I use to only like girls for their looks and I considered it love, it was really lust now that I look back! Any way I started having relations with a friend and she's going back to her home country in December, I like her but that's it. Before we hooked up I met another one of her friends and I thought she was smoking hot. So I ask could we have a threesome and she told me no. I just really ask for the threesome so I could have sex w/ her hot friend! Then last night I went to the bars and seen all these very attractive youngs ladies in sexy halloween outfits and alI could think about is how bad I wanted to have a sexy girl like the ones I saw. I know personality is very important and intellect is all so key to me. The girl I'm sleeping w/ has a b/f in her country and she says we're just having fun.but I don't think she's nearly has hot has her friend. But I really am thinking about just one time going after a girl just for looks! It makes me feel kind of bad, so I'm I shallow?
2006-10-29 10:30:27 · 6 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shallow isn't the word I'd use. More like horny.
2006-10-29 10:35:34 · answer #1 · answered by beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah.... YEAH. Every word you wrote showed how shallow you are. It's not just the situation, but how your mind works in general. There is nothing you said that shows any woman should EVER sleep with you. You need to grow up and learn what is really important. I bet you are nowhere as hot as the people you are lusting after. It's clear that you have your priorities way out of whack. My hope for you is that over the next few years you have some life experiences that teach you what is important. It's time to grow up.
2006-10-29 18:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Vesdog!,
It sounds like you just want to play the field. You aren't held down to this girl. She's going to be boinking her boyfriend in her home country pretty soon. So, just go for it.
Also, you need to check out the Tom Leykis radio show to learn more about what you should do. You definitely need to learn a little Leykis-101 to get more women in your life. Find out if this show is broadcast in your area. Here's his web site:
http://www.blowmeuptom.com
I hope that this helps you. Good luck and happy hunting.
--Rick
2006-10-29 18:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the girl you're sleeping with has a bf then that gives you the freedom to sleep with whoever you want. Please wear a condom everytime and don't worry about being shallow. You're a guy and you're sewing your oats. When the right girl comes along you'll know. Please make sure you have your intentions known before you sleep with a girl though if you're not serious she needs to know so you don't break her heart.
2006-10-29 18:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ruth Less RN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not shallow, your immature,you haven't learned about true love or relationships yet or you haven't been hurt yet that's all.your not bad you just don't know any better and you may be under the age of 29 and stll partying.let me tell you from experian ce what goes around comes around.
2006-10-29 18:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by saxaphonist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are, at least you admit it. I say, If you like a girl because of her looks, then go for it. Do what you gotta do.
2006-10-29 18:35:20 · answer #6 · answered by Bibi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋