My current boyfriend, who is also my ex, because we've been dating off and on for about 3 years, dated my sister over the summer. They were having problems and always fighting. I was ticked at my sister because he was MY ex. so to get back at her, I messed around with him and now were together. He's moving away, and he's worried about ME cheating. You know the saying, "If he cheated with you, he'll probably cheat on you"? Well, he SWEARS he wouldn't do that intentionally but he think I won't be faithful. I've nevr cheated on any of my ex's before. Who should really be the one worrying??
2006-11-05 15:20:46 · 5 answers · asked by Grey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should be more worried
tell him he can trust you
and show him that u can be trusted
if u dont, ur still a bit higher than he is
(not as likely to cheat)
jus talk to him
2006-11-05 15:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Nick723 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie don't be an airhead. HE CHEATED ON U WITH UR SISTER!
Now he's moving away and he's pretending to care for u so much that he wants u to think he's worried about u cheating on him.
PLEASE thats to throw u off the track in thinking he won't cheat again( which he will he may be cheating on u now)
And u say u got back at ur sister by having him cheat with u.
That dosen't mean a thing why are u trying to hurt ur sister?
She's gonna always be ur sister, he's the one u should have been pissed at not her
and this thing about him moving away thats giving him ALL the freedom to do what with whomever. This guy is not worth the headache dump him b 4 he leaves( I bet he won't be too broken up over it)
if he's so worried about u cheat( as he claims) then why don't he take u with him?
who should be worried? If u worry over a cheater then u are setting ur self up to continue to be hurt.
Im sure ur sister is not worried because now he's ur problem
2006-11-05 23:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are right about the once a cheater, always a cheater part, but also, usually the guys that are the most suspicious about their partner, are the ones who cheat themselves. I have seen it a million times with couples. The guy is cheating, and then all of the sudden he gets all worried that she will cheat, and is suspicious of her all the time.
i would say that you should worry. Keep a close eye on him, but don't confront him and blame him unless you are 100% sure of his infidelity
2006-11-05 23:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its a fling and thats what it sounds like since hes bounced around from you to your sis and back to you then dont even worry because eventually he will cheat.....my advise is to either face the fact that if hes moving there will be space between you two and well a lot can happen and well if you dont want to go through that find someone local
2006-11-05 23:25:21 · answer #4 · answered by MR.E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO its time to split.. move on find a man who want be with you and your sister
2006-11-05 23:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Lisa♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋