Singles & Dating - 29 October 2006

My best friend Matt and me have been trhough alot over the 4 years we have known each other. When we first meet he had a huge crush on me, and this lasted until last year when he started dating another girl. I liked him too through this whole thing, but I had just gotten out of a really bad relationship and wasnt ready for another. And through all the fights we had we have stayed real close. Well 3 weeks ago he kissed me (He broke up with that other girl already), and not once it was a make out seccion. And we talked about us and you know the whole dating thing, and he called me his gf and everything. Two days later he says never mind and just wants to be friends... wierd? So I dont know what to do. And he is avioding me like no tommorrow. What do I do?

2006-10-29 11:58:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

mine:
girl: u look like my 5th boyfriend
boy: how many boyfriends did u have??
girl: 4
i'm gonna use it soon!!

2006-10-29 11:57:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my girlfriend for two months now, and I feel like were growning apart. I havent Really been able to see her for the past week and now I have all this Built up emotion and i need to tel her that i love her, or atleast tel her that im crazy about her.

2006-10-29 11:57:16 · 6 answers · asked by kevin 1

Well I really like him well my friends said I was in love..But he is kind of an thug anywho he is hanging with these knew kind of people and my my best friend was at her locker and I was walking with someone esle to class and then while I was walking my best friend said that my ex-boyfriend friend said"Look at that"..And they was all looking at my butt..
But i still like him.But I don't know will he like me for me...
or something esle..
P.s:My friend also says that my ex boyfriend control me, this is after we went out.
I don't know what to do..
Should I still like my ex and go with him again..
I don't know..
What should I do ?.

2006-10-29 11:56:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok im going out w/ this guy named cody hunter i have been going out for 3 years.AND i really like this guy named ryan hall.should i tell cody and say i think we need to break up causde ryan likes me to and all cody does is treat me like dirt anymore so thats when i started looking and suggestions on what i should do?

2006-10-29 11:56:19 · 6 answers · asked by staryeyes96 2

i am almost 15 and have been going out with my first boyfriend for a little over a month. we had been really good friends before we started going out. he is in marching band on the bus yesterday he was apparently sitting by his ex talking to her/flirting with her the whole time. i have been told this from many different people and do believe it. then on her xanga she was talking about how much fun she had with him then he commented her saying it was great and then said "love you bye" in the comment.
does he not think i can see it??
should i give him a second chance or dump him?
please help!

2006-10-29 11:55:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi.

Your probably thinking I some pervert or freak for asking this, but I really need to know.

There is a girl that I really like, she's 14 and I'm 18. I've liked her for over a year, but I haven't said anything to her because I'm terrified it'll ruin our friendship. Seriously, she's a really cool person to be around.

Now, I'm not a sex-crazed maniac, I don't care if we can't...you know...but I really want to be with her, I've never fallen for anyone like this before.

So I'm wondering, is it possible for me to go out with her?

2006-10-29 11:55:08 · 28 answers · asked by Sam M 1

Been sitting beside her in class, see her about 3 times a week.
I tease her, she teases me. We have some fun.

How should I hit things off with her?

I mean, I don't even know if she knows that I "like" her. I was the one who sat beside her first, so she might know my intentions. I do some flirty things like I throw things at her, smack her with my book sometimes playfully. And she sometimes hits me and punches me in the arm.

Basically, how do I escalate this?

2006-10-29 11:53:04 · 8 answers · asked by twiztedweb 2

I know a lot of men are players, but it seems that a man who would hold a woman in his arms without kissing or touching her sexually must feel something for her...
Also he has said "I like you as a person, in addition to wanting you." a couple of weeks ago.
We don't see each other for a while and then he says "my feelings for you haven't changed." and holds me close to him.
What do you think,
player, or falling?

2006-10-29 11:52:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-29 11:52:17 · 41 answers · asked by chick15194430 2

i really like a girl and i want to tell her but i barly know her i only see her in the halls i really want to tell her but im afraid that if i tell her she will be like who are you.what should i do?

2006-10-29 11:50:57 · 12 answers · asked by alien_domination 2

how do I flirt with guys I am not the great,and aways get nervous and such..help plz

2006-10-29 11:50:12 · 2 answers · asked by carly 3

I love him so much. We've been together for 3yrs since 8th grade.
Lately he has been like really agressive and pushing me and stuff. But later he says he's sorry. I cant help cutting. It helps me deal with the pain but since ive started, i dont have any friends anymore and my family think im weird. I dont wanna see a shrink.

2006-10-29 11:49:59 · 25 answers · asked by Gothemo 1

i dont undersatnd if i askd tat last question was bad or not coul di get in troubel for askin such a question

2006-10-29 11:49:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok lets say person A knows person B likes him/her. And then person A starts starring at person B alot (at the hallways, in the classroom), and there's alos some playful eye flirting goin on....does this mean person A likes person B?

2006-10-29 11:49:28 · 15 answers · asked by dnice 1

I have a girlfriend who I have lived with for 3 years, we get along good half ot the time, the other times im either stressed out from her or I find myself looking at other girls. She loves me alot and I am not sure if I do as well, I am kinf of a fun guy who is very social while she is the opposite. I don't know if this relationship can last to marriage since our personalities don't really match. Should I try and work it out or end it?

2006-10-29 11:48:07 · 6 answers · asked by otp12 2

I wanted to know what I can do to get this girl that I am really feelin right now, I mean I dont know but I feel meeting has been a very big coincidence, are birthdays are on the same day, and lately we have been having deep conversations lately but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend now, but I keep on thinkin that she does want it because of many little hints like whats her favorite roses any help please

2006-10-29 11:47:27 · 2 answers · asked by essio16 1

ok when my ex and i broke up, we were NOT on speaking terms. I wont go into the whole story cuz its really long...but we havent talked for almost 4 months...he told everyone lies about me, saying he would never talk to me again because of the things he was telling ppl (That werent true) and now all of a sudden he emailed me! he's asking if i miss him and if i have a bf....and while he's doing this, his new gf (that he basically left me for) is living with him! i dont know wuts going on here....just some opinions would b nice cuz right now im really confused!

2006-10-29 11:46:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been trying to cheer up a good freind of mine who recently had a workplace accident that severed and crushed his middle, ring, and little finger on his left hand. They were too damaged to save, so now he's less three fingers. He's been getting on OK with physiotherapy, but that's not was has him down. He was engaged to his high school sweetheart, everything was planned for the marriage and even some down payments were made. She decided to end the relationship, gave the ring back, and moved back to her mother's. She explained to me later that she couldn't deal with Mark's (her boyfriends) injury. She told me in her words that "he is damaged goods now", and that she wouldn't want to spend her life with someone like that.

Since then my buddy (who in all other aspects in a funny, good looking guy) has been trying to find someone else but he believes that this new imperfection is hindering him.

I think it's of sad that people judge so much by apperance. Was she in the wrong ???

2006-10-29 11:46:47 · 8 answers · asked by LanceMiller77 2

ok so my ex dirty text me one time then he told me he was just bored (i thought hey we could talk about anything else if you were that bored) but anyway then he didnt dirty text for a while. all of a sudden he does it again and i moved two states away when we broke up so i doubt its a booty call.. i just wanted to know people's views on this

2006-10-29 11:46:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im the one that killed the relationship. I was 16 and I didnt care to much about anyone but my family. I cheated on him...lol. He is very interested in getting back with me. He knows Im a gr8 catch. Gorgeous, bio-chemistry major, going into dentistry, graduating next year, great personality, extremely friendly, gr8 job, gr8 style.. wow why as i single.. passing up offers I suppose. Im comfortable with him though.. so should i do the second chance?

2006-10-29 11:45:58 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ bARbIE ♥ 3

i kinda like the initial excitement, passion and when you first start falling in love. you wanna be with each other 24/7. then i wanna be a little bit independent, but still take care of my man and be open for him. just see sometimes it's hard to cross over cos it's been consuming and the guy sometimes thinks your letting go, and moving to someone else. gets jealous and possessive, and even a bit abusive, at least emotionally trying to cling on. do you ever find this?

2006-10-29 11:45:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17
Natanya is 16
Julie is 16
and Kasey is 17

Kasey & I are best friends
Natanya & Julie are best friends
Me & Natanya are friends

Natanya likes Kasey & Julie's older (23 yr old) brother Andrew.

I have a crush on Kasey & Julie's OTHER older brother who is 19. His name is David.

So should I tell Natanya that I like David since she knows what its like having a crush on Kasey & Julie's brother also? Or should I keep it to myself?

It's confusing though, because Andrew is actually hot. But David is just a cool guy, even though he is a little weird sometimes. And Natanya always says stuff like

"That would be like you and David going out"

2006-10-29 11:43:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend of 1 year, asked me to go to a party out of state for new year's eve. so my question is... would you rather spend new year's eve with ALL your family/ friends or your love one??

my boyfriend is making me feel bad... cuz i rather hang out with family and friends... but what would YOU do?

2006-10-29 11:43:47 · 15 answers · asked by booyah-baby 2

I'm intrested in this boy. He gives me all the signs hat he likes me. For example, we were at a school dance and he asked me too dance and we danced and he acted like he liked me the whole time! Then he'll come up to me and hug me for no reason. I like him alot, but there is this other girl that he looks like he's intrested in to. I want him to like me though! What should I do??

2006-10-29 11:43:23 · 6 answers · asked by hard to get 1

i'm not w/any one, i'm just asking my questions like i was with someone - with the one reading, i'm just trying to give u a better picture of wut i wunt throught that. i'm inpatiant and anxious about being with a guy, i wunt it......but i have nothing to lean on, nothing to let me no i am makeing progress. wut makes a guy not talk to me, how can i lead him on, just try to tell me wut i shud do ...........

2006-10-29 11:42:44 · 1 answers · asked by echer perros 2

I fell in love with this guy about 2 years ago, he was pretty nice to me, and I think he may have been interested, but my (now ex) friend sent him pestering emails about me and scared him off. We now go to different colleges, and I miss him like crazy! Someone PLEASE tell me what to do, I am seeing a psychiatrist right now because I am so depressed and lonely. I feel like I can never even like another guy again. I don't want to contact him again, though.

2006-10-29 11:42:37 · 2 answers · asked by jazzygirl15 3

trying to settle a debate with g/f i say all her male friends would have sex with her if she allowed it,keep in mind she is quite attractive,she says that they all are just her friends because they want to be her "friends"

2006-10-29 11:42:29 · 16 answers · asked by larryreallast 1

Im gonna talk to the girl i like, but i dont know what to say. Can someone plz tell me what to say, coz ive never spoken to her before. Shes in my p.e class and shes very shy.

2006-10-29 11:36:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

there's this guy i like the only thing is that we're really good friends...we're really close and i wouldn't wanna ruin our friendship by telling him how i feel...but there's one thing that i'm not suree about...a couple of my friends keep telling me that whenever we're around each other they can tell he sort of likes me but i don't know what to think cause he's never said anything to me...so my question is should i tell him how i feel and risk our friendship or should i just keep it to myself? please no mean or rude answers..this is something thats really bothering me and i could really use your help

2006-10-29 11:36:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous