I am never right in my relationship. im never really heard. and i have run out of ways to fix my life!?

Question

I feel pathetic, but im 9 months pregnant.. I know i know, i should have been more careful but the condom broke.. But here i am as ushual feeling like crap about my self.. My boyfriend cares so little about me.. but clames to love me. I know i need to leave. i know hes always looking for someone better.. i should have left long ago.. but after years.. i was still so inlove. this is a rant. and a pathetic one. But i have no one to talk to. and im lonely. and while he searches the net for interesting girls to chat with.. I look for people who might say hey.. your not worth nothing.. Sad? ya. okay im done

Answer 1

What do you mean? do you expect people to tell you you arent worth anything? That's not true, why are you so down on yourself is it because you are 9 mths pregnant, you are moody, tired, easily irritated, all of this is stuff you can't control YOU'RE PREGNANT, and guess what that little baby inside of you thinks that you are the most worthy person in the world and you are. Pick your head up and get ready for the most amazing adventure of your life, being a mom. Things will get better and plse remember you dont need a man to make it on your own.

Answer 2

Sweetie You are being used and being made a doormat You just need to make the decision to leave.
OK make sure if you plan to keep this baby you have him served with paternity now so the child will be taken care. protect your child's right. If You have access to the money in the bank take it and leave and get help.
Other wise if you plan to give the child up .There are ways of doing this.
I have personally been where you have been and these people below helped me out when I had know one .You have to get your life back Just realize that you are worth a lot more than you think you are You are not someone door mat.
Just wanted you to know the guy who did this to me contacted me 28 years later and has been paying for how he treated me.His life was major messed up 4 different women cheated on him and he is alone at age 50.He told me how sorry he was for what he had done and felt the need to somehow fix this in his life before going on .Karma always come.
Hugs honey straighten out your life You will love yourself again I promise. Diane

Answer 3

You shouldn't feel like crap no matter what happens some one will always care about you. If you think you should leave then you probably should. You are are worth something and anyone who says that you are not is a steaming pile of monkey poo! God makes everyone with a purpose. God does not make people worth nothing. If he is out there looking for other women you should leave him no questions asked if he can't be a good boyfriend how is he going to be a good father.

Answer 4

Don't look down on yourself. You're worth it... he's the one that's not worth it. Just leave him. Don't look back. You need that confidence because what's wrong now will only get worse later... and you don't desrve that... If you know he's such a terrible boyfriend and doesn't even support you, you're not going to have a happier life--especially if he never returns the love. WHen guys say something, it's not always believable. Plus, you sound like a great person, who has had a lot of bad luck fall upon her... and you know what? Take action because you know your problems and can be a strong person... I know you can... Good luck, and feel better

Answer 5

well i would just like to say that you are worth something and if your boyfriend can't see that then maybe he doesn't deserve you. and if you say you already know this then why are you still there??? you said that you were still inlove. but what about now?? are you still inlove with him now after the way he treats you??? if he claims to love you then you need to tell him to stop telling you he loves you and show that he loves you. being depressed while pregnant isn't good for the baby either so i suggest you go and find a place that makes you happy. and if your boyfriend really does love you then he will clean up his act and stop acting like a total *** hole

Answer 6

If all he wanted was some sexual thing he isn't worth it. If he really loves u he wouldn't be looking for someone else. U should leave him, and raise ur child on ur own because if ur not happy then ur child will sense it and be unhappy. Don't worry about him worry about u and ur child. Just don't completely cut him out of the child life. Move back with ur parents or close family or friend and just focus on the future not the past.

Answer 7

You are a good person at heart as you wouldnt be asking for help dont be so hard on yourself whats done is done i bet you arnt a rebel now youve grown up did you fit in with the family did they treat you all the same maybe thats why you were as you were, as for not expressing your feelings that isnt your fault as its in your personality i dont either come to that nore doas my daughter, can you call a family confrence and explain how you feel and your sorry as they love you they will forgive you then put it behind you and dont torture yourself as i think inside your a teriffic person witha good heart good luck i hope you find peace for yourself sophia 2000

Answer 8

You have to learn to like yourself first before others will like you! No one is born to be without any strong points. Look more closely at yourself, see what you are strong in and focus on it/them.
If you continue to wallow in self pity and be so negative in your outlook, no one else can help you. You have to help yourself by changing your self image and confidence. Otherwise you will fall into the trap of living the negative life you are now thinking.
Take action to reduce your so called "bad luck" immediately!

Answer 9

Don't take hard steps right now. You are are 9 months pregnant this time is you to relax and totally tension free. Be careful towards your health and your babes too, its most important right now.

Answer 10

Ur b/f is a a worthless,lazy piece of monkey poop...VERY VERY VERY RUDE I KNOW but it seems true he will never be right