Singles & Dating - 27 November 2006

Okay...this guy had been asking me out for some time..and i started likin him so i said yes,but ..my best friend and him hate eachother!Today she broke up with him for me....without talking to me first..and now he hates me and shes got this other guy wanting to be my boyfriend and his grandmother lives right beside me and he goes over there every weekend..and yea hes hot..but..i already had a boyfriend..Shes trying to control me and i told her to get a life and leave mine alone..but she doesnt get it.....shes been my best friend since 4th grade....help????

2006-11-27 10:14:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I hear from so many girls that that when they break up with their bf and want to be friends and say they want it to work they are stringing them along. How do i know when to stop tryin for my ex that i dated for 3 years we been broken up 2 months. What i hear most girls are the same

2006-11-27 10:13:14 · 4 answers · asked by Confused 1

iv liked this guy ever since our lips touched but hes my brothers friend and hes 2 years older than me im 16 hes 18

2006-11-27 10:13:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've noticed that more and more men are cheating constantly. When does it stop. Is one just not enough? Why do you have to have more, especially black men? Why even after you're caught, you lie or continue to do it? I just don't understand and it's so hard to want to get involved with a new relationship these days. I'm just thinking guys cannot remain faithful.

2006-11-27 10:13:07 · 13 answers · asked by CrazyLady 1

Ok here goes.... I have been in this relaionship for almost 4 years and i am lost, lonely and confused. I have a child with my beau and everything was perfect in the begining but in the last 6 months it has fallen apart. We hardle talk and when i talk he hardly listens to me and vice versa. We are complete opposits. Any on my birthday i went out with a few friends to the bar and when my guy friend picked my up he (BF) didn't even care. i have talked to people and asked their opinions and it seems to be the same thing. I am at a point where I don't know if i still love my BF or if i am making it worst by hang out to see if it works out. I know at one point i had to love him but now,i can't even stand him touching me or kissing me. What am I doing wrong?

2006-11-27 10:12:31 · 1 answers · asked by Wilting 2

My boyfriend and i were in a fight/argument and at one point he said that he feels like im asking him to change certain things about him and i said that I loved him and wasn't just telling him that certain things upset me and trying to get him to lessen the frequency of them.
Anyways this is the first time either of us said that they loved the other. He didn't respond pos. or neg. about me saying it and we were on the phone so no i have no reaction..
is it likely that its because we were arguing and he didnt want to change subject or wasnt ready to say it.. or is that a bad sign? Would a man normally say something if he didnt feel the same way?
He's very hard to open up and talk about his feelings.
we're in our early 20s and been together about 5 months (i know not long at all) in case it matters

2006-11-27 10:10:21 · 12 answers · asked by attila 6

a girl I work with has my attention.I flirt hard and have asked her out a few times and she's always busy with her kids.We have deep personal conversations and she always lights up when she sees me. Ive told her if she doesnt want the extra attention to just tell me and she says its ok. I cant seem to break her shell and I cant get any encouragement or discouragement. I like her alot, how long should I persue? The Flirting is very suggestive and I wouldnt become a stalker as one answerer suggested. please leave your approx age so I know what kind of advice I'm getting.this has been going on 3 weeks to a month.

2006-11-27 10:09:40 · 15 answers · asked by sufferingnomad 5

2006-11-27 10:09:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I think im in love...gaw...this isn't happining.
I can't stop thinking about him.
is this possible...:/

2006-11-27 10:07:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 10:07:30 · 4 answers · asked by AvO21 3

2006-11-27 10:07:15 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

For me, it's easier. I'm a pretty confident fella in OTHER areas. Once I'm face to face I can say what's on my mind. But, that initial ASK part for me seems hard. lol I don't get the right signals. Or, I get the signals but they're rejection. Often the opposite sex plays games and I'm not into playing games or just lazy. lol

2006-11-27 10:06:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my Boyfriends 8 Month Anniversary is this Saturday and I was wondering what would be some Good Love Songs to give him? Please Help me Thank You!!!

2006-11-27 10:05:57 · 12 answers · asked by Mandy Lynn Candy 2

GUYS COULD YOU ANSWER THIS ONE please?
do you get nervous around women you like...i texted this guy i use to date we dated fora bit he was really into me although at first he said he thought i was a little scary..and was frightened to approach me..basically i was having a difficult time at work and it was right guy wrong time i could not give him the attention i should off also i was so upset about work and i was bottling it up well i just acted really wierd..Anyway its been 7 monts and i texted him to say sorry for my erratic behaviour and jokingly said 'do u still think i should be locked up?' He replied and he said "Dont worry about it. It doesnt matter. Glad u and u friends can laugh at it. Take care" what does this mean should i text him and ask him for a drink ...i really like him...if u were in his shoes what would u think if this girl asked you out..he approached me initially on new years eve and his friend said he had been starirring for about 40 mins before he came up to me...what does that say about him??HELP

2006-11-27 10:05:44 · 6 answers · asked by racheal m 1

so what do i do?

2006-11-27 10:05:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay so this boy that i have not known for long. i have a HUGE crush on. he seems interested...he plays with me and does lil play fights and punches me and hits my butt and then i hit him back(all jokingly). but (i hate using this) im some what popular and he isnt exactly mr. hottie/popular. he is very cute in his own way and he plays basketball and he is VERY sweet. but i think he thinks of me as..i dont know like "too good for him" and i want to know w a way that he wont think that and for him to think that im an option for him...that like im available for him and just a way to get him to want me more...about as much as i want him

2006-11-27 10:03:56 · 5 answers · asked by englefontingle 2

I am a pretty low maintence girl and the guy i'm with can be a bit inconsiderate and selfish.
Honestly normally it doesnt bother me because im not with him to get gifts and what not but sometimes it does because every once and a while it gets pretty bad (he can get VERY selfish/inconsiderate) when i talk to him abuot it he says that he feels bad but never really does anything to fix it.

what can i do? i dont want him to be some completely selfless person that's not who he is and not why i love him, i just want him to think of himself a little less often when it comes to big things.

please dont tell me to just leave him its not THAT big of a deal.

2006-11-27 10:03:55 · 7 answers · asked by attila 6

well theres a boy named nickie and i like him and he was walking with his friend today and he said his friend wanted my phone number.Does that mean thet he was asking me for my'ne or that his friend really was...and what should i do about it?

2006-11-27 10:03:26 · 8 answers · asked by Roxy! 2

I hear from so many girls that that when they break up with their bf and want to be friends and say they want it to work they are stringing them along. How do i know when to stop tryin for my ex of 3 years. What i hear most girls are the same

2006-11-27 10:03:10 · 7 answers · asked by Confused 1

me and my bf started going out about a week ago...is that too soon for me to try to hold his hand?

2006-11-27 10:01:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

From what I see black women usually like black men more then Asian women like Asian men, white women like white men, and Latin women like Latin men. Does this mean that black men are just holding it down better then others.

2006-11-27 10:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by 619_Balla AKA SD PIMP 1

This guy that i really like and he asked me to go to the movies with him on a date!! :)
Then he said he wants to be just my friend??
I don't understand why he asked my on a date and then says later that he just wants to be friends??
AND HE EVEN TELLED ME THAT IT WAS GOING TO BE A REAL DATE WITH ME!!

PLEASE HELP ME!! Thank u!

2006-11-27 10:01:05 · 28 answers · asked by Shellie :) 2

A guy that likes me, asked me to the dance on Friday. He is a little nerdy, and I am not really sure if I like him like that, or just as a friend.

What should I do?

2006-11-27 09:59:47 · 16 answers · asked by BigCat 3

my friend hooked me up with her cousin, we are souupoesd to go to the movies! help me! i dont know much about him.

2006-11-27 09:59:29 · 3 answers · asked by sam! 4

If your huband wanted you to fulfill his fantasy would you?

2006-11-27 09:59:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-27 09:57:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why has this become not so important anymore? Doesn't anyone wait until marriage..........

2006-11-27 09:57:46 · 12 answers · asked by Steven A 2

Like what should i do if my bff gets asked out twice in one day by a guy whos in love with me but he hasnt told me yetand my bff hates his gut and she said no to him and slapped him twice !!!!!!!!!!!!! HELP 911

2006-11-27 09:57:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

there is this guy, that likes me. he told me that he wants me to be his gf. but I told him that I need some time to think about this. and he promised to wait for me. but then he would call my friend (I don't know how he knows her #)and askes her to call me and talk to me about him, and ask me what am I gonna say yes or no. and I told my friend to tell him to wait just like he said he will. and I told my friend that I don't want her in this. and she said ok I'm out of this then. one day he AIMs me and tells me to not pay attention to any other guys. but he didn't tell me that its him. I asked him who is this and he was like u don't need to know.but I know that its him. why do u think he did this? was he thinking that there is some other guy?thanks for helping

2006-11-27 09:56:41 · 3 answers · asked by Shushan 1

Ok I think since she has a boyfriend she's uncomfortable talking to me,but I'm cool with that as long as we're friends. How can I say I want to be friends, I don't like you in a "girlfriend" way anymore, I still want to be cool with you, and you don't have to feel uncomfortable talking to me anymore just because you have a boyfriend because I don't like you like that any longer. Translated into a few sentences and not so specific. I really want us to be friends and don't want our friendship to die out.

2006-11-27 09:56:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous