Singles & Dating - 25 November 2006

My boyfriend of 3 years popped the question about a week ago. I said yes and I thought we had a plan. We are both college students and we have been looking at several colleges to tranfer to to finish our education. He recenlty changed his major and today I was looking at univeristies on line, I decided to pull up his transcript to see which programs would be easiest for him to transfer into. When I pulled it up I found that After 2 and 1/2 years of school he has only 12 credits and has withdrawn from 12 classes out of the 20 he has been registered for. I haven't talked to him about this yet, but I am heart broken. I try really hard to be honest with him and he obviously hasn't been doing the same. I understand that he doesn't like school but I wish that he would drop out and get a real job but he's not doing anything. Is this a big deal? I know it was wrong to look at his transcript, but I really had our best interests at heart. I am going to see him in a few hours, should I confront?

2006-11-25 14:07:14 · 15 answers · asked by Heather 3

Does the love of the movies and books really exist? Ever since I was little I have always dreamt of this great love that would be so passionate. Now I'm wondering if that love really exists. Is happiness ever reflected in life as it often is in art

2006-11-25 14:07:11 · 10 answers · asked by tenesha g 1

i know that being with his is a bad idea we only see each other twice a month and call each other maybe 5 times a week he say he loves me & i love him too but i feel like were wasting time what should i do

2006-11-25 14:06:43 · 10 answers · asked by aaaaa 3

Can u all help me i dont know what to do anymore i really love my bf but right now his not my boyfriend but iam giving him time but we gone out like millions of times but i just the fact that he cant forget the past ...and brings it up alot ...everyday and with this past thingy we cant live happy...its been a year 2 month~ what can i do I love him alot but something he can really get me mad and sometimes he gets mad at me for no reason or for such dum reasons...and i even sometimes go to sleep crying :( i dont know what can i do ?about this should i give it another try and see what happens????or move on

2006-11-25 14:06:15 · 11 answers · asked by TriNa 1

me and my boyfriend broke up like 4 months ago and i honestly think about him everyday and i'm still in love with him and i can't get over him. i thought we really had something goin on and we were workin but just one day i was textin my best friend and he asked to hold my cell phone and i told him no and he obviously took it the wrong way and he thought i was doin stuff behind his back and that day he broke up with me and i was like whatdid i do and he said it's what u didn't do. So now he has a girlfriend and she's so emo and i hate that ***** but what do i do cause i mean i love him so much and yeah i would do anything to be with him again but at teh same time i want so bad to get over him and move on i just don't know how....please help me somebody!

2006-11-25 14:06:01 · 3 answers · asked by lauren d 1

i am the youngest kid in the freshman class, and well since 8th grade i've never felt good about myself. tell me how i sound please. i have curly long hair, greenish-brownish eyes, small mouth, big eye lashes, im 5,6 and 145 athletic and i want to know wat girls outhere think about me answer honestly i have really low self esteem dont know y

2006-11-25 14:04:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my cuz were like best friends but ever sens he got a girlfriend it the total opist we fight a lot but he still sticks up for me what do i do

2006-11-25 14:04:40 · 4 answers · asked by cindy d 1

I love my bf's mom. However, she has two dogs who have a very serious flea problem and has decided to do nothing about it. Her house is now infested. I mentioned this to my bf and suggested that he ask his older sisters to help their mom with the dogs (since they live closer than he does) but he does not seemed too conserned. Sorry, but I don't want to go back until this is cleared up. How do I decline a future inviation without offending his mom?


And yes, we tried to tell her about the problem and she got mad at my bf...

2006-11-25 14:03:55 · 6 answers · asked by A M 3

because.....it mostly seems like they want looks and ONLY looks....

2006-11-25 14:03:35 · 20 answers · asked by Eli 4

Would you really want that person in your life? What if you have had sex with this person and now he wants a NSA relationship or friends with benefits. More cutious then anything

2006-11-25 14:01:37 · 8 answers · asked by e_piphany214 4

first off

nothing you know sexual

im a teen.

is there any secrets that have helped you?

2006-11-25 13:58:37 · 5 answers · asked by kizsescoco13 2

I once met a woman who was very attractive--I picked her out of a crowd. At one point we started dancing, and I could smell body odor, but I assumed it was somebody next to us, cuz women don't smell like that. then we were on another date when I smelled it again. It was her! We never had sex, but if we did do it, no doubt it would pop up again. would you still continue dating this woman? I broke up with her, and I've thought since then maybe it was a mistake.

2006-11-25 13:58:29 · 20 answers · asked by djbod2006 2

When first meeting a girl, in non romantic circumstances, do boys look at her primarily as a potential girlfriend/hookup or as a potential friend?

2006-11-25 13:58:07 · 11 answers · asked by salvalapaz 1

I love my bf's mom. However, she has two dogs who have a very serious flea problem and has decided to do nothing about it. Her house is now infested. I mentioned this to my bf and suggested that he ask his older sisters to help their mom with the dogs (since they live closer than he does) but he does not seemed too conserned. Sorry, but I don't want to go back until this is cleared up. How do I decline a future inviation withiout offending his mom?

2006-11-25 13:57:53 · 5 answers · asked by A M 3

For instance...Paul McCartney, 64, married to his wife who is 38. Donald Trump himself is 60, and his wife is 36. So but is it still illegal for younger to date very older man? At least 19 years old isn't minor anymore.

2006-11-25 13:57:37 · 11 answers · asked by starsgirl021687 2

I have been with my fiancee for almost 7 years and he has been doing the same thing since day 1. he likes talking to other girls in chatrooms, on the over the phone chat lines, he doesnt act on it but it makes me feel unappreciated and not respected. Recently I made my stand and i want him to change his ways and learn to respect me and appreciate me but he sees nothing wrong with his behavior because he has been this way since day one. I know that it is my fault for accepting him this way for so long...but because of that am i wrong for demanding him to change now?

2006-11-25 13:55:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-25 13:54:59 · 11 answers · asked by chinachicana 1

a girl had a crush on me so i asked her out for today but we never made solid plans and she said she was in a bad mood, also she never answerd my messages, now I want to make plans for friday but do I do it now, hold off till tomorw, or just forget her. but the thing is she got me more interested in her than I ever was and I really like her. I'd rather not do the ladder

ladder means last option (i don't want to dump her shes HOT smart and funny)

2006-11-25 13:54:33 · 9 answers · asked by mike y 1

but she didnt pick up or called me back?

2006-11-25 13:53:54 · 3 answers · asked by Ink 2

This guy and I have a detailed 3 years of history, but the problem is, I haven't talked to him for a long time. I've liked him since the start, and it's pretty safe to say he did too... but I'm confused about the present... and where he stands. I realize that the only way to really know is to ask him, but i figure i might as well get a heads-up from the community... anyway, whenever i see him, his facial expression completely changes... like everything comes back to him we kind of communicate that way, believe it or not. often times, he'll turn away the second our eyes meet, but when i turn around, he'll be staring at me. if i see him at a party, we'll talk for a while, and he always stares at my lips. My feelings for him have always been strong, and at one point, his were too. But I'm not sure if all those signs are leftovers of the past... Are they? Also, how should I approach him if it's not too late?

2006-11-25 13:53:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is dating someone that live in another state and she wouldnt kiss me because she thought she would feel bad for cheating. She and I have a lot of history, do you think that she is just a slut or do you think that she likes me? What the heck is she doing?

2006-11-25 13:53:07 · 31 answers · asked by Good S 1

i have been with this dude for almost 14 months but everytime after i see him its like he's always with someone else i really want this to work he tells me that i'm the only one & i kinda trust thta but i still have my doubts i don't know what to do

2006-11-25 13:51:42 · 4 answers · asked by aaaaa 3

ok this a long story but ill make it short there is this guy that i like very much but he is too stupied to notice so i tried making him jelous by bringing another guy over and i think it worked but i wanted to see what everyone else thinks ... for some reason he reaembers every lilttle detail of the night he came over . He asked me if i was attracted to the other guy and i said well he ok he said yeah right i saw how you was lookin at him tellin him to come sit close to you i just laughed and said how do you reaember all that then he said i dunno i just do it was the highlight of my night . haha ha is he jelous or what ?

2006-11-25 13:50:49 · 13 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1

Theres this girl that i'v become pretty good friends with over the past 2 months. But she has ALOT of friends, alot of guy friends to, she hugs guys alot, and lets guys put their arms around her, even the ugly guys, but she doesn't have a boyfriend or anything. Me and her will be texting on the phone for hours a day, and some days we don't talk at all. She's always saying we should go shopping or to the mp, and when i finally ask her out she says "let me check my schedual". We don't talk that much in school but we do over the internet and text messaging. She calls me best friend and sais i love you, alot.

2006-11-25 13:50:25 · 8 answers · asked by Bob Chaves 2

2006-11-25 13:49:30 · 4 answers · asked by denise m 1

and i do mean women

2006-11-25 13:47:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

love, is a wierd thing.. i had always thought i am never going to fall for someone. NEVER. But then last year, i met him, and i fell in love... Now i found out he always lied to me, i can never trust anyone ever again. Why did he hurt me like this??? I didnt do anything to deserve this....

2006-11-25 13:47:17 · 13 answers · asked by i get what i want 2

2006-11-25 13:47:08 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1

If youve never seen this person in real life and he claimes to be in love with you.Would you think hes crazy or for real? Especially if hes told all kinds of women all kinds of lies.

2006-11-25 13:46:43 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3

I asked this girl out, second six week, but she said that she didn’t like to go out at the beginning of school. but she was still flirting with me. I sent letters saying if she would go out with me, but she would not write back, and one had my phone number, but she didn’t call. Last week, we were talking a test and we were flirting again, the next day I stop flirting with her, but she was staring at me like she wanted me for about all first period. I really really like this girl. Were both 14, both like red, and have lot’s of other stuff in common. I was going to tell her that we should start a new friendship last Monday, but I was sick. Should I still tell that this Monday coming up, do I still have a chance with her. Please give me some tips, advice, and any thing that can help me. By the way she’s dated about 3 or 4 diffent guys

2006-11-25 13:46:18 · 2 answers · asked by jes 3