what do i do?
i havent met any of his friend and we have been dating for a year and three motnhs now. is that not rude!?? and yesterday we went to dinner in his old town and he called his frnd to say hi and im just sitting there....
and im not going to be in town this weekend
and he made plans to hang out with all his guy and girl friends this weekend.
does that not suck or what?
i dont knw what to do. i dont want to seem like a female dog but how do i ask him?
i mean ive asked him already why i havent met them and i never get a FULL answer... idk... help please.
2006-10-29 10:41:56 · 10 answers · asked by akshdklhfkl<3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ready for the brick wall?? The punch in the stomach?? The kick in the head??
He's ashamed of you....
Now, no matter how much you want him to TELL you in so many words, he's NEVER going to do it! So save your heartache & listen to Shayla...
See, men r judged by their job, the money they make, the car they drive, and the women they keep. Look at yourself r there any improvments that need to happen?? Do u wear even just a little bit of makeup??{then u should} is your hair a nice color?? { men luv hi-lites} do u wear perfume?? {u should alwayz smell nice}r u dressing cute but sexy?? r u little chubby??{dont eat as much as him}
If u can honestly say that you've got the "girl thing" down then it's something else. One thing to remember is guys like girls...it's that simple.
If u r acting/looking like his "pal" then he's going to treat u like one..If you r looken like his "lady" then he will treat u like one.
If u need a makeover, then do it!! Look around at other couples...is he treating u like that?? then get to work dear..
I don't care what anyone sayz....men like beautiful things! and good luck...but if this relationship is not fulfilling YOUR needs...move on to the next one..where you are a part of your luvs "gang" of friends. I was in the same situation as u too...
hugs from Shayla
2006-10-29 10:56:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mee-OW =^..^= 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he really does not want you around his friends then its possible he is hiding something. If you don't go to the same school its easier for someone to cheat on another. I'd say "Goodbye" and find someone who's so proud of you he'd want to show you off to everyone. On the other hand, he might just be nervous about what you'd think of his friends. You should sit him down and ask for a straight answer, "Are you ashamed of me?" "Are you ashamed of your friends?" or even the heart breaker, "Are you cheating on me?" Its best to use a serious tone when asking these things. AND DON"T let him get away with not even introducing you to his friends! Goodluck, I hope it works out
2006-10-29 18:50:43 · answer #2 · answered by ~peace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know to you it may seem weird that he's not introducing you to his friends after dating for this amount of time, but mayb he doesnt really want you to meet his friends. im a girl myself, but i do know that guys would make up any excuse to not hav their girlfriends meet their friends because of the awkwardness and other concerns they hav. it doesnt happen in all relationships, but it does happen. the reason you may not get a full answer is because he doesnt feel he needs to tell you the reasons because to him it may be self-explanatory. seriously, dont worry about it. you should just let him speak to his friends and you speak to your friends. he may not be fully committed to your relationship either in the sense that he may not hav told his friends about you because he doesnt feel he needs to. he also may feel that he spends too much time with you and wants to spend more time with his friends like a regular bloke/guy. i know one thing guys dont like is spending too much time with their girlfriends because after a while it gets kinda boring. mayb the break for the weekend is good for you two because it would give you both some space.
2006-10-29 18:59:35 · answer #3 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the part of him that met you is not the part he met his friends and feels that if these two groups mesh, it would be very awkward.
Maybe try saying, you wont judge him for who his friends are.
2006-10-29 18:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by leikevy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This relationship sounds unhealthy for you. Considering his overall behavior, you need to end the relationship. Your first priority is your mental well-being. Contact a good friend or family member who will help you make this transition. Please take care of yourself.
2006-10-29 19:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by Carolanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth would you want to be with a man who was too embarrased to introduce you to his friends.
There is something very seriously wrong with your relationship if you don't know his friends after THAT long.
2006-10-29 18:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by iliketorideigohago 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if he dosent intrueduce you to them then just start off trying to be friends with the girls first
2006-10-29 18:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by derek g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he doesn't want you to meet his friends it probly means that he is cheating and that is why he don't want you to meet his friends i would have dumped him a long time ago
2006-10-29 18:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him. it will only get worse. he doesn't like you for a long-term relationship, he only likes you because you pamper him when it's convenient for him to allow it.
2006-10-29 18:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by eyebtired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE FULL F IT
2006-10-29 18:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by take it or leave it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋