ok girls what would u do if your mom made u break up w/ your boyfriend because u r a ***** to everyone when u can't see him and because she thinks that u are getting too obsessed. my mom won't let me see him, won't let me talk to, won't even let me see him. i think he really did love me because he won't eat, can't sleep, and cries because he misses me. i felt really bad because i broke up with him a couple days before our eight month anniversary. i was crying my eyes out. please help me i need help. i don't want to be a ***** to her and i don't want to make her feel bad. i love my mom and i don't want to hurt her. i need help please answer my ? and fast b-cuz i am going crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-01 08:48:59 · 17 answers · asked by jack_attack0322 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe if you grew up a little this wouldnt have happened. You said you pretty much throw a fit when you cant see him, so that means you act like a spoiled brat when you dont get what you want. Your behaviour caused this so I suggest you grow up, start respecting your mother and others and prove you are mature enough for a boyfriend because right now you aren't.
2006-12-01 08:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 13:46:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I feel bad for everyone involved but I will make this short. First of all I think it is a problem that you let your mom get to the point of thinking that you are obessed with your boyfriend. Tell her you are sorry for acting so irrationally when you couldn't see him and that you feel like you have learned your lesson. Most importantly, when she lets you get back together don't act like a brat when you can't see him!! I know what you are going through because when I was in high school I felt the same way about my boyfriend. You will have all the time in the world with him if you love eachother and want to stay together, but don't forget about family and friends too!
2006-12-01 08:54:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to take a break, have some deep breaths, calm down and then think about what you really want.
This boy seems like a bit of a freak, he is trying to emotionally blackmail you into hurting your mum and your family. Why would he act that way?
Ultimately your relationship with your family is much more important than your relationship with him. Spend some time with your mum, appreciate what she has done for you over your lifetime and how important that is.
In the end, if he is really the one for you, it will happen but don't risk your relationship with your mum for him - not worth it!
2006-12-01 08:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, believe me, momma knows best!!! I know your heart is broken and his is hurt too, but your mom is really looking out for your BEST interest!!! My mom hated my boyfriend and forbid me to see him. We ended up married and guess what, I should have listened to her!!! I am not a quitter, so I refuse to get a divorce, in addition, I'm way too old now, but shoulda/coulda/woulda woke up and smelled the coffee when I was your age. There are many good guys out there, take some time for yourself sweetie and I'll bet several of those guys will be there, waiting for you!!! Give your mom a big hug and tell her you love her and appreciate what she's doing for you.
2006-12-01 08:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You said it yourself. Your Mom thinks you're getting too obsessed and are too young for a serious relationship and it sounds like she's right to me. You treating your Mom like a **** and making her feel bad is childish. If this is really true love, it will be there when you and your boyfriend are more mature. He's way overreacting to this breakup - no sleep, no food, crying. Way too immature.
2006-12-01 08:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If mums ask their kids to break up with their partners, there must be a reason to it. And also, mums know best, they know what is best for their kids.
I mean I do have some conflicts with parents, actually tons, but when I think deeply, and when I observe the things that she forbids my other siblings, is because there are reasons and REASONABLE reasons for their actions.
So the best thing is first talk to her, get close to her, share with her everything about your life. At least she knows what you are thinking, what the other person is like. And work things out, and try to compromise. Don't be like a baby and DON'T do things YOUR own way.
2006-12-01 08:57:28 · answer #7 · answered by -Grc- 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if it is serious, I am a faithful believer that what my mother doesn't know won't hurt me...or her! I guess it, too, depends on how old you are. Maybe you should talk to your mom and reassure her that you will stop acting the way you do. Express your feelings to her about him... you know, try to have a real mother daughter talk (and, of course, apologies). If that doesn't work then think about my first sentence. Good luck.
2006-12-01 08:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by shellese2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only way that should happen is because of an age thing if you where to young other wise chill out and talk to your mom and be honest with your man tell him whats going on dont lie to him...you and your man sit down with your mother and tell her how you to feel about each other and tell her shes hurting more than shes helping
2006-12-01 08:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by Lab Runner 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on your age- Ifyou are 18 or older tell her to bite you and see him anyway. If you are a minor . Then do what she says and dont cause yourself to much conflict.You arent hurting your mother she is fine. no matter what she might say, If your mother is saying you are hurting her by disobeying her , she is manipulating you. Tell her her the truth- I will respect your request and not see him because you wish for me not to.then see him when you are old enough to .
2006-12-01 08:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by dreamweaver824 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋