2006-11-05 15:19:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because all the bad women are with good men!
2006-11-05 15:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by Aces 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because good women are under the untrue impression that everyone is as honorable as they are. Therefore they trust the world, and all the bad men who are skilled at working their way into their lives.
Another reason is the classic "Messiah Complex." Many women seem to think they can "change him with [their] love."
Then there's the old "opposites attract" rule. Think about it...say you're a woman, a complete goody goody who dresses modestly and is quiet. You see a hood roaring down the street on a motorcycle. Odds are you're going to be attracted to that freedom.
2006-11-05 15:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by Susie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a difference between a good woman and a smart woman.
Smart women don't end up with bad men.
2006-11-05 15:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same exact reason good men end up with bad women. It works both ways.
2006-11-05 15:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Jeff N. Florida 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because a lot of the bad men are very confident with themselves, so they end up being the ones girls see as the cool, funny, smart guy... whereas the nice guys are quieter and more respectful... and seem more like friends. Personally, I like the good guys, but a lot of my friends like the guys who have the attitudes or slick appearance... it's just that girls like that their guy can take control and won't be a pushover, I guess...
2006-11-05 15:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by Chocolate_swirls18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't heard that one enough. You know I don't know and am not sure if anyone will ever know but let me give it a shot. So my ex just broke up with me. I consider myself one of the "good men". We only dated two months, and we never argued. I was very trusting and not at all jealous of her or her many guy friends. So the guy before me she dated for a year and a half. She told me how "unhealthy" the relationship was because all they did was argue, but yet they stayed together for a year and a half? I was told by one of her friends that she has really low self esteem and that she constantly needs attention/drama in her life to make her self feel good. I don't really know how that workd, but her friend also told me that because I was so nice, happy, and stable at times it probably made her feel bad about herself because my life was going pretty good.
2006-11-05 15:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by Clrcut27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I only know why I did. I said all this guy needs is to have a woman that don't sleep around, don't nag him, takes care of his needs & he will be OK
Guess what. It didn't work after 24+ years he is with somebody else & now people are telling me about all the other he has been with over the years.
2006-11-05 15:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by ancestorhorse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all good women end up with bad men. but the ones that do may just make the wrond decisions sometimes.
2006-11-05 15:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women and men tend to put LOOKS and body type ahead of HEART and intelligence .
They may look good ,but are egotistical and unable to hold a conversation .
They just want SEX.
2006-11-06 00:36:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think we try to look for them, they seem good in the beginning but then seem to show their true colors once we start to really like them or they start to really like us and turn into insecure jerks. We always think we can change them or think they would want to change for us and we waste way to much time on the azzholes. It just seems to happen that way. It sucks for both parties. Everytime I date a great guy, he turns into the biggest jerk. What is the deal?
2006-11-05 15:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋