5 years ago I met a guy in a chat room and there was a strong mutual attraction. However he did not tell me he was married and when I attempted to find out this information on a website, it informed him of my "search." He was not pleased.
We did not chat again, until earlier this year. He urged me to meet him. Against my better judgement (he's still married, albeit unhappily) I agreed. We met twice and got on brilliantly - he told me he had been looking for me for 5 years. It was obvious we were falling for each other.
A few days after our second meeting, I IM'd him and he told me he was too busy to chat. I went offline feeling hurt and confused. 2 days later, he messaged me to say he had not heard from me, that he had been a fool and "goodbye". I emailed him and asked him to explain. He replied asking me not to contact him again as it hurt him "too much." I didn't. A few months later, he messaged me to say he hoped I would find someone who deserved me and he was telling me that because he cared! In the past few months he has IM'd me again a few times and we have spoken briefly, though not about anything serious.
I am finding it difficult to get over him, especially as he is still contacting me.
2006-12-01
08:47:41
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Colette
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