Singles & Dating - 25 October 2006

We've become very serious over the past few years and have talked about marriage. One of the problems is he's 30 and has full custody of his kids. That's where his priority is now and I fully understand and respect it. I'm 23 and have started started looking at my life and what I want. And I'm pretty sure, it's not a relationship and a family right now. I've picked up hobbies and volunteering and with work, we don't see eachother as much anymore. I love him to death but I don't want to be in a relationship right now and we've started to grow apart. We've broken up a few times and have always gone back to eachother and I think it was because of convience. I guess I'm just asking if there's a way I can explain to him how I feel and if I can lessen the heart break for him because this time I don't want to go back. I want to concentrait on my life and see what comes my way in every aspect.

2006-10-25 17:21:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, so I've been working with this guy for a few months now (he doesn't actually work in my office, just for the same company) and we've basically become I guess what you could call casual friends. From the way he looks at me I can tell he is attracted to me and I know he knows I am attracted to him. We went out to lunch once to discuss work, but we didn't even really talk about work for more than 5 minutes. We have been talking by email and texting lately and he called me the other day to meet with him for more work stuff. I asked him to tell me what day and he chose Friday after i got off work. I said I could meet him at one of our offices and he said we could go have drinks. What do you think his intentions are? Is this a date? If he just wanted it to be strictly work related would he have chosen to hang out with me on a Friday night?

2006-10-25 17:20:36 · 10 answers · asked by flwrpwr17 1

I am 12 and I like this one girl at church she is also 12 i relly want to tell her but 1.I dont now what to say and 2. i am scared can you please tell me what to do.

2006-10-25 17:18:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do all girls like muscular men? Why do tv all all media tend to show that girls are hypnotized by muscular man? And almost sacrifice everything to such men easily?

2006-10-25 17:18:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

17yrs old with a 7inch penis. Is it normal or too big?

2006-10-25 17:18:07 · 14 answers · asked by Tim 2

why is it every time my bf starts a conversation about sex i get nervous and scared,even when he tries to kiss me or come too much nearly
he said that we have to talk about it and that there r many facts about sex that i dunna and he wants ti discuss it and thats it is ok for me to talk about it and ask questions about sex to him cuz he is my bf and he is older than me
b4 a week he tried to hold me and start making out but i refused
he said thats it is ok and he respects me and he will never do something am not cool with but that doesnt mean that i should leave u like that
he said that he needs to help me break the ice btw us and the frightened in my heart
he said that i should give my slef a break and try to do it and that he will be so careful and gentle to me and he will do it slowly and he wants me to go to his place and try it
am 17 and he is 20
am sure that he loves me as much as i love him but am not sure what should i do
i wanna do it but am scared

2006-10-25 17:18:00 · 9 answers · asked by aha i wanna know 2

Okay so be realistic here...we all know that supermodels are hot but there just aren't that many girls like that out there. So of the sample of women you've been with, seen, or whatever else, what is the best body type?

2006-10-25 17:17:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-25 17:15:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-10-25 17:14:47 · 11 answers · asked by TR 1

i want to write al letter for smeone i love but the problem is i don't speak englsih verry well can you help to write it in a nice way i just want to tell him that he mean a lot to me and that i didn't tell him that i love him in fear of losing him.. please can u write some word like this for me if you don't mind please because he is going to travel out side the country and i want him to know that i love him Thxxxx

2006-10-25 17:14:17 · 11 answers · asked by blair 1

I have this boyfriend who has been with me for almost a year. We have a pretty good relationship and make love pretty often. But lately I saw some porn videos in his handphone and it kinds of disturb me. I know that its normal for guys to view these and its not like he is an addict or anything, but what I dont get is what is so fancinating with those videos?

2006-10-25 17:14:16 · 17 answers · asked by serene 3

I'm not here to get blasted or anything cause I know it's not right so cut that out now. Here's the thing we're both girls, and she 's 15 and I'm 19. I've told her several times that we'll wait until she's 18, but it's hurts her not being with me and she rubs it in my face every chance she can get (so female). And I really care about her and I have her best interest at heart, and I'm willing to wait, but I can't stand to see her cry over me and it's worse, cause it's over soemthing that's out of my hands. So what should I do?

2006-10-25 17:13:36 · 6 answers · asked by conflicted 1

I think it's weird that he likes to stare at my body, but he does it. Like if I'm wearing a short-sleeved top he'll stare at my arms and my beauty mark on my arm.And if I'm wearing a shirt that kind of rides up w/ low rise jeans he'll stare at my lower back...I don't know if he likes me or what.

2006-10-25 17:09:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was recently insulted by an jerk in one of my classes. i decided to talk to my "crush" about it. and so basically he's always staring at me and we've only talked in real life twice, but i decided to talk to him. and this is what he said when i told him:
yea im going to talk to him about that and make sure he never says that to u ever again. He said one bullshit thing to me once so i wiped out my wetbag mexican jokes. dont worry I will handle it next time i see him. If he ever does it again tell him to come talk to me, and trust me he will then shut up.

and today he came up to me and started talking just out of the blue. ne never did that before, so why is he changing?

what's does this all mean? does it seem like he might like me? how can u tell?

2006-10-25 17:07:23 · 7 answers · asked by Maria18 2

ok, i want an honest serious 20 something yr old men to answer this. i'm 20 yrs old and still a virgin. just waiting for the right guy. what do you personally think of this. i know it wierds some guys out and view me as virgin mary. would you be willing to wait on a girl till shes ready if you loved her enough? or even only liked her enough?

2006-10-25 17:07:13 · 5 answers · asked by n_need_of_help 2

It is fun when the girl can take over and go crazy, u women know what u like!!!

2006-10-25 17:06:58 · 11 answers · asked by thesilkysmoove 1

I once had a buddy who could get a woman to show him her bare boobs within about five to ten minutes of first meeting, WITHOUT him even bringing up the subject. Sometimes these random women would even initiate to go with him to find a place to uhm, play lollipop, if you get my drift. How the heck did he do that? I don't think I will ever figure this one out. He was just an average looking skinny guy, and kind of hickish. He wasn't giving them money, or anything else. The women weren't prostitutes. It was not mardi gras either. Best I can figure was he just had some sort of invisible charisma that only women can detect and it drives them crazy. Maybe part of it was his tattoos too? I dunno.

Ladies, any thoughts?

2006-10-25 17:01:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am almost 18 and my bf is 20
i really like him and i want him and he wants me
i live by my own cuz my parents r in france but yet he never went up to my apartment or even asked me to but b4 2 weeks he asked me to move out to his place and that he loves me and cares about me and doesnt wanna leave me any more cuz it is dangerouse in my age to live alone but the problem is we never had sex and now we r goin to sleep in the same bed i wanna move with him but the idea of having sex scares me he said that our first night will be spicial and he is preparing a surprise for me and that i should not be nervous
(we have been together since a year and almose a half

2006-10-25 16:59:29 · 12 answers · asked by aha i wanna know 2

me in this guy was in a relationship i was told by everyone from the start not to mess with him cuz he cant commit to one person ne way he ended up cheating on me but i left town to b with my ex he called me all the time when i was there ne way i ended up coming back to town and i wanted to b with him so i said well lets just b friends with benefits so ne way mabey like 3 days a week i go stay with him he constantly wants me there and tells me i love and i know i love hiim but i cant commit to him because im afraid that if i say u cant b with noone but me and he does cheat on me ill be devastated but if i say and act like it dont bother me if he is with someone else then it wont hurt as bad cuz where not commited when actually even the thought of him with anyone else kills me but im also afraid if i tell its gotta b me or i wont see u no more he might not choice me and want him no matter what what should i do

2006-10-25 16:58:41 · 4 answers · asked by mystical 2

2006-10-25 16:57:28 · 13 answers · asked by uchieaja 1

ok guys i want to know what you really want from a girl... bc in my experience you all say u want one thing but choose another, why is it that you can't see a good thing right in front of your face but then when its gone you want it

2006-10-25 16:56:34 · 14 answers · asked by Danielle 1

Hey y'all! This is for teenagers who work in fast food joints and restuarants to business men and women. Do you have a little more pep in your step and are you a little more eager to go to work when you work with someone who you click with or are attracted to or flirt with?? I know I do. I just wanted some opinions on this subject. I know it is a big no-no to date in the workplace, and also sexual harrassment is a big NO-NO, I am just talking about friendly flirting, nothing more. So, do y'all enjoy it? Does it make you like going to work more?? What about if you work with people you aren't attracted to ( and I'm not saying they have to be good looking, I'm just talking about you are attracted to their personality, sense of humor, etc. and there is a connection) does that make you less happy to go into work??


THANKS!! :)

Basically do you enjoy your job more if it's a sucky job but you have fun with your attractive co-workers or do you not enjoy it more?

2006-10-25 16:53:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

once someone break your heart so hard that it felt like it shattered in to millions of tiny shards of glass and it makes you feel like you are living in hell......ok my quesiton is would you choose death to end this pain quicky or would you live with it and hope that it heals? please state age please and don't simply answer the question comment on it please .........thx

2006-10-25 16:51:43 · 23 answers · asked by confused 3

plz people tell me how to talk to a girl or approach her and what all things do girls like ? i've many girls around me i tried to convince one but she left mecos she told she dint like the way i spoke 2 her.

2006-10-25 16:51:05 · 3 answers · asked by dragoondranzer_tigerclaw 1

i really like this dude, and he is just exactly like me. we r 'bf and gf'. whenever i c him my stomach gets in a knot but i am happy. i want to c him all the time. when i'm with him he matters to me so much and when i'm not i wish i was. i miss him 1 minute after i see him, but i don't really understand love so is this it? i'm always thinking about him, even doodling his name on everything. i would do anything for him but there are a lot of ppl i'd do anything for. is this real love? mmmk that's it, bye bye.
p.s: thanx frankie c. on my other quetion, it made sense and helped a lot. also thanx to sum1 else whose name is hard to type. heheehee. thnks 2 skull also.

2006-10-25 16:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by mary-jane 2

2006-10-25 16:44:27 · 2 answers · asked by Jason C 1

How the hell in your right mind can you think its ok to tell a guy you supposedly have feelings for about other guys.. I mean it seems every girl Ive dated and every girlfriend Ive ever had seems to think that its ok to talk to me about a guy she works with or goes to school with and know he likes her.All my friends and other guys Ive talked to say that they have the same experiences.

How would girls like it if the guy they liked would tell them about the hot chick at work passing by him rubbing her breast against him then saying "oh Im Sorry" as if not on purpose. Hell no, I would never tell my girfriend about that.It means nothing to me so why bring it up. But yet a girl would be quik to tell a guy about something a guy did and then wonder why her boyfriend gets mad at her.
Forget about confidence or Insecurity,No man likes this.Hes wither gonna say something about it or keep quit and then explode in the long run. Ladies, now you know. Dont Do It.

2006-10-25 16:44:13 · 19 answers · asked by rock_roll_musicman 2

im going for an 80s punker look

black miniskirt
fishnets
thigh high boots
ac/dc shirt

2006-10-25 16:43:32 · 9 answers · asked by Damn Dirty Ape 1

i never liked doing that before but my fiance i love doing it.

2006-10-25 16:41:11 · 14 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2

Why will a young woman act all into a guy and tell him that she is really interested and falling in love with him.. and then... Not go out of her way to see him and spend time with him or seem interested in doing things together... Why would these actions repeat over and over again ladies?

2006-10-25 16:41:11 · 9 answers · asked by quillsie726 1