Singles & Dating - 5 November 2006

There's this girl me and my best friend both like. She's the most beautiful girl I've ever seen and i'd want to be with her over anyone. She likes us both too, I dont know what to do. I normally don't get the prettiest girls and my friend does. The catch is he's already got a girlfriend and doesn't care. He's still competing with me for her. I dont know what to do. I need some help

2006-11-05 15:26:52 · 12 answers · asked by Bluedevilbadass 2

If you had to choose between two girls on how they look who would you choose?
Girl #1: She is like 5'4, slim dark brown hair and green eyes
Girl#2: She is like 5'2, brown hair brown eyes and sort of, well bigger than girl#1(as in weight) By the way this won't change my decision i am just wondering what you guys think?

2006-11-05 15:26:02 · 5 answers · asked by Chris 1

well I have liked this boy since the begining of the school year. and i had a b/f and we agreed if me and him split that we would go out. Well we did break up sadly and we never did i started going out with this other guy and then he got a g/f.now hes single. Well I've been with my b/f for like a month now. and all my b/f well all he wants to do is make out and crap. like i invited him to a family event and he said no b/c we couldn't hold hands and kiss. Well i wasn't sure if this other guy still liked me. and today I told him that i trusted him and he said i know thank you for being here for me your my best friend thats a girl and i was like I still like you and he said he didn't want to get between me and my current b/f and he would go out with me. is it wrong to like some one or tell some one you like them if you have a b/f? what should i do?? I NEED HELP!

2006-11-05 15:25:49 · 15 answers · asked by gingerg50 2

or the other kind

2006-11-05 15:24:45 · 13 answers · asked by Sweepy 3

I'm a 44 year old divorced mother (I have full custody of my son).
I separated from my ex when I was 40.

Since then, especially lately, I am literally the only woman I know among friends, family, co-workers, casual acquaintences, my son's friends' parents, etc. who is freakin single. I never seem to meet anyone to even date! I'm either working or raising my son--I'm BUSY.

I'm good looking and sociable. I was a dating-maniac before I met my ex-husband.

I literally am starting to feel like a freak. Why am I apparently the only woman who isn't "with" someone. I cannot believe all these people have something I don't.

I'm really not a freak, people like me...but where in the blue he!! do these women find someone and never spend ANY time by themselves (the unmarried ones who are NOT alone).

I cannot tell you people how badly I miss sex either.

I suppose I already know my answer, deep down, I just need to vent. I'm lonely and frustrated and starting to hate "couples."

2006-11-05 15:21:38 · 11 answers · asked by cinderella 2

My current boyfriend, who is also my ex, because we've been dating off and on for about 3 years, dated my sister over the summer. They were having problems and always fighting. I was ticked at my sister because he was MY ex. so to get back at her, I messed around with him and now were together. He's moving away, and he's worried about ME cheating. You know the saying, "If he cheated with you, he'll probably cheat on you"? Well, he SWEARS he wouldn't do that intentionally but he think I won't be faithful. I've nevr cheated on any of my ex's before. Who should really be the one worrying??

2006-11-05 15:20:46 · 5 answers · asked by Grey 2

2006-11-05 15:19:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need advice on a situation that is upsetting me. I am engaged to a man who is in the army and was in Iraq for a year before we met. While he was there, he had a relationship with an engaged woman. After they came back to the U.S., she broke off the relationship and married her fiance. He tells me that he is over her and that I am the only woman in his life and that he's never loved anyone more than me. However, I recently came across one of his emails that told her that he had a dream about her and that she had set higher standards for him in meeting women and that he would rather be single than be with someone who was not appropriate for him and now he has met someone (meaning me). He wrote to her that I was a lot of things she was not, but that I wasn't a lot of things she was. I know that snooping in his email was wrong but I confronted him about it and he said that he was telling her that he was moving on and realizes that it was wrong to send it. Am I over-reacting?

2006-11-05 15:18:24 · 12 answers · asked by applecider 2

We just got a new puppy and she is wonderful. I want a name that is like her. On the other hand she is busy,mischeivious and still not house trained.lol

2006-11-05 15:18:23 · 4 answers · asked by J J 2

I have heard from many black guys that they will not date a black woman and I'm just wondering why?

2006-11-05 15:17:38 · 12 answers · asked by Nikki A 1

pkmthers this one guy who i only see in the hallways(we dont have classes together) and i can always see him looking at me from the corner of my eye and one time i was passing and he started singing
i kind have a crush on him]
but doo you think he likes me?

2006-11-05 15:17:23 · 8 answers · asked by Italyfan 4

Basically, I need help writing a script for a short film that I am going to be shooting soon.

Part of it calls for a high school student, who is a drug addict, to do something while being high that would make his girlfriend break up with him.

Breaking up with him just for doing drugs WILL NOT cut it, cause that doesn't make for good entertainment - some sort of an event has to push the girl to the point that she breaks up with him.

I asked this question before, but i got some f-ed up answers. I want to keep the film borderline pg-13, so please no rape or especially gay sex.

2006-11-05 15:16:39 · 10 answers · asked by Ilya 4

I went on this great date with a guy and when he dropped me off he says. See you later. I really want to see him again, but I don't want to be aggressive. Does he mean see you later as in he really wants to see me again. How long should I wait before calling him or pursuing this.

2006-11-05 15:16:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

she is always horney when im not. how can i tell her im not with out it hurting her feelings?

2006-11-05 15:14:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I feel pathetic, but im 9 months pregnant.. I know i know, i should have been more careful but the condom broke.. But here i am as ushual feeling like crap about my self.. My boyfriend cares so little about me.. but clames to love me. I know i need to leave. i know hes always looking for someone better.. i should have left long ago.. but after years.. i was still so inlove. this is a rant. and a pathetic one. But i have no one to talk to. and im lonely. and while he searches the net for interesting girls to chat with.. I look for people who might say hey.. your not worth nothing.. Sad? ya. okay im done

2006-11-05 15:11:55 · 13 answers · asked by pladedah 2

I have an urge to kiss my boyfriend but he says we have to wait to kiss till a movie but we never go out. WHAT SHOULD I DO??????????????????????????????

2006-11-05 15:11:37 · 13 answers · asked by Kali_Mae_<3 2

I'm asking because of a magazine article that I read saying that guys actually like to date single moms because they're independant, have jobs and money and a place of their own, have a life besides the guy, and don't play 'head games' because they don't 'have time to fool around' with relationship drama.

Is this true? I really would have thought that single guys would run scared from single moms.

2006-11-05 15:11:30 · 11 answers · asked by Queen Queso 6

Her folks dont like me. Her life would probably be easier without me. She says she loves me and I do love her but can it work without the consent of her family.

2006-11-05 15:10:03 · 9 answers · asked by Zach 1

why would you ever molest a girl??Do you not realize it scars her for life. Can you all tell me why they do this to us??
every time my bf touches me (he is very understanding) I have flashbacksand remember what happened. Is this normal??Will it ever go away?? I feel bad cuz he is trying to help
I live in 60010. This goes to show you rich people don't get off easy.

(60010 is 1 of the wealthiest zips in the US.)
Would you ditch the girl cuz she didn't want sex??

2006-11-05 15:08:56 · 17 answers · asked by Hott Gymnast 1

I am away at college 2 hours away from my boyfriend. Even when I am at home, he still lives an hour away. He will either come to see me at my dorm and we will usually have the room to ourselves for the weekend or more or I will go home for the weekend and spend every moment with him. Is there such thing as too much sex. We are having sex at least 2 to 3 times a day.

2006-11-05 15:06:01 · 27 answers · asked by XoHaySweetieoX 2

ok I REALLY REALLY REALLY like this boy(and from what I hear he likes me TOO!!!!)and I used to see him all the time cuz his mom and my mom and all us kids used to go out for lunch EVERY weekend but we don't do that anymore,and we go to different churches too. So I don't see him that often,SO IT'S LIKE MY FEELINGS FOR HIM STRT TO DRIFT OFF AFTER I DON'T SEE HIM FOR A WHILE,AND THEN I'LL SEE HIM AGAIN AND THEY COME BACK(the feelings)(AS SOON AS I SEE HIM),Is this normal does this happento anyone else or has it ever happen to U????

2006-11-05 15:05:55 · 5 answers · asked by ~♥~Tiffany~♥~ 4

Since you knew he wasnt going to stop, You said were is the condom, and he said im not going to wear one. Do you think he gave me an STD?

2006-11-05 15:05:04 · 14 answers · asked by nita 1

So yeah, he kinda flirts with me, but hasn't hinted that he has girlfriend either, what do I do?

2006-11-05 15:05:00 · 3 answers · asked by heynow 2

So one day, i was at my locker and he was at his -beside mine-and I was like ''hey Josh'' and he was like hey and I kept walking and kinda glanced back and he was looking at me but I didn't look at him very long b/c i was afraid i would trip or something was this bad??
I haven't spoke to him in a while-so tomorrow, should I be like "hey what's up?" and stand there and see if he says anything??

\you can e-mail me with any advise!

2006-11-05 15:03:49 · 8 answers · asked by .::country gurl in a 4X4::. 2

if so why?and what did u see special when u saw this person?

2006-11-05 15:03:17 · 37 answers · asked by Tara 6

I am not shy, but I don't think girls don't dig me, any thing I can do to reverse this situation

2006-11-05 15:02:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

one time i was walking on the street and this white girl come up to me and say something i did not undersand what was it and that go alway she look at me for like 6 secs that go alway.

2006-11-05 15:00:53 · 20 answers · asked by zaheer a 2

Sexy,

Wow, thank you so much for composing such a detailed and thoughtful reply to my recent message. So where are you hiding that PhD degree? You have incredible insights and ability to drill down to the nuances most anyone would miss. I knew you were special...this example just continues to reveal that fact. Yet I am still astonished and even swept away by the depth of feedback you have given me. That you care enough to even take the time, the kind effort & thought, is impressive. But the ability you possess for finding a subjective meaning, is brilliant.

I've had to read your reply several times, just to take it all in. Some points you make I might disagree with initially, but actually you're probably right even if I don't want to admit it. I don't see myself as complex enough, emotionally, to have "innermost" feelings of any kind. Whether it is fear, as you state-- or simply the fact I am a "loner," there is a major tendency on my part to avoid emotions and personal connections. You haven't taken it as a personal insult that I am like this, although you easily could have started finding fault in response if you were a different kind of person. But since you are a wise, caring, brilliant man, you actually see that there is more than meets the eye when figuring out why people do the things they do.

I hope maybe we can talk or chat later, but if not, I will get back with you sometime soon.

With awestruck love,

Pumpkin

2006-11-05 15:00:49 · 12 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

I work in a medium size office with about 75 people every day.I have lots of friends there. There are a good mixture of married and single people working there. There is one single guy in particular who I have been friends with for about 13 years. He has been married once many years ago, then lived with another woman for about 5 years. He has been out of that relationship for around 6 years now. For the last 3 1/2 yrs he's been dating a girl from work. He says from the start he told her he didn't know what he was looking for ( I think he is looking for a relationship one would have as a teeager. You know butterflies in the stomache, can't wait to see the person.) She has fallen in love with him. Now here is where it gets complicated, another girl from work is getting a divorce and has started seeing him. They ( the girls )are both my friends and have both confided in me. The second girl told me the other day she loves him. I don't want to be in this. How do I stay friends with everyone

2006-11-05 15:00:30 · 4 answers · asked by Mother Knows Best 2

So there's this hot chic that enjoys the attention i give her. She gets attention from almost everyone, so i dont see why she wants me to pay attention to her. Does that mean she rally likes me? She's a hot girl so i think she wont have a hard time attracting people. But it seems like she wants my attention alot..as if i'm the only girl that ever flirted w/her

note..She's bi sexual female and so am i.

2006-11-05 15:00:08 · 1 answers · asked by dnice 1