she is dating someone that live in another state and she wouldnt kiss me because she thought she would feel bad for cheating. She and I have a lot of history, do you think that she is just a slut or do you think that she likes me? What the heck is she doing?
2006-11-25 13:53:07 · 31 answers · asked by Good S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the **** stand for s.l.u.t
2006-11-25 13:53:33 · update #1
thankyou everyone for your answers, i honestly do appreciate the advise. finally, yahoo answers used for something useful
2006-11-25 14:03:02 · update #2
Shje sounds confused, and she's clung to a particular line that, if not crossed, lets her think she's faithful to the Boyfriend. Give her a little space & let her make her mind up; pressure her too much and you may drive her back to him.
2006-11-25 13:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by Minmi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She lets you sleep with and her and you touch her WHOLE body?! Yea no wonder she feels like she's cheating. She's not a s.l.u.t but she just doesn't know what she wants. Confront her and tell her why is she leading you on. By the way if she has a boyfriend don't you think you should show some respect to her and her boyfriend by not messing with her in a sexual way.
2006-11-25 13:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Push it. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said your own answer with the question you just asked.... Because she has a boyfriend but I don't know why her telling you that really matters to her anyways because she has already cheated by being in another mans arms and kissing.... Give the s.l.u.t some time and i'm sure you'll have more then that... she will give it to you real soon and that's a promise...
2006-11-25 13:59:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is a s.l.u.t, but I do think she likes you. Just be careful, you don't want to be the one feeling bad if she does end up cheating on him with you. Tell her how you feel about her and maybe she will say she feels the same and break it off with the other guy for you. You will never really know until you try. Good Luck!
2006-11-25 13:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by shy eyes 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
KIssing is personal... Haven't you seen prety women? Kissing is uaually bringing feeling into it. So you don't bring the feelings into it. She prob likes you, but she has the bf ...she is technically cheating...but not in the heart so she doesn't feel bad... Your basically being a stand in while the bf is not there. If you really like her, realze right now she is technically using you and your going along with it and letting her. If you don't want to be hurt any more than your already going to be...Essentially you want all of her, not just what your getting...and tell her your not settling any more and if she comes after you and gives it to you....great! :)
2006-11-25 14:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by SunRise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be too extreme here, but really you are asking what kind of person does that make you.
What do her actions mean? Only she (may) know that. Likewise, you know what your actions mean. Sure, you feel toyed with by her but you even recognize she has a boyfriend.
In a way, I'd suggest walking away from this one as you've got some idea what kind of girlfriend she may be to you.
Has it occured to you how self-destructive this whole thing sounds? Press on with life, laugh about her later; laugh about her years from now.
She has actually given you all the information that matters...she can't be trusted by you or her boyfriend.
Just some thoughts...it's not like I was there...or was I?
2006-11-25 14:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by JLanswers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello:
I would recommend you to just let her be. She is obviously dealing with some strong emotions if she is letting you sleep in her bed and be intimate but then refuses to kiss you because of the guilt of having a boyfriend. In my opinion, she has already cheated on him.
And honestly, if she's cheating on him by messing around with you - who's to say that she won't cheat on you if you get together with her? A friend of mine started off by cheating on her first boyfriend, and then ended up dating the guy she cheated with. And she's been repeating this cycle for seven years now, and the guys still won't learn.
I would cut her off completely. Take your relationship to a FRIENDS ONLY level, and don't even hang out when it will just be the two of you. She obviously experiences something in your relationship that she is not experiencing with her boyfriend. So if you take away your relationship, she might break up with her boyfriend because she will realize her true feelings for you.
If she doesn't break up with your boyfriend, than you'll have to move on. Which is better anyways, because she is sending you mixed signals and is just toying with your emotions.
I hope this helps, and good luck!
2006-11-25 14:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know a woman just like that, what I have seen is: she is most likely to be attracted to you, but does not want a "real relationship" not with you or with her "bf", if she really care about him, then she would not be sharing her bed with you.
the only thing that she probably wants is to "have -fun"
my advise: go and find another woman that would really care for u.
2006-11-25 14:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by butterfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a little bit of a tease and a WHOLE LOT OF A ****! There is no way that a girl who is really concerned about her b/f would be in a bed with another guy. She sure as hell wouldn't be getting felt up.- no offense. If you don't want drama, stay away from this girl.
2006-11-25 13:59:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well clearly she isn't very faithful to the boyfriend in another state. But long distance relationships don't last and it does seem like she does like you she just needs to cut the strings that are connected to the bf. Maybe you should have a take with her.
2006-11-25 13:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋