Sexy,
Wow, thank you so much for composing such a detailed and thoughtful reply to my recent message. So where are you hiding that PhD degree? You have incredible insights and ability to drill down to the nuances most anyone would miss. I knew you were special...this example just continues to reveal that fact. Yet I am still astonished and even swept away by the depth of feedback you have given me. That you care enough to even take the time, the kind effort & thought, is impressive. But the ability you possess for finding a subjective meaning, is brilliant.
I've had to read your reply several times, just to take it all in. Some points you make I might disagree with initially, but actually you're probably right even if I don't want to admit it. I don't see myself as complex enough, emotionally, to have "innermost" feelings of any kind. Whether it is fear, as you state-- or simply the fact I am a "loner," there is a major tendency on my part to avoid emotions and personal connections. You haven't taken it as a personal insult that I am like this, although you easily could have started finding fault in response if you were a different kind of person. But since you are a wise, caring, brilliant man, you actually see that there is more than meets the eye when figuring out why people do the things they do.
I hope maybe we can talk or chat later, but if not, I will get back with you sometime soon.
With awestruck love,
Pumpkin
2006-11-05 15:00:49 · 12 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well i don't know the first part of the email you sent her , but i think she was being a bit resentful and sarcastic about something you have done or said to her. you need to sit and have a talk with your girl . good luck
2006-11-05 15:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay..I am going to assume that this email was to some other man...and not to you. So, if I were you I would ask her about it. Wait until you are calm and not so upset/hurt and most importantly don't let your mind get carried away...thinking things are more than what they indeed are. However, it seems as if she is flirting with this man and it maybe a sign that he is giving her something that you are not....
But, um yea...talk to her about it...ask her..hopefully she won't get upset and start going "crazy" and she will just talk with you and explain to you what she meant by this email to this guy. If she gets all defensive....she might be lying and hiding something. I figure..if your significant other hides things of this nature from you....something is up...maybe not anything sexual or to the point of where she is cheating..but..something (maybe he listens to her)...anyone they cannot chat with or talk to in front of you..they shouldn't be talking to....just my opinion!
Good Luck!
2006-11-05 15:13:49 · answer #2 · answered by Tru-Gem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just ask her, in person, what she meant by this wordy message. She sound a bit like she is a "loner" due to something in her past and it is hard to be emotional, but OK, that's not a bad thing. If you two are meant to be the "loner" and avoidance of emtions and personal connections will drift away.
She probably wanted to impress you with her abitlity to write but seems a bit too deep to say so little.
2006-11-05 15:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like me.
Send back that you love and support her every decision. And that if you think that she is about to do something unwise, you would tell her, but not stop her, since you know how independant she is. Tell her that you love that she is a strong, independant, powerful woman.
Most importantly: Say that you might not always understand why she says or does somethings, but that you's always be there for her. In the background, if that's where she wants you to be, and that you'll be there right next to her, when she wants you to be. She will value this above everything, and understand it perfectly.
That's what i'd like to hear.
2006-11-05 15:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She talked deeply, that undemanding or perhaps average found out guy or woman can't extremely comprehend what he observed.. She do no longer sounds communicative....Sounds weird and wonderful! Is she a psychologist or a psychology student who dont to flow the point to be understood via human beings even close to to her... She is your gf, desire you comprehend her.
2016-10-21 08:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I just call it like I see it. And if there is more than meets the eye, I look for that too. Don't analyze yourself too much though, even if the easiest answers seem to be overly simplistic, they have the tendency to be correct.
You are fantastic, don't you dare forget that.
Love,
Sexy"
2006-11-05 15:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres the thing i remember the last e-mail that you posted on here i remember responding to it so what i have to ask: is the insightful remarks that she is refering to all the ones that you got from people here? and if you don't know how to talk to this woman why are you with her? you can't post everything she says on here and have other people respond to it. how do YOU feel about what she is saying? figure it out and go with that.
good luck
2006-11-05 15:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just talk things out with her and like ask her what she meant by it or something if you don't get it.
Good Luck
2006-11-05 15:03:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...apparently you have the PHd on communication with her and she's awstruck.
What do u need us for? Good luck. Peace.
2006-11-05 15:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...Give her time and then try and talk to her, just dnt over assume stuff. Good luck.
2006-11-05 15:04:35 · answer #10 · answered by Tinnie Cutie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋