pouring my heart out for the first time in 6 years about how I feel and why I am having a hard time having sex with him which is because he treats me like **** but all he thinks about is sex and thats fine but I want to work on our relationship I need to get through to him how do i do that
2006-12-03 14:51:04 · 8 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seek professional counseling together.
2006-12-03 14:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I know this won't be of any help but when you find out let me know. Most of the time I feel like I am talking to myself when I am talking to my husband. He doesn't give me his undivided attention..he is either watching tv (as usual), sleeping while laying in his recliner holding the remote or says he is too tired and doesn't want to talk. It's not hard to figure out why so many couples get divorced.
2006-12-03 22:55:23 · answer #2 · answered by up_all_night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 6 years of him not listening, chances are he is not trying to hear you and never will. You need to get up and move on with your life. Stop allowing him to treat you like crap. Find someone who has the same ideas of what a real loving relationship is about. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-03 23:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, try couseling ask him to go with you if he doesnt then go by your self my hubby is the same way when I talk he acts like I'm just talking to my self who knows why men are this way have you tired telling him its time to talk then sex? if you have to tell him no sex til you and him talk hope it helps I know what your going through
2006-12-03 22:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is life.
However, this is your fault as much as his. Releationships take at least 2.
Besides therapy, you need to work on your own personal life and talents and hobbies, body..etc
If you did this you wouldn't be in this situation imo.
It would be easier to keep his attention and easier for you to move on if you have to
2006-12-03 23:13:31 · answer #5 · answered by Its me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way and that is to communicate and then compromise, but first you have to approach the problem head on and say what you want. Hinting and hoping won't work.
2006-12-03 23:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ted T 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its hard for him to take 6 years of punching bag emotional abuse in one seating. men in general are not emotional creatures. ease in to what is the problem, you may have been to quick and direct.
2006-12-03 22:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree. if hes hardheaded, try going to couple therapy sessions somewhere, youll be glad you did.
best of luck, i hope things work out for you.
2006-12-03 22:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by sh8dybrady120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋