ok me and my bf have been dating for a lil ' while now, and i've only talked to his mom like 3 times...he has a sister and she had heard some rumors around at school and so she told his mom and none of these were true...so now she disaproves of me and won't allowed us to date but we r and she doesn't know it...i really think we could stay together for a long time... and as of rite now his sister i havent even talked to her yet...i just dont know why ppl believe everything they hear....whar should i do, should i break up with him? should i try talking to his mom and sister? or jst leave it be? should we keep our relationship a secret from his parents....help im confused.
2006-10-29 10:34:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IT WAS TO LONG FOR ME TO READ BUT JUST KNOW THAT YOUR WITH HIM NOT HIM AND HIS MOTHER SO HOW CARES IF SHE LIKES YOU.
2006-10-29 10:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
doesnt it suck when people get into your buisness? girl i sympathize for you but what i would do is confront your man and tell him i would like to talk to your mom and your sister and set the record straight about me just so they know that none of those things people are saying about me is true because i feel that as a young lady i need to address these issues out of the respect i have for myself and your family especially if you really like this guy you never know what the future holds .......good luck o.k. and i hope you take my advice some people might say it doesnt matter what his family thinks but trust me in the very end it DOES......E
2006-10-29 10:45:23 · answer #2 · answered by ellie_m1123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Get a new hotter boyfriend. Sounds like a drama family so there will be more drama to follow. Sounds like your too young to have a boyfriend anyways. Just date and study. If you go to college, you will not want a boyfriend around anyways.
2006-10-29 10:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by mrcarl92807 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd try talking to his mom.You don't owe any explanation to his sister,cause once his mom knows the truth,what she thinks won't even matter.Tell her that rumors were said,& none of them are true.Just get to know her more.Good luck.
2006-10-29 11:08:55 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what i did when my ex girlfriends mom didnt like me because i got in trouble but i really was a good person. i talked to her and told her about me and how i was a good person and trusting guy so just talk to his mom it worked for me.
2006-10-29 10:42:39 · answer #5 · answered by derek g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like she doesn't exist.
The choice is for you and your "other half" ... not for her. If she tries to get herself involved then ask your boyfriend nicely to ensure his mother gets uninvolved... Its none of her business....
Really...
... Even if she confronts you face to face, just pretend she doesn't exist and blank her completely.
2006-10-29 10:39:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to his parents yet and if they understand between you two then tell them you were going out for a long time and you didn't tell because you were afraid of their reaction. if they disapprove, talk to your bf about it and tell him to try to talk to his parents about it. his parents shouldn't stand your way and he's gonna do something about it if he loves you. i hope i helped =D
2006-10-29 10:39:40 · answer #7 · answered by iloveducks_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relationship is between you and your bf. his family can accept you or not it really isnt your problem as long as he treats you well
2006-10-29 10:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do not give up , and do not break up with him ,be brave and strong and talk to his mother and sister .
2006-10-29 10:40:38 · answer #9 · answered by MIKE IVANA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2006-10-29 10:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by Blackdog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋