ok when my ex and i broke up, we were NOT on speaking terms. I wont go into the whole story cuz its really long...but we havent talked for almost 4 months...he told everyone lies about me, saying he would never talk to me again because of the things he was telling ppl (That werent true) and now all of a sudden he emailed me! he's asking if i miss him and if i have a bf....and while he's doing this, his new gf (that he basically left me for) is living with him! i dont know wuts going on here....just some opinions would b nice cuz right now im really confused!
2006-10-29 11:46:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't answer him....my opinion? He's an @sshole that wants his cake and eat it, too. Too bad he didn't realize what he had when he had it....now he's betraying his new gf. If he left you for her, he will do it to her and it will never stop.
2006-10-29 11:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by circa 1980 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's regretting his decision. Don't go back unless you want more of the same. Let him keep digging his grave. In the end, you'll end up looking better than he will. Keep those emails and print them out. If he keeps it up, messing with you and being a d*ck, give them to his new girlfriend. Or tell him that if he doesn't stop lying about you to everyone and doesn't update the information by telling them the truth, you're going to give the emails to her and show them to everyone else. If you respond to the emails, it will encourage him continue. He's lying about you to divert the attention off of himself. But you could also respond by asking why he's lied to everyone about you and that it hurt your feelings and hope that he replies with an answer that you can use for the above reasons.
But best thing to do is probably to ignore him. It takes a lot of energy to do the above things and the truth always comes out in the end. But still print the emails, you never know.
2006-10-29 19:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by LetMeBe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm well I dont know the whole story, or what he is saying about you, but I would ignore the email. I mean you havent talked to him in 4 months right? And the best way to move on would be not to talk to him. And i doubt you want drama with the other gf, cause they always find out...its like a six sense with them. But thats what i think.
2006-10-29 19:50:08 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose HIM!!!!! My ex-wife told "our friends" stuff that wasn't true about me, and now we're not friends any more. And now, she wants to act like we are "friends." We can never be friends. Once someone lies, that's it. You cannot trust someone who would tell lies about you!!!!! Especially when you cannot defend yourself. How can you defend yourself against a lie, anyway? You can't. Someone who would tell lies against another person just to make the other person look bad is not worth the smegma under my foreskin!!!!!
2006-10-29 19:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by Virginia V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He misses the good parts of you, but he is obviously also finding out some good parts of someone else.
Ignore the e-mail and forget about him.
2006-10-29 19:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Curious1usa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print the e-mail and show it to the "live in" girlfriend.
Halloween is a very good time to get back at "BAD" people!
2006-10-29 19:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by LN has3 zjc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are taken and that it is his loss and remind him his new woman lives with him and you hope he's having fun. Tell him life is awesome and you are glad he broke up with you and gave you the chance to have fun.
~Best wishes~
2006-10-29 19:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just took him this long to realize that he had something wonder full with you, that he wishes he could get back. this new girl is most likely treating him for what he's Worth (trash).
2006-10-29 20:00:49 · answer #8 · answered by The long Road Home 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE wants to see if u still have feelings for him but you don't RIGHT!!
Just Kidding forget about him
2006-10-29 19:51:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him no i don't miss you. none of your business if i got a boyfriend. and hows your girlfriend? after that stop talking to him. good luck.
2006-10-29 19:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋