she is always horney when im not. how can i tell her im not with out it hurting her feelings?
2006-11-05 15:14:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She might just need to know that you desire her. Take it from experience this is not always a sexual thing. I had a boyfriend that had problems in that area, instead of letting me know that there was a problem he just ignored me. Once I knew that there was a physical problem then it was no longer a problem in our relationship. Hold her, tell and show you that you love her. Explain to her that your drive is not as strong as hers but please don't let her feel like its her fault or that she is doing something wrong.
2006-11-05 15:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by joanne_happygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not tell her that she is too horny and that you cant keep up with her, it would really really hurt her feelings, and maybe you will not even have a sex life after you tell her that, instead devise a way or a technique to keep both of you busy, plan many activities that would include other people so that both of you will not be left alone, be creative, think it through plan ahead and use time effectively,if she gets tired after doing many things, other things like sports and stuff or cooking or both of you decorating the house, if you have a business or if you have other things to do , if both of you have other things to think about, she would not need to be that horny..man youre wife is a dream come true,sad to say you cant keep up with her
2006-11-05 23:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate, communicate, communicate. Be honest and let her know that you really love her...you're just not in the mood....but make sure you offer the same courtesy when the shoe is on the other foot. Maybe you both need to work on learning when each other is most in the mood.
2006-11-05 23:17:29 · answer #3 · answered by lolabellaquin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my hubby face the same issue.We are horny at different times.When I am and he is not he says he is really tired or has a stomach ache or headache-I can totally see through him-and it annoys me-but sometimes I am not in the mood when he is and I say the same things so I can't really get mad at him.
2006-11-05 23:18:25 · answer #4 · answered by mama of 2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy her a good shower head,and make sure your hot water heater works good.that will take some slack off you.find her a hobby to keep her busy. GOOD LUCK
2006-11-05 23:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it with her, It doesn't matter "what" you have in mind for her to understand you but, "how" you say them. Make sure to assure your feeling for her and most of all, the timing must be perfect.
2006-11-05 23:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Help her out.
Buy her a toy.
Just tell her, and tell her why...
Do something nice for her...
Ask her to help you get in the mood......
or if it is.. something physical- talk to your Dr.
2006-11-05 23:19:43 · answer #7 · answered by joulesofaffection 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a man or a woman??
if you are a man...whoa baby where did you come from?
if you are a woman...she doesnt need you to have the same sex you would have together anyway right?? bzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
2006-11-05 23:17:07 · answer #8 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comprise and have sex with her every-other-time she wants.
Marriage is a comprise and you both have to meet in the middle.
2006-11-05 23:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her; and maybe rub her shoulders or something nice.
2006-11-05 23:16:17 · answer #10 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋