Singles & Dating - 29 October 2006

I am told women are more emotional, we search for different qualities when it comes down to having a good time and finding someone to enjoy spending time with. It's hard for me to "click" with someone. And I thought I found it in this one guy. And he told me loves hanging out with me, but he doesn't want me to be "clingy". I love hanging out with him, what is going on? Is it easier for men to find random girls and ENJOY just chilling with them (no sex)? TELL ME!!

2006-10-29 10:50:08 · 2 answers · asked by Gina C 1

i dont want to use a pickup line,i know how to talk to women,but i kinda want to check her out to see if she has a ring on or whatever. :P :p

2006-10-29 10:50:07 · 7 answers · asked by forest lover 2

2006-10-29 10:49:15 · 23 answers · asked by B i n g o 4

he also posted his profile on a match.com type deal. he says he loves me!!!!!!!! I have asked him to seek counseling, also he says I am the best sexual partner he has ever had ,I never refuse him any type of one on one sex ,what should I do , I am so hurt and confused.

2006-10-29 10:48:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, me and my boyfriend have a good time in bed. but theres one problem, i perfer the slower, softly softly type approach whereas he prefers more harder and faster. Im ok with that but it would be nice if we could do it half my way and half his way or sometimes way i perfers and other times way he perfers. Ive told him i prefers softer and slower and he manages it for a whole 30 seconds or something lol but usually ends up going back to how he likes. I dont realy know what to do, he is the only guy ive ever slept with and sometimes its frustrating that i dont know what it would be like with another guy. do they all like fast and hard lol? am i just not sexualy compatible with my partner? or am i just asking for something no guys like to do? what do u think? please answer!

2006-10-29 10:46:12 · 17 answers · asked by jiveybaby 1

Ok so im a freshman, and i have my first boyfriend. we have been going out for almost three weeks and i am a cheerleader nad dont have football games every friday night so we never really get ot hang out. this past friday we did go see a movie with a group of friends we took up to smller rows of seats and most of hte guys sat in the row in front and me my bf and 2girls nad 1 guy sat behind them the three other ppl left the movie becuase hte movie was really borring it was just me and my boyfriend. now him being my first i have never kissed before. When do i knw oits the right time? i dont really know what to do and im confused i really love him and he tells me the same but what do i need ot do??

2006-10-29 10:46:09 · 5 answers · asked by Ann 1

2006-10-29 10:44:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or do you feel that this is malnipulative?

2006-10-29 10:44:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sexy,
It's taken me several days to figure out what to say. I guess we have a lot of distance between us and, unfortunately, very little free time on my part. Somtimes I can't help but feel maybe you have gotten pretty serious about seeing me, but I haven't been able to keep up. You usually contact me several times each day either by email, text, phone, or chat, and I am running out of energy to reply. Your special e-greetings, though incredibly nice, are not necessary.

I just don't think we don't need to keep in touch every single day. When we have this much physical distance between us, there is not much to talk everyday about because we don't really interact, unless something extrordinary happens during the day. And, if you give me a chance to miss you, maybe I will start thinking that this is more of a long-term thing. I was thinking maybe we could get in touch once or twice a week instead of what we're doing now. Don't get me wrong, I really enjoy the chats & things, but I cannot continue to do that every day.

So, I guess I will still be seeing you on Wednesday (unless "friend" comes along!) and I will talk to you sometime before then to make sure nothing has changed the plans.

Have a wonderful remainder of the weekend,

Pumpkin

2006-10-29 10:43:39 · 29 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1

There is this boy in my class ,I like him and he likes me.I am shy.what do I do????

2006-10-29 10:43:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well I like this really shy guy and I think he likes me too, and I really want something to happen between us. I feel like I'm keeping all this in. Should I talk to my mom? Can't she make things better?

2006-10-29 10:41:57 · 15 answers · asked by lizzer190 1

what do i do?
i havent met any of his friend and we have been dating for a year and three motnhs now. is that not rude!?? and yesterday we went to dinner in his old town and he called his frnd to say hi and im just sitting there....

and im not going to be in town this weekend
and he made plans to hang out with all his guy and girl friends this weekend.
does that not suck or what?

i dont knw what to do. i dont want to seem like a female dog but how do i ask him?

i mean ive asked him already why i havent met them and i never get a FULL answer... idk... help please.

2006-10-29 10:41:56 · 10 answers · asked by akshdklhfkl<3 1

I am in highschool and have been dating a guy for over a year now. I've met my match in him and we've talked about moving in together once we are out of highschool and (hopefully) going to the same college. His mother however is very controlling and as polite and as nice as I am to her, I get the vibe that she doesn't like me. It might have to do me living in the city and coming from a middle class family whereas they live in the perfect suburbs and have money to squander, whatever the reason even though my boyfriend and I have been dating for so long this weekend she complained I didn't invite her to my birthday party though I DID give her a verbal invite. When I wasn't around my boyfriend told me that she yelled and screamed at him for awhile about me and he of course defended me. Now he is grounded for a month and can not even talk to me until the month is up. I feel like its my fault that I should have done something more, but I don't know how to deal with her. What should I do?

2006-10-29 10:41:16 · 3 answers · asked by ~peace 1

There is this boy in my class,I know he likes me and he knows I like him.I am to shy to ask him out.What do I do?

2006-10-29 10:39:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been chatting with my old neighbor for a few months now and we email each other ever few weeks.
Though my internet was off for a while and I gave him my #, but he is very far from a computer person so it took him a couple of weeks to respond.
So he gave me his number if I needed it and said "i hope you get this email, oh well I'm sure you'll let me know if you do." He replied a week ago so should I give him a call today?

2006-10-29 10:38:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this guy "brad". i told him i liked him and he liked that. but then my friend kinda led him on that i was ugly and im not. so now he says he doesnt like me and he did before. he even likes my butt. what do i do now? i need a guys opinion....

2006-10-29 10:37:59 · 21 answers · asked by ososweet92 2

2006-10-29 10:35:12 · 21 answers · asked by iyagbaye o 1

so i thought my ex boyfriend and I were trying to work through our diffrences, build up some trust and get back together when the time was right but just recetnly there was a rumor going around that he was hooking up (making out) w/ this other girl. I confronted him about it and he said it was true.I then walked away from him. That same da, We happen to be @ Regionals so i saw them together the whole meet. The entire time, they were always at each others side, touching each other softly and he even gave her a kiss on the cheek/head a couple of times. they're not offically together though.
Since confronting him about it, I have not heard from him.
Do you think he has moved on or is there something behind this?

2006-10-29 10:34:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok me and my bf have been dating for a lil ' while now, and i've only talked to his mom like 3 times...he has a sister and she had heard some rumors around at school and so she told his mom and none of these were true...so now she disaproves of me and won't allowed us to date but we r and she doesn't know it...i really think we could stay together for a long time... and as of rite now his sister i havent even talked to her yet...i just dont know why ppl believe everything they hear....whar should i do, should i break up with him? should i try talking to his mom and sister? or jst leave it be? should we keep our relationship a secret from his parents....help im confused.

2006-10-29 10:34:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

well i love this guy over internet should i carry on loving him or should i leave him because internet love is false?

2006-10-29 10:33:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i like this girl and i think she likes me, we are both 14 and go to the same school. when and how should i ask her out??????????

2006-10-29 10:33:23 · 8 answers · asked by hoa t 1

what if you and your wife decided to separated for a while, about 2 years to be exact. you are having a fling with a co-worker and want to think things out by yourself, and want to alone. you and your wife was still seeing each other and sleeping together as well. it was your idea to stay this way, not your wife. about two years she date someone else and get pregnant by the other guy, she tell you it your baby and you beleive it and the two of you get back together. before the baby first birthday, you find out the baby not yours...what do you do? think of the woman you once love?

2006-10-29 10:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3

because we were talking about how i can't go to his house because his roommate doesn't like me, but he was going to be gone this weekend and my ex still didn't want to have me over not even set foot in his house! I was real mad about that so i said "you're not welcome in my house either, get out" he wouldn't give me a reason why he didn't want me there, and now he's real pissed as in i wonder if he'll ever talk to me again.

i'm just wondering if i'm overreacting?

2006-10-29 10:31:37 · 13 answers · asked by coochie1 2

I have tried normal masterbastion!!!

2006-10-29 10:31:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

my bf, BILLY and i are having stressful times in our relationship due to my older brother and his conflicts. anytime BILLY calls the house for me, my brother constantly hangs up on him anytime he does. i believe my brother is just being a big brother and is a lil bit over protective, but BILLY believes it is my brother disrrespecting me. So now the respect i once had with my boyfriend is slipping away quickly. I realize I have to take a stand somewhere as far as what my brother does to the people i am involved with but i dont wanna make it seem like im choosing BILLY's side over my own brother...And my questions are: Is my older brother really disrespecting me in anyway like my man said? How can i get the respect back that my boyfriend and i once had? And how can i fix this whole thing!!!???

2006-10-29 10:31:05 · 13 answers · asked by Tee 1

I like this guy at school, and I flirt alot with him. I am a little worried to ask him out though, because in the past, when I asked a guy out, I was usually rejected and my feelings always get hurt. I just embarress myself, do you think I should just wait to see if he asks me out? Do you believe that if he liked me, he'd ask me out?

2006-10-29 10:30:51 · 4 answers · asked by katelynjohofstetter 1

it happend 2 me so i believe it ......what do u lot think??

2006-10-29 10:30:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I use to only like girls for their looks and I considered it love, it was really lust now that I look back! Any way I started having relations with a friend and she's going back to her home country in December, I like her but that's it. Before we hooked up I met another one of her friends and I thought she was smoking hot. So I ask could we have a threesome and she told me no. I just really ask for the threesome so I could have sex w/ her hot friend! Then last night I went to the bars and seen all these very attractive youngs ladies in sexy halloween outfits and alI could think about is how bad I wanted to have a sexy girl like the ones I saw. I know personality is very important and intellect is all so key to me. The girl I'm sleeping w/ has a b/f in her country and she says we're just having fun.but I don't think she's nearly has hot has her friend. But I really am thinking about just one time going after a girl just for looks! It makes me feel kind of bad, so I'm I shallow?

2006-10-29 10:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3

if not to me then what would you read and to whom and why???...just for fun everyone ;0)

2006-10-29 10:28:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

what would you like him to do or say?

2006-10-29 10:28:17 · 14 answers · asked by dodgers 1