what if you and your wife decided to separated for a while, about 2 years to be exact. you are having a fling with a co-worker and want to think things out by yourself, and want to alone. you and your wife was still seeing each other and sleeping together as well. it was your idea to stay this way, not your wife. about two years she date someone else and get pregnant by the other guy, she tell you it your baby and you beleive it and the two of you get back together. before the baby first birthday, you find out the baby not yours...what do you do? think of the woman you once love?
2006-10-29 10:32:32 · 8 answers · asked by birdsdafly 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get the baby a DNA test to confirm it is mine or the other guy who screwed her. If it was mine I would end up with no hair like Homer Simpson.
2006-10-29 10:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one! It all depends on how much you love the woman. Personally I think you were tricked into supporting sombody elses kid. (All this is just personal opinion, okay?) I don't think I could continue to love a woman who deceived me in such a manner. But then again, being separated for that long, I would have been more definitive about whether or not I wanted to stay married to her in the first place and sooner than two years!
2006-10-29 18:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by the_pharaoh109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should have put all the cards on the table. If she was unsure who was the baby's father then she should have said so.
I think I would have to leave. I know it can be hard to be honest about something like that, but in the long run it is best.
2006-10-29 18:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ant O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you have feelings for the child and it thinks your the daddy. Couldn't it just be that you forgive and forget and move on? things happen. Depends on how much I loved her at that point. Has she been good this last year and you've gotten close and probably stay.
2006-10-29 18:37:21 · answer #4 · answered by butch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest problem is that she had unprotected sex which is not excuseable for any reason for me I would see a doctor first and a lawyer next
2006-10-29 18:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound harsh, but she would be on her own.I don't like being lied to and if someone lied to me about something that serious. That would be the end of that relationship.
2006-10-29 18:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be really pissed, but i would still accept her and the child. this would take time though. and if i fould out that the only reason she's back with me is because she wants me to take care of the baby with her, then forget it. she's gone.
2006-10-29 18:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by Wagr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's on her own.
2006-10-29 18:34:03 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋