent returned their calls for days and you just dont want to be bothered with them anymore?

2006-12-03 14:37:07 · 3 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6

That person that made u feel heaven in an instant..

2006-12-03 14:35:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

what can i do to prepare for impact? ive been through some stuff before, read the link, but i don't want history to repeat itself.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=As2VyzVWHGovh.7dGWj8npjsy6IX?qid=20061203040139AAWGCB4

2006-12-03 14:34:28 · 13 answers · asked by alex l 5

My boyfriend, and I have been dating for 3 years. We were dating long distance and than I moved across 4 states and moved in with him for a year. Everything was ok, but than I had to adjust to his friends and family and his Mom is very controlling and wanted me to fill a traditional role of a housewife, and I am a career girl. After living with him for roughly 10 monthes we were supposed to go to a friends wedding and then he told me before hand that he did not think he ever wanted to get married or have kids. We made up a week later, but I decided to move out nontheless now he's living with roommates and I am too and we live on the same city block. He has put more distance between us, but still keeps coming around and treats me like his girlfriend. He did not come to my best friends birthday and I was upset because it was all couples, so I drunk-dialed him and he told me it was rude, than I went over we fought and I left than broke up with him over text message. Is that wrong?

2006-12-03 14:33:58 · 6 answers · asked by Gwen27 2

i hav met a grl that i like. she always waits for me after class and always wants a hug, but i play hard to get and say no. she always wants to lay on me like i'm a sofa. when we talk on the phone, we talk for eva. she makes me say thatt i luv her and i do but sometimes when she saids it,it doesn't sound like she means it. i really like her but i have tried everything that i possibly can. help me get a hold of her. i don't want to lose her. can you give advice please.

-oregon boy in need of help

2006-12-03 14:32:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have made a mistake with a friend of mine. I told him to "count me out as a friend". He said he would do that right now and that he did not need me. In the meantime, he leased a Mercedes Bendes and is going to India for a holiday . After a month I apologized to him and he said he did not appreciate me letter at all.
He said he was really angry with my words. We are now talking on the phone and he will come to my home this week to visit for coffee, but the mistake was not good.
I get frustrated with all the wrong things I have done because I don;t understand his religion and how they operate. He does not understand the Western way of doing things.....no dinners out,,,,no public movie houses.....no public display of dancing. i like him and like his company but I want more than this .
He likes to have material things and likes to buy good quality things and saves money by going to the Church and staying home. I need to reach him deep down and get him to see things my way more.

2006-12-03 14:32:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-03 14:29:52 · 16 answers · asked by rican mami 2

I found one bad 1 which lasted 22 years, are all like her, bad news.
It's all I find and I'm not the type to look hard, where has gone wrong?
So where "are" the real women now, may look abroad?

2006-12-03 14:28:33 · 16 answers · asked by superalymac 1

if he asks to hang again or "try" to shud i just say no so i dont get my hopes up? or what shud i do?

2006-12-03 14:25:41 · 2 answers · asked by jessicacd91 2

well he lives far away so we usally help eachother out through the phone. what can i tell him to please him. im running out of ideas. buys be honest what woulkd you like your girlfreind to tell you while your j/o on the phone? gets as deep as you need to. thanks

2006-12-03 14:25:25 · 9 answers · asked by summergirl10171 2

2006-12-03 14:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by concerned c 1

same women when i am single? when i've got a girlfriend women seem aplenty, and they seem interested. naturally, i try to distance myself from these girls because i don't want that temptation. when im single, there seems to be a shortage of attractive datable women. WTF? do girls like the fact that i may be "unattanable" or is it the thought of doing something bad? ladies please help.

2006-12-03 14:23:17 · 6 answers · asked by alex l 5