I work in a medium size office with about 75 people every day.I have lots of friends there. There are a good mixture of married and single people working there. There is one single guy in particular who I have been friends with for about 13 years. He has been married once many years ago, then lived with another woman for about 5 years. He has been out of that relationship for around 6 years now. For the last 3 1/2 yrs he's been dating a girl from work. He says from the start he told her he didn't know what he was looking for ( I think he is looking for a relationship one would have as a teeager. You know butterflies in the stomache, can't wait to see the person.) She has fallen in love with him. Now here is where it gets complicated, another girl from work is getting a divorce and has started seeing him. They ( the girls )are both my friends and have both confided in me. The second girl told me the other day she loves him. I don't want to be in this. How do I stay friends with everyone
2006-11-05 15:00:30 · 4 answers · asked by Mother Knows Best 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What a mess. You have to ask yourself what you would want a friend to do if you were in the same situation. If you would want someone to stay out of it then stay out of it. If you would want to hear the truth then tell them that what you know.
2006-11-05 15:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by working mother 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would write an anonymous letter to the boss. This smacks of trouble. And the guy is a grade A 1 jerk. Dump him as friend. He is no one's friend. The girls are stupid for letting this happen as well. Girl #1 needs to dump his as*, and girl #2 should do so also. And none of them should be dating a co-worker. The boss should be involved because this is about to explode in everyone's face. And they all should be fired for letting this happen. He and girl #2 for sure! And you, Boy! you poor thing. Learn from this one, do not date a co-worker.
2006-11-05 15:12:08 · answer #2 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 10:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give you is to talk to the guy to see what is going on but still be all cheerful and everything like you are stupid so that he dosen't think that you are on his case. Or just plain stay out of it , but that would probley be to hard for the average woman. lol
Best of Luck to you,
2006-11-05 15:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋