i am almost 15 and have been going out with my first boyfriend for a little over a month. we had been really good friends before we started going out. he is in marching band on the bus yesterday he was apparently sitting by his ex talking to her/flirting with her the whole time. i have been told this from many different people and do believe it. then on her xanga she was talking about how much fun she had with him then he commented her saying it was great and then said "love you bye" in the comment.
does he not think i can see it??
should i give him a second chance or dump him?
please help!
2006-10-29 11:55:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not really worried about the bus i mean its the bus stuff like that happens
but what bothers me is that he said "love you" in the comment
2006-10-29 12:03:37 · update #1
and i do really like him
2006-10-29 12:03:48 · update #2
Dump him fast! He isn't committed to you in the slightest if he was doing what everyone says he was. Every girl (and guy) deserves to be treated with loyalty and respect, the minute their significant other stops doing that its time to kick them to the curb and move on.
2006-10-29 17:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh No He DidNot! Girl You Dump That Childish Boy As Soon As You Can. Don't Be Putting Up With That At All!
2006-10-29 19:58:32 · answer #2 · answered by TheGayDave 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him, tell him you saw it, but i would be bitchy or anything. I would just try to be as calm as possible. Maybe he still has feelings for her either way you need to find out and the only way to do that is to talk to him. if he says he doesnt have feelings i would give him a second chance, and just see if he keeps doing things like that, but if it happens again then dump him. im sure you could find better.
2006-10-29 20:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him I would give him the benefit of the doubt and give him a second chance. But keep an eye out for that other girl. She may have been flirting really bad...guys can't help themselves
2006-10-29 20:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, okay okay this is a shock for girls and this mostly happens to girls at the least once at your age group. you need to talk to him see whats up dont bring up the rumors he'll won't admit to them next tell him what you saw on xanga he will say that he didn't meen it that he loves you then what you have to say is why did you say it if you knew i would see it and it hurts the next part is something that happens by it's self he'll either hang up or he'll find a remark to make it sound like he doesn't like his ex anymore thenit's up to you do you want him if it's going to be like that or want a new boyfriend that wont flirt with any one but you... it's up to you!! good luck!!!!!
2006-10-29 20:03:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kisses From Paris, I love you! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if the guy is opening flirting with the ex then dump him and move on you can find someone better.
2006-10-29 19:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already thinking about things like this....then it's not good...
He is probably trying to make you jealous about her...and it's his way of trying to get out of the relationship with you without making himself look like scum.....
once a cheat always a cheat.......
Move on and don't look back or waste your time thinking you did something wrong girl....
2006-10-29 20:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Heather O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely move on. You're almost 15. You have so much more time to find other fish in the sea.
2006-10-29 19:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by elixirgrapefruit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has no respect for you at all. dump him and find somebody you dont have to worry about doing stuff like that to you
2006-10-29 19:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by goodgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the cheating *****......he don't worth it, move on.
Best wishes and good luck
2006-10-29 20:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by sherry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋